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driftinggull82 driftinggull82 Newcomer
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joined Nov 2014
#5861 ·
Has anyone here actually worked with Bonačić? I'm planning a wedding for this September out near San Diego, so I'm really looking for some solid recommendations...

You should definitely check out Sanja Lydia. She's originally from San Diego and her work is absolutely fantastic 😉
cosmicsurfer17 cosmicsurfer17 Member
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joined Jan 2014
#5862 ·
Hannah Murphy11 said:After several weeks of walking around and scouting for the right photographer, I’ve finally put together my full review of everything I’ve observed—and believe me, I’ve seen quite a lot. I truly hope this proves useful to anyone else out there, and perhaps, by documenting it all like this, I can finally make sense of my own impressions too.

Getty Images I was looking at a photography and basic video bundle priced at $1,850, which honestly seems like a reasonable deal on paper. Mike seems like an absolute legend—his shots are stunning, and the video work he’s posted on Vimeo is nothing short of perfection. However, after hearing a mountain of horror stories from various sources, I’ve decided to pass on them entirely. From what I can gather, those videos uploaded to Vimeo are actually just the work of Matthew and some other guy who started their own studio called Pixar. The rumors floating around are pretty damning: people are reporting massive delays of five to nine months just to get their photos back, instances where names were misspelled on the actual DVDs, and technical issues where the discs skip constantly. To make matters worse, word is that the actual editing of the footage and photos is being handed off to college students who have absolutely no idea what they are doing. It's just too much of a risk.
Pixar I only saw some of their photos on Facebook, and they honestly look incredible. They sent over a full proposal to my inbox, and the starting price for their basic photo and video package is around $2,200. Unfortunately, they’re already booked for my specific date, so I don't have any more details to share beyond that.
Ivan It’s a flat fee of 1,600 Euros just for the photography. If that sounds like a bargain to you, then by all means, go right ahead!
Fruit of the Loom Studio The basic photo and video package is priced at $2,000. I actually took a look at two wedding galleries they sent over to my email via their online portal. To be perfectly honest, I don’t see what the big deal is; personally, I found them to be somewhat cliché. I also haven't been able to determine if posing direction is included in their services, as I didn't see any shots like that in the galleries, on their blog, or even on their official website. In my estimation, it is far too expensive for the value they are providing, even if the majority of people seem to love their work.
Bonacci Studios I just looked over a photo and video package priced at $1,500. The guy is genuinely personable, his work is technically solid, and I find the price point to be quite reasonable. However, for some reason, I just wasn't blown away by it—I can't quite put my finger on what's missing. That being said, it is definitely worth checking out; I am certain there is someone out there who will absolutely love his style.
Julia's Studio First of all, this guy refuses to even email you a quote; he insists that you show up in person just to talk business. He doesn't have any standardized packages or set pricing structures, which leads me to believe he just pulls numbers out of thin air on the spot. For instance, he told my friend and me that our "special friends price" would be $1,800. It makes me wonder what kind of ridiculous rates he’s quoting everyone else. To make matters more complicated, he brings his wife along to these meetings, so you end up dealing with two photographers and one videographer. He tries to convince us that having two photographers at a wedding is essential while insisting that a single camera is plenty for video. Other professionals say the exact opposite, and frankly, I can't tell who is lying and who is just delusional. We didn't even get to see an actual physical album—just some sample books, photo slideshows, and videos. While the photos themselves are decent, the videos are nothing special. The man was incredibly grating with his constant bragging; he kept acting like he had watched a specific video a hundred times already, only to suddenly get all emotional about it again, crying, "My God, this brought tears to my eyes!" Even though I’m usually a crier, I honestly didn't find anything remotely touching about it. I actually sat down and watched an entire DVD from one of his weddings, and if I were rating him, I’d give him a +2/-3. As for the parent albums? A total disaster. They are hands down the worst we've ever seen. He even claimed they don't even produce specialized albums for parents. When we asked if we could suggest the music for the trailer or certain segments of the wedding video, he told us we could make suggestions, but ultimately, his word is final. Apparently, he used to work at Getty Images.
Getty Images by Tony They offer several different packages consisting of photo albums, coffee table books, and video services. For my part, the most impressive combination—which bundles a high-end album with a full video package—is priced at $1,700. This setup includes one dedicated photographer and one videographer; if you need to add extra staff for larger groups, it’s an additional $250 per person. I have to say, the photography itself is among the absolute best we’ve ever seen. You won't find much of his work posted on Facebook, so I highly recommend scheduling an in-person meeting to see his portfolio. He operates out of a studio in San Francisco. During our consultation, he walked us through two beautiful books and some cinematic clips, though we haven't had the chance to inspect a physical album yet. The guy is incredibly personable and genuinely eager to collaborate. On top of that, he has professional experience working for Getty Images.
Studio Smile The base photo and video package starts at $1,700 (which includes one photographer and one videographer). We actually sat down for a consultation with Ranko Pupić, who runs the studio. Honestly, the meeting was incredibly awkward because he spent the entire time belittling all his competitors while constantly bragging about himself. We sat there for nearly two hours, and the man did nothing but talk about his own work and his past footage. Now, I will be perfectly clear: the guy produces flawless videos. He utilizes every high-end tool imaginable—steady cams, cranes, even helicopters. However, there is a massive catch with the pricing. If you want a "love story" highlight reel, that’s an extra $275. If you want to use the helicopter, add another $165. And if you have more than 150 guests, he recommends bringing in a second videographer, which will cost you an additional $500. You can find examples of his work on Facebook. It is abundantly obvious that he lives and breathes video production, whereas photography seems like an afterthought to him. While we were flipping through the sample albums, he was busy chatting on his cell phone. I was absolutely appalled when I saw how they handled the presentation—they had a single photograph taped directly onto the inside cover page! It looked incredibly unprofessional. Furthermore, there wasn't a single black-and-white shot in the entire album. To put it bluntly: the photos are mediocre, the videos are top-tier, and the man is exhausting to deal with. Ultimately, everything revolves around his specific way of doing things. Vedran Vidak is an option if you want to hire him as a standalone photographer; he charges between $850 and $1,100 depending on which parent or wedding party albums you select. Basically, if you book Studio Smile, Vedran Vidak will likely be the one behind the lens, but you have the flexibility to hire him separately and find someone else to handle the video.
Ante Gašpar offers a photo and video package for $1,300, which includes an additional follow-up session the next day for $333. He is a very down-to-earth, modest family man who previously worked for the local studio in San Francisco. We had a look at his albums and books, and I must say, the photography is among the best we've seen. He has quite a large portfolio on Facebook, and the shots are truly stunning. My only gripe was that some of his pages felt a bit cluttered because there were too many photos packed in (the album has about 300 shots), and just like with the previous guy, a photo was taped to the back cover next to the binding. It feels like he’s incredibly accommodating—he'll do whatever you ask. He works alongside Miljenko Marin for video. From what I observed, they only use a single camera without a tripod, so the video quality is just mediocre. Even the DVD cover looked honestly pathetic, and the main menu on the disc actually says "best off" (yes, with two 'f's). So, the bottom line: the photos are amazing, the video isn't great, but the price is unbeatable.
Photo Studio Zumba offers a wide variety of packages; a solid combination would likely run you between $1,500 and $1,750. For a change of pace, this studio is run by a woman named Dražena. She is very personable and open to collaborating and implementing ideas from her clients. Looking through their albums, we saw a mix of absolutely perfect shots and total disasters. However, I did catch a video of theirs on Vimeo, and it was genuinely impressive.
Photo Marino—I’m not certain on the exact pricing, but I believe it’s around $1,300. If you book them, Gašpar can coordinate with them to handle a follow-up session the following day. We took a look at an album and a DVD from one of their weddings, and frankly, those were the worst photos and videos we have ever encountered, so we decided to cancel our meeting with them.
Studio Forever seems to be a photographer who is just starting out on his own. He mentioned working somewhere else previously, though he didn't specify where. His all-inclusive live package is priced at a very reasonable $1,100. He showed us a "best of" album featuring various wedding shots, mostly posed portraits. There were some truly beautiful images, and I believe he has real potential, but since we haven't seen a full wedding coverage, I can't say for sure how his documentary-style candid shots turn out. We also watched his video work, and it seemed quite good.

There is also Studio Bora—I checked out their website, and I really like their style. I can't recall the exact pricing, though, as I can't find their quote online. Studio Megagraf also offers a million different packages, with prices ranging from $1,100 to over $2,200. I don't have any specific details or impressions regarding these last two because I haven't seen their work in person.

I hope this breakdown proves useful to someone! Personally, I am currently torn between Tony and Ante, so any suggestions, advice, or extra info would be greatly appreciated.

We actually used them ourselves and were beyond happy. We went big—got a large album, parent albums, and a photo book.
Not a single complaint from our side. One of the DVDs we got (out of the six) wouldn't open properly, but they sent us a replacement immediately. They hit their deadlines, too; the photos were ready in less than three months, and they actually checked if we were satisfied before they even processed the payment. 👍

If you book them along with the band Kocka, apparently there's some kind of discount—I'm not sure exactly how much, since we went with a different band.😉
George Carter462 George Carter462 Newcomer
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joined Dec 2013
#5863 ·
Has anyone here ever used a photo booth? I’m trying to figure out what the going rate is and what the options look like—like, do you usually book one through a photographer or just rent them separately? Thanks!
Sam Newman4 Sam Newman4 Newcomer
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joined Nov 2014
#5864 ·
Hey, I was wondering if anyone here has been to a Miro Boem concert before? Any thoughts? Also, has anyone attended a wedding where they used a DJ paired with a live band? And finally, has anyone heard of the band Jukebox?
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David King72 David King72 Regular
299 messages
joined Apr 2008
#5865 ·
Sam Newman4 said:Hey, I was wondering if anyone here has been to a Miro Boem concert before? Any thoughts? Also, has anyone attended a wedding where they used a DJ paired with a live band? And finally, has anyone heard of the band Jukebox?
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As for me, I’ve seen Miro Boem play, and honestly, he absolutely kills it.
Sam Newman4 Sam Newman4 Newcomer
2 messages
joined Nov 2014
#5866 ·
What about the Jukebox group?
nimbleharbor48 nimbleharbor48 Newcomer
2 messages
joined Nov 2014
#5867 ·
Betty Davis93 said:I actually hired them for my own wedding—honestly, they were fantastic. I was so happy with everything we did together...

Thanks!
Gregory White11 Gregory White11 Newcomer
1 message
joined Nov 2014
#5868 ·
Joshua Perez122 said:We just booked the sky and now we're starting the hunt for the perfect band..
We've got Bravo Band on our minds, so if anyone could share some recent experiences with them, that would be amazing. We've already reached out and talked numbers. My musical taste is kind of all over the place—a mix of everything local and international, I guess. Thanks so much!

Hey, could you let me know what the pricing looks like at Sky and what kind of menus they offer?
stormysurfer40 stormysurfer40 Newcomer
7 messages
joined Aug 2009
#5869 ·
Does anyone happen to know where I can pick up some reasonably priced drinks to bring home—ideally somewhere with a policy where whatever isn't consumed can be returned?
William Mitchell5 William Mitchell5 Member
21 messages
joined Aug 2014
#5870 ·
As far as I know, you can just return whatever you don't finish at a Starbucks. A buddy of mine actually made me one exactly like that once...
electriccobra9 electriccobra9 Newcomer
3 messages
joined Dec 2014
#5871 ·
Hey Spelman folks,

Can anyone here give me a breakdown of the cakes and treats from Cream of the Cream versus the Confectionery?

I'd love to hear your thoughts.

I’ve seen plenty of chatter about the Confectionery on this board, but almost nothing about Cream of the Cream.
Anthony Morales98 Anthony Morales98 Newcomer
3 messages
joined Dec 2014
#5872 ·
Hey there, you aspiring pyros,

I’ve scrolled through pretty much this entire thread, but since the original post was started over five years ago, things have gotten a bit messy. There’s a ton of conflicting info and nothing but heated personal opinions floating around regarding the quality of wedding bands out there. I don't want to ramble too much, though—I just need some solid advice. I’m looking for recommendations that hit these specific requirements:

I'm looking for some band recommendations. Ideally, it could be a trio or something around that size. Here’s what I’m looking for:

Let them play. It’s just common sense.I’m not talking about that gritty, low-budget stuff or those overproduced modern pop tracks. I mean the old-school classics from legends like Madonna, Harris, Kitty, and Zdravkovic—plus all those hits covered back in the golden era of the early 2000s by guys like Duško Kuliš or Matthew and Bran. The whole point is that the heartbeat of those songs was the accordion, not some cheap synthesizer. It was all about that raw, soulful rhythm. Usually, just two notes played with a long, drawn-out arrangement.
Make sure you get both female and male vocals.
Stop acting like you're rock stars just because you played some local festival hosted by the biggest bakery in town. Don't get too big for your boots and refuse to play a quick encore or rerun that one song that actually got the crowd hyped.
Price isn't really my main concern here, but I definitely want to avoid getting ripped off. I don't want to end up in that awkward spot where I'm paying top dollar just to have them act like they own me and start dictating terms.
5. Location - San Francisco.

Thanks in advance!

Anthony Morales98
analogtiger343 analogtiger343 Newcomer
5 messages
joined Oct 2014
#5873 ·
Anthony Morales98 said:Hey there, you aspiring pyros,

I’ve scrolled through pretty much this entire thread, but since the original post was started over five years ago, things have gotten a bit messy. There’s a ton of conflicting info and nothing but heated personal opinions floating around regarding the quality of wedding bands out there. I don't want to ramble too much, though—I just need some solid advice. I’m looking for recommendations that hit these specific requirements:

I'm looking for some band recommendations. Ideally, it could be a trio or something around that size. Here’s what I’m looking for:

Let them play. It’s just common sense.I’m not talking about that gritty, low-budget stuff or those overproduced modern pop tracks. I mean the old-school classics from legends like Madonna, Harris, Kitty, and Zdravkovic—plus all those hits covered back in the golden era of the early 2000s by guys like Duško Kuliš or Matthew and Bran. The whole point is that the heartbeat of those songs was the accordion, not some cheap synthesizer. It was all about that raw, soulful rhythm. Usually, just two notes played with a long, drawn-out arrangement.
Make sure you get both female and male vocals.
Stop acting like you're rock stars just because you played some local festival hosted by the biggest bakery in town. Don't get too big for your boots and refuse to play a quick encore or rerun that one song that actually got the crowd hyped.
Price isn't really my main concern here, but I definitely want to avoid getting ripped off. I don't want to end up in that awkward spot where I'm paying top dollar just to have them act like they own me and start dictating terms.
5. Location - San Francisco.

Thanks in advance!

Anthony Morales98


Look, it’s pretty simple: you can find lists of bands online, including trios or duos. Just call them up, ask what they offer, and see if it aligns with what you want. If you find a match, book them, pay them, and call it a day. However, if you’re actually looking to mentally break a band or just go on some kind of wild power trip, you’re better off just hiring a DJ. A DJ will play exactly what you want, whereas no band can work strictly according to the instructions of someone who isn't musically educated—and honestly, it shows in your post, given how much you're mixing up terms and being a bit incoherent. That's not an insult, mind you; being musically uneducated happens. It's like how I'm not a doctor, so when I'm sick, I go to a professional to help me get better instead of trying to prescribe my own medication. It's the exact same thing with a band.
Don't forget, people need jobs, so most will take the gig, so first check if they actually have your requested songs in their repertoire, and if they do, iron out the details and just let them do their thing... and hey, try not to be rude. If you think everything they play is garbage, feel free to record your own song and prove you're better. You're paying for a service, not buying the right to treat them like crap.
silentfalcon61 silentfalcon61 Newcomer
1 message
joined Dec 2014
#5874 ·
Hi everyone,

I was wondering if anyone could recommend a band based out of the San Francisco area. I'm looking for a group that leans more heavily into the rock genre.

I reached out to Jessy Band, but they're already booked up. Does anyone know of a group with a similar vibe?
Noah Wright4 Noah Wright4 Active Member
71 messages
joined Mar 2012
#5875 ·
silentfalcon61 said:Hi everyone,

I was wondering if anyone could recommend a band based out of the San Francisco area. I'm looking for a group that leans more heavily into the rock genre.

I reached out to Jessy Band, but they're already booked up. Does anyone know of a group with a similar vibe?

Pink Panther then 👍
Chris Morgan Chris Morgan Active Member
59 messages
joined Feb 2014
#5876 ·
analogtiger343 said:Look, it’s pretty simple: you can find lists of bands online, including trios or duos. Just call them up, ask what they offer, and see if it aligns with what you want. If you find a match, book them, pay them, and call it a day. However, if you’re actually looking to mentally break a band or just go on some kind of wild power trip, you’re better off just hiring a DJ. A DJ will play exactly what you want, whereas no band can work strictly according to the instructions of someone who isn't musically educated—and honestly, it shows in your post, given how much you're mixing up terms and being a bit incoherent. That's not an insult, mind you; being musically uneducated happens. It's like how I'm not a doctor, so when I'm sick, I go to a professional to help me get better instead of trying to prescribe my own medication. It's the exact same thing with a band.
Don't forget, people need jobs, so most will take the gig, so first check if they actually have your requested songs in their repertoire, and if they do, iron out the details and just let them do their thing... and hey, try not to be rude. If you think everything they play is garbage, feel free to record your own song and prove you're better. You're paying for a service, not buying the right to treat them like crap.

I honestly don't understand the point of all this.
For heaven's sake, we are talking about wedding guests, not a symphony concert. Why would anyone need musical expertise in this situation?!
I fail to see how requesting specific music constitutes any kind of abuse.
My own requirements are completely different (no country music, no repetitive tracks, no requests), and I certainly don't consider that to be offending anyone.
Additionally, I see very little difference between a DJ and a band regarding song selection. This is a private party where the newlyweds pay for someone to play the music they want, not to attend a concert.
analogtiger343 analogtiger343 Newcomer
5 messages
joined Oct 2014
#5877 ·
Chris Morgan said:I honestly don't understand the point of all this.
For heaven's sake, we are talking about wedding guests, not a symphony concert. Why would anyone need musical expertise in this situation?!
I fail to see how requesting specific music constitutes any kind of abuse.
My own requirements are completely different (no country music, no repetitive tracks, no requests), and I certainly don't consider that to be offending anyone.
Additionally, I see very little difference between a DJ and a band regarding song selection. This is a private party where the newlyweds pay for someone to play the music they want, not to attend a concert.

Bill, whether you're playing country hits at a wedding or performing classical pieces in a theater, you still have to know how to play, and you definitely have to know how to sing. You need a certain level of training for all of that, right?
Sure, there are hacks in every profession, and maybe even more so in music, but that's a whole different conversation...
There is also a massive distinction between a DJ and a live band... a DJ just hits play and grabs a drink while the band is actually out there performing live... that is a huge, huge difference...
Of course, weddings aren't meant to be someone else's concert...

The requirements you mentioned—"no country, no repeats, no requests"—are perfectly normal, but that wasn't what was being said in the post I was replying to. In that post, they were basically belittling musicians by saying they don't have any say in things, and claiming they should make their arrangements "two notes longer"—honestly, I have no clue how anyone could even compare that to anything; it makes zero sense. And don't even get me started on using the harmonica as a rhythmic instrument in a band... that isn't comparing apples to oranges, that's just plain ignorance... and the part about "when I'm paying, nobody tells me what to do" is just pure primitivism. It's like walking into a Ford dealership and saying, "Hey, I'm paying for this truck, so I want one seat red, one blue, and the third one yellow"... I mean, what do you expect them to say to that?
There’s a professional way of doing things that needs to be respected... because of that, a local DJ can show up with a laptop and some cheap speakers for a few hundred bucks and just blast MP3s, whereas being a musician is a real profession that gets valued because we're the kind of people who appreciate quality.
Chris Morgan Chris Morgan Active Member
59 messages
joined Feb 2014
#5878 ·
Actually, the post above states the exact opposite of what I wrote, though I don't see anything irrational about my stance. A person doesn't need a formal music degree to decide what kind of music they want at their wedding. In folk and country music, the accordion is a staple and certainly isn't easily replaced by cheap keyboard players, so I believe that is a perfectly reasonable request. Furthermore, while I personally prefer not to have the same song played repeatedly, I understand if someone else wants to hear a specific track five times; after all, the band is being paid to fulfill those requests.
It is quite beneath you to speak about DJs in such a manner. It seems hypocritical to protect the dignity of your own profession while simultaneously looking down on others.
analogtiger343 analogtiger343 Newcomer
5 messages
joined Oct 2014
#5879 ·
Chris Morgan said:Actually, the post above states the exact opposite of what I wrote, though I don't see anything irrational about my stance. A person doesn't need a formal music degree to decide what kind of music they want at their wedding. In folk and country music, the accordion is a staple and certainly isn't easily replaced by cheap keyboard players, so I believe that is a perfectly reasonable request. Furthermore, while I personally prefer not to have the same song played repeatedly, I understand if someone else wants to hear a specific track five times; after all, the band is being paid to fulfill those requests.
It is quite beneath you to speak about DJs in such a manner. It seems hypocritical to protect the dignity of your own profession while simultaneously looking down on others.

I don't actually work in that field, but I know enough to follow the conversation. The problem is that I’m saying one thing and you’re interpreting it as something entirely different; you're pulling words out of context, creating your own definitions, and then arguing against those instead of what I actually wrote. It feels pretty pointless to try and have a real debate with you when that's how you operate...🐔
Robert Bishop53 Robert Bishop53 Member
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joined Sep 2014
#5880 ·
Hey everyone, anyone here actually seen Aura live before? 🙂 I’m looking into more than just the vocals—I want to know if the vibe and energy they bring to the stage are worth the ticket. Thanks in advance! 🙂))

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