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Tully (2018)

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Justin Young Justin Young NewcomerOP
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Quote : Tully is an upcoming American comedy-dram film directed by Jason Reitman and written by Diablo Cody. Starring Charlize Theron, Mackenzie Davis, Mark Duplass and Ron Livingston, it's basically about a mom of three and her sitter navigating life together... The film premiered AT The 2018 Sundance film festival. Looks like Focus Features on april 20 is when we actually get to see it.

Justin Young Justin Young NewcomerOP
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I was actually pleasantly surprised—definitely better than I expected... That plot twist hits hard, and Charlize Theron deserves all the credit for her physical transformation. My only gripe is that they basically gave away all the funny bits in the trailer; it would’ve been better to save those for the actual movie, since seeing them early kind of kills the momentum...

Anyone else catch this one yet? What did you think?
vividwolf9 vividwolf9 Newcomer
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I always watch the trailer first whenever I’m on the fence about whether a movie is actually worth downloading. Even though I’ve got high-speed fiber and plenty of storage, I hate wasting bandwidth, taxing my CPU, or sitting around waiting for a massive download to finish just to realize the movie sucks. So, I check the preview first to see if there's anything even remotely interesting.
To my absolute shock, this trailer looked like some breezy, semi-animated comedy with a few cute moments that—given how insanely long this summer heatwave has been—might actually be a decent way to kill time. I downloaded it, hit play, and honestly? Within minutes, I was physically cringing from pure boredom. It turns out those "great" scenes were just two or three highlights they crammed into the trailer to trick suckers into dropping cash on a theater ticket. I shut it off immediately, tossed the file into the trash, and emptied my recycle bin.
Ashley Grant66 Ashley Grant66 Member
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Wonderful.
Ashley Bailey6 Ashley Bailey6 Active Member
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I think you’d actually have to be a woman to truly get a movie like this.
Jesse Thomas7 Jesse Thomas7 Active Member
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Ashley Grant66 said:Lovely.

...just enough to kill any lingering desire to reproduce. 🙂

Just kidding. (Or maybe I'm not entirely joking)

Yeah, it flows beautifully and the pacing is spot on—subtle, gentle, and totally lacking in melodrama (which is a miracle given how wild the twist is), and both characters are just stellar (Mackenzie is such a freaking gem 😍 ).

Honestly, why does it have to be a woman who actually gets this or experiences it? 🤷

I hear stories about women tearing through Westerns or prison dramas without a single female lead, or watching baseball movies without knowing a single rule, and still walking away totally understanding the soul of the story. 👋
Joshua Smith5 Joshua Smith5 Active Member
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It's because of the patriarchy.
Hannah Kim45 Hannah Kim45 Newcomer
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Such a great movie. There was one moment where I was just totally lost, but then the plot twist hit 🙂 and everything finally clicked. Overall, it's really good.

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darklynx21 darklynx21 Newcomer
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A beautiful film. 😍 The acting was top-notch, and there were plenty of touching moments... without spoiling anything regarding that scene in the high school with her, the little one, and the teacher—everything is fine, you don't need to go see it just to build a tree 🙂

My only real gripe might be how much the brother and the husband look alike, especially when they aren't in the same shot. 🙂
I don't want to spoil anything for those who haven't seen it yet, so I'll hold back on asking when you all figured certain things out 🕺 but what's certain is this—I guess no Reitman's film has ever disappointed me. 👍

Nadan hopes it isn't just a fluke, but even I wondered if maybe only empathetic men can truly connect with this film, or if it's primarily for a female audience. 🤷
Hannah Kim45 Hannah Kim45 Newcomer
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I didn't quite catch everything before the movie ended 🤣

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darklynx21 darklynx21 Newcomer
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Hannah Kim45 said:I didn't quite grasp the ending until the very end of the film 🤣

Well, I feel a bit better now that it's cleared up. 🙂Spoiler alert I was also stuck at the end—that scene at the kid's birthday party where the brother and husband are talking, and the brother is just completely blindsided.
I wish I'd understood sooner because that 'waitress scene' in bed was just... wow. Total WTF moment. Honestly, I don't think Tully had ever even seen anything like that before, but look at her go. 😁


Another standout moment for me was when she rings the doorbell at her old apartment building in NYC to see her former roommate, looking at that entryway... it really drives home that whole idea that you can't ever truly go back to who you were.
Hannah Kim45 Hannah Kim45 Newcomer
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darklynx21 said:That’s a relief to hear. 🙂spoiler I also felt that way toward the end—that scene at the kid's birthday party where the brother and husband talk, and the brother is just stunned.
I wish I had known sooner, because that "waitress scene" in bed was just... gross. Especially since Tully had never seen anything like that before. 😁

I almost stopped watching the movie right around there. 🤣

When they were at the rock concert, I honestly thought maybe some random woman from the street had just wandered in.

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darklynx21 darklynx21 Newcomer
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Hannah Kim45 said:I almost stopped watching the movie right about there.🤣

Me too. And honestly, I’d consider myself pretty conservative.😁
Maybe it’s just a weird compulsion, but I can’t seem to pull myself away from a film even after I've already seen the ending.🕺
Hannah Kim45 said:When the rock music started, all I could think was that they looked like some random woman off the street who maybe just showed up by accident.

🤣
Hannah Kim45 Hannah Kim45 Newcomer
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darklynx21 said:Me too! Honestly, am I being way too conservative? 😁
Siri, what kind of sickness is this where I can't even stop watching a movie once I've already seen half of it? 🕺

🤣

I had the exact same thought. But I just figured, why not? Since I liked the movie up to that point, I decided to stick it out until the end. Even if I was hating it halfway through. Can you imagine me looking like this emoji 🍿 just aggressively shoving popcorn into my mouth while still staring at the screen? 🤣

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Jesse Thomas7 Jesse Thomas7 Active Member
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darklynx21 said:Honestly, same here! And I actually consider myself pretty conservative when it comes to this stuff 😁
Siri, what kind of sickness is this where I just can't bring myself to turn off a movie even after I've already seen what happens 🕺

🤣

SPOILERS AHEAD!

Come on, that one scene was nothing—it was practically tame. Even if it had been what people say it was, it doesn't hold a candle to the absolute mountain of twisted scenes you see everywhere these days. 🙂

What really trips me out is how, for the first time ever, I actually caught onto what was happening right during that specific scene. It’s not even about the fact that I realized it, but more about how the hell the writer managed to pull off such a brilliant, spot-on realization and then just completely wipe it from my brain with the next few scenes? It was like the thought never even existed, keeping me totally oblivious until they finally dropped that girl's maiden name.
darklynx21 darklynx21 Newcomer
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Nicole Jones13 said:SPOILERS AHEAD!
Honestly, that one scene is nothing—it’s practically a walk in the park compared to the pile of truly twisted scenes scattered all over the place. 🙂
What I find interesting is how, for the first time during that specific moment, I actually had the realization of what was really going on. It isn't so much that the thought occurred to me, but rather how on earth the director managed to wipe it from my mind so effectively with the following scenes. It was as if the thought never existed, maintaining that illusion right up until the girl's last name is revealed.

I guess I wouldn't have been nearly as shocked if I'd gone into a movie like this thinking 🙂 spoiler and I felt bad for Tully, like she's being exploited for every single trope; this is my husband loves X and Y, just sit down and take it. 😁
Well, you suspected it pretty quickly, even if they did manage to convince you otherwise later on. 🙂


In the end, the most striking part for me was that scene near the end where the husband and sister are in the hospital; when he tells her he can't believe she left the kids alone in the middle of the night, and she responds by asking if they weren't home, implying they weren't actually alone. He just admits she's right. I suppose it just shows that regardless of how progressive society gets or how modern marriages become, childcare still feels like it's primarily a woman's burden.😉
Jesse Thomas7 Jesse Thomas7 Active Member
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darklynx21 said:Honestly, the scene that really stuck with me was that final moment in the hospital between the husband and his sister; when he tells her he can't believe she left the kids alone in the middle of the night, and she just hits him with, "Wait, weren't you guys home? They weren't alone." And he's just like, "Yeah, you're right"—and it’s those little things that drive home how, despite all our talk about modern marriages and how progressive society supposedly is, the actual heavy lifting of childcare still falls squarely on women's shoulders 😉

As for the husband and his whole lack of a role, I didn't even feel it. It wasn't even enough for me to get angry at him or wish he’d done something differently or even bother questioning his presence. He’s just this totally bland, faceless guy who goes to work while the Tully situation unfolds, asks if things are okay here and there, and just drifts through the background while the plot happens. (I mean, by the end of the movie, even he probably forgot he was actually in the film because he was so damn invisible. 🤣 )

But even with that, I didn't walk away feeling like the movie was some critique of disengaged moms or just a giant sob story about how parenting is "women's work."

And please, don't try to tell me that was the underlying theme or the main driving force, because if you do, the movie immediately becomes a lot worse in my eyes. 🤣
darklynx21 darklynx21 Newcomer
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Nicole Jones13 said:Even so, I didn't really see the movie as some sort of critique aimed at disengaged dads, nor did it strike me as a complaint about how childcare is supposedly a woman's job.
Don't go telling me that it was all driven by one single guiding principle, because if you do, I might actually have to admit it wasn't that good. 🤣

I honestly don't think they've read a single movie review in their life. This is just my own take on that one scene—it might not even align with what the director intended, I guess. 😉 She was basically on her own through the whole thing. She ended up in the hospital with a diagnosis of total burnout and sleep deprivation, and the guy she lives with didn't even notice. I guess he just wasn't paying attention.🙄 Then again, you’ve got the whole "absent husband" situation to contend with. 🙂 She told the hospital staff that she’d been struggling with postpartum depression after having her second child, so I suppose there's an official diagnosis of a mental health condition on record. 🤷
Joshua Patel6 Joshua Patel6 Member
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I just finished watching it, and honestly, it was a solid film. As expected, Charlize Theron’s performance was absolutely stellar; I have to take my hat off to her for putting on the weight again—she truly goes to extremes for her roles, doesn't she?
The direction really captured that suffocating feeling of a mother under constant pressure from childcare and endless housework. It also did a great job highlighting the social divide in America—that friction between the ultra-wealthy elite and the middle class, which was clearly illustrated through her family versus her brother's family.

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Now, if I’m being critical, the subplot involving her son felt poorly executed. There's this vague sense that something is wrong with him—perhaps ADHD or some other neurodivergence—but the movie never quite commits to explaining it. Then there’s the whole situation with her doppelgänger, Tully, which relied on some pretty tired clichés. You know the drill: the mom finally snaps, so naturally, she heads out and drinks like a fish. It felt far too predictable for me. Also, Marlo works like a woman possessed all night long (playing Tully) yet somehow wakes up looking refreshed and perfectly rested, as if she’d just had a full eight hours of sleep! And don't even get me started on that bizarre scene where Tully, dressed as a waitress, jumps on Marlo's husband... I was sitting there thinking, "WTF?" Any rational man would be terrified if a complete stranger tried to sneak into his bed.😁 At that point, I started suspecting the entire "night nanny" premise might have been somewhat fabricated by the writers just to drive the plot forward.

I’d give it a 7/10.
Nancy Williams58 Nancy Williams58 Active Member
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I don't know what to tell you about Fleur Amour. It’s one of those things where people try to make it sound all high-end and sophisticated, but honestly? It feels like they're just selling you a fancy label and hoping you don't notice the substance isn't actually there. It's like buying a designer shirt from a big department store in New York that looks great on the mannequin, but the second you put it on, you realize the stitching is cheap and it's going to fall apart after two washes. It's all vibes and no grit. People get caught up in the aesthetic, thinking that if it looks polished, it must be premium. But I've always been a bit more skeptical of stuff that tries that hard to look "perfect." Real quality doesn't usually need to scream it from the rooftops with such a curated, artificial persona. Just my two cents. kaže:
Just finished watching it—solid flick. As expected, Charlize Theron absolutely kills it. Honestly, I’ve gotta tip my hat to her; she goes through all that weight gain just to nail a role, and she’s done it more times than I can count. Respect.
The way they staged those scenes—showing her totally spiraling under the pressure of juggling the kids and all that endless housework—was honestly spot on. It really hammers home that whole American social divide, too. You’ve got this glaring gap between the people who have everything handed to them and everyone else just trying to keep their heads above water. It’s clearly playing out through the contrast between her family and her brother’s family, showing how differently they're navigating that middle-class grind.

Heads up: spoilers ahead.

It’s just a bummer, honestly. They totally botched the whole dynamic with her son—there's clearly something going on there, but they keep it so vague it's frustrating. Is it ADHD? Some other disorder? Who knows, because they won't tell you. And don't even get me started on the whole thing with her doppelgänger, Tully. It was such a tired cliché, that whole "I've had enough" moment where she decides to head out and get absolutely trashed. Like, we saw that coming from a mile away. Too predictable. Then you've got Marlo, who spends the entire night acting like a total maniac in Tully's role, yet somehow wakes up looking perfectly refreshed, like she just had a solid eight hours of sleep. It makes zero sense. Also, that scene where Tully puts on a waitress outfit and jumps on Marlo's husband? Total WTF moment. Seriously, any normal guy would be terrified if some random woman tried to slide into his bed like that. 😁 Something about this whole night nanny story just feels off to me. Like, I don't know, the math isn't mathing. It honestly smells like someone just made the whole thing up from scratch.

I’d give it a solid 7/10.

Solid flick. Honestly, I’d probably land on the same rating myself.

Just to circle back on that point you made about what makes this bad—I don't see why revealing the core mystery is necessary. Why even bother? The movie doesn't explicitly lay it all out anyway. And that whole "fresh and well-rested" vibe? Yeah, pass. A good movie should mess with your head, playing those little mind games while it unfolds. That’s just how cinema works, in my book. I will give you one thing, though—that drinking scene was definitely a bit cliché.

And that whole thing you’re saying about your husband—look, let's be real here. It's not like some random woman just swooped in and stole his attention out of nowhere. 🙂

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