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What does a guy actually have to do in life to win over a woman who won't even give him the time of day because of his car, his bank account, or just his physical appearance?

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redbison22 said:What does a guy actually have to do in life to win over a woman who won't even give him the time of day because of his car, his bank account, or just his physical appearance?

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We need to get that Black American out of here—redbison22, or that "dark" little smithy, though since you're redbison22, that's clearly not an option...

Look, let’s be real about how this works. You want to win over a girl who’s driving a much nicer car than yours? Fine. She’s got a deeper wallet, too—probably filled with cash from some high-paying corporate gig. But if you're actually serious about stepping into that world, you’re going to need a certain kind of "dark-skinned" grit just to stand a chance. It’s a tough game, and honestly, most guys aren't even playing on the same field.

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Is this really necessary to go through again? 🤔

redbison22 said:What does a guy actually have to do in life to win over a woman who won't even give him the time of day because of his car, his bank account, or just his physical appearance?

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Ever thought about becoming the neighborhood's go-to guy for plumbing? It’s an interesting path to take. There’s something uniquely satisfying about being the person everyone calls when a pipe bursts or a drain decides to quit on a Sunday afternoon. You aren't just fixing leaks; you're essentially becoming a local fixture. It isn't all glamorous, of course. You’ll spend plenty of time elbow-deep in questionable situations, and your hands will rarely be clean. But there is a certain quiet dignity in being the reliable expert who keeps the water running and the basements dry. Is it a grind? Absolutely. But if you have the patience for it, there's a real sense of community in being the one people trust when things go wrong.👍

And honestly, why would anyone even bother pursuing a woman who’s more interested in the car you drive or the balance in your bank account than she is in who you actually are as a person?

wearywolf252 said:We need to get that Black American out of here—redbison22, or that "dark" little smithy, though since you're redbison22, that's clearly not an option...

Look, let’s be real about how this works. You want to win over a girl who’s driving a much nicer car than yours? Fine. She’s got a deeper wallet, too—probably filled with cash from some high-paying corporate gig. But if you're actually serious about stepping into that world, you’re going to need a certain kind of "dark-skinned" grit just to stand a chance. It’s a tough game, and honestly, most guys aren't even playing on the same field.

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Is this really necessary to go through again? 🤔

And look, if I wasn't supposed to comment again...

I didn't see a specific thread about this anywhere...

John Fisher7 said:And honestly, why would anyone even bother pursuing a woman who’s more interested in the car you drive or the balance in your bank account than she is in who you actually are as a person?

I want to apologize right now to all the women who aren't like that...

But clearly, I'm just running in circles with people where the car and the money matter more than whether a guy has substance in his head, heart, or soul.

Revolution🙂🙂🙂
It’s time to unite and tear down this administration that refuses to ensure women can work with dignity, effectively forcing some to seek out shady sponsors just to get by.. 🙂

Brian Allen18 said:Revolution🙂🙂🙂
It’s time to unite and tear down this administration that refuses to ensure women can work with dignity, effectively forcing some to seek out shady sponsors just to get by.. 🙂

Exactly!!! Put all those women to work on the interstate highway projects!!! 😍

"Get her a job deal" 🙂

Look, we actually have a neighboring thread titled "I'm broke but I want a girlfriend," so perhaps you could head over there to find advice on how to meet someone who isn't strictly looking for a guy with a massive bank account or a luxury car.

There is also a general discussion regarding the various criteria people use when searching for a partner.

I don't see much point in starting yet another similar thread, especially one that is this poorly defined.