Fashion for curvy girls

Harold Cook2 said:They definitely have some pretty stuff there, I just don't get into the whole sizing or pricing thing myself.😛
How does this even work?

Like, how much would this specific bra end up costing once you factor in the size and all that? http://www.figleaves.com/uk/product/...=Multicoloured

I guess this size calculator is actually the most ideal one for me: I guess this site looks like it hasn't been updated since the nineties. Maybe it’s just old, but it feels pretty broken.

This is how I measure my chest circumference. I can't see the image you linked. Maybe try again? Or maybe I just missed it.

Once you plug your figures into the calculator, that first number—the one from the UK—is the one you actually need for today's page, I guess.

That badge you're looking at is only the top section. It ends up being about 28 pounds. I guess. $3.25I don't know exactly. I guess if you click "Select Size," you'll see what they have available for that bikini top. Maybe part of the lower section. I guess. This is just a bio. And it costs whatever it costs—which is quite a bit, I guess. 😁

Ordering bras online is risky, I guess. Manufacturers don't even stay consistent with sizing and stuff. But if that’s the only option available, it's fine. Plus, the selection is huge.

nimbleheron47 said:Thanks, everyone—really appreciate it! :nod:

This Figleaves thing is 😍 😍 😍!

I finally found something that should actually work (honestly, my heart might skip a beat). It’s even actually pretty!

I suppose I should mention they often have discount codes; maybe worth a quick search online. 😁

Dana Wilson said:Honestly, don't even bother. It’s all pretty meh, unfortunately...
What kind of sizes are you looking for though?

Everything looks decent enough online—though I haven't actually seen anything in person yet🤷
and the number is either 44 or 46😁

Adora carries some lovely pieces—they aren't cheap, mind you, but the quality is there—and they stock up to a G cup. I’m currently pregnant, and back when I was nursing, I managed to find an 80F there without any trouble. They used to have a storefront in New York, but that closed down. 😢 Plus, Marks & Spencer has a great selection too; I've seen them go up to a G. They usually arrive around $100. 🙂

dustycyclist72 said:Everything looks decent enough online—though I haven't actually seen anything in person yet🤷
and the number is either 44 or 46😁

Well, you can find 44 at the H&M near the mall. The one over by the Arena definitely has it, and CC1 East too... I haven't been to the others in ages, so I can't say for sure.

Back in the day—before they started selling nothing but rags—the H&M in Austria had this amazing "Big is Beautiful" section. You could actually find some decent stuff there. Nowadays, I rarely find anything I actually like at their stores. That said, I did manage to snag some pants this spring that aren't ridiculously short and don't gap at the waist. They fit beautifully, honestly. So, if you dig around, you might get lucky. But you have to hunt for it.

I'm currently on vacation. I'll probably just order from Figleaves once I'm back from the beach.

I recently ordered from this site: http://www.elvi.co.uk/. Shipping was fast and the sizing was spot on. Next time I'll probably go for a 16 since most of their stuff is stretchy—they even have elastic waistbands—so if you're between sizes, I'd recommend sizing down.
Prices are a bit steep, but you can find some reasonable deals during sales. And yeah, the cuts are mostly classic, but I dug up two lovely neutral skirts, one of which I absolutely adore. The clothes arrive neatly folded, and every single piece comes on its own hanger. 🙂 They even threw in a little gift. 😍
It seems like they’ve cleared out a lot of stock; the stuff left on the site is a bit quirky. But they aren't just selling junk, and this denim skirt looks even better in person. I’ll definitely be keeping an eye on them—they might have some great classic jackets, like these. Though, yeah, they do lean a bit towards the eccentric side. 😬

From what I can tell, this Figleaves site has some really pretty stuff, but man, those prices are just way too high 🤷
Here in the States, you don't see any H&M stores with a Buy It Back section 😉
Triumph also carries larger bra sizes—they actually go up to an F cup 😉

They’re pretty pricey, sure—but when you finally find that perfect H/J cup, you’re just lucky you can even order it somewhere. The selection isn't exactly massive, either. At least in this thread, we all get what it's like. 😉

And they throw in some extra nonsense too. Honestly, I wouldn't blink at spending $30 or so on that. It's not like I ever found anything significantly cheaper back when I used to have things custom-made...

Trust me, I've paid my fair share for bras over the years. 🤷

Look, you shouldn't tell someone with a size 11 foot that there's a huge selection of cute, affordable shoes in a size 8 at the local mall. Someone with an 11 is going to pay whatever it takes just because they actually found a shoe that fits their foot. That's just how it works.

The person wearing a size 8 will shop around to get the best deal. But the person wearing an 11? They'll buy whatever they can actually find.

I have a friend who's a size 11/12. She pays way more for shoes than I do. I mean, damn, she doesn't have a choice. If I told her those prices were too high, would that somehow help her squeeze her feet into a standard size 9? Probably not. 🤷

Anyway, I won't get too deep into it anymore. This has been a great thread—I've already gathered a bunch of links and tips on where to look and what to watch out for. You guys are awesome. 😍 😍 😍

I'll let everyone know how the quality is from Figleaves and if it's basically like armor 🤣 that keeps everything held firmly in place (which is the goal, since I look much smaller in stuff like that). I'm waiting until after my vacation to order, just so the package doesn't show up while I'm out of town.

nimbleheron47 said:Well, you can find 44 at the H&M near the mall. The one over by the Arena definitely has it, and CC1 East too... I haven't been to the others in ages, so I can't say for sure.

Back in the day—before they started selling nothing but rags—the H&M in Austria had this amazing "Big is Beautiful" section. You could actually find some decent stuff there. Nowadays, I rarely find anything I actually like at their stores. That said, I did manage to snag some pants this spring that aren't ridiculously short and don't gap at the waist. They fit beautifully, honestly. So, if you dig around, you might get lucky. But you have to hunt for it.

I'm currently on vacation. I'll probably just order from Figleaves once I'm back from the beach.

I recently ordered from this site: http://www.elvi.co.uk/. Shipping was fast and the sizing was spot on. Next time I'll probably go for a 16 since most of their stuff is stretchy—they even have elastic waistbands—so if you're between sizes, I'd recommend sizing down.
Prices are a bit steep, but you can find some reasonable deals during sales. And yeah, the cuts are mostly classic, but I dug up two lovely neutral skirts, one of which I absolutely adore. The clothes arrive neatly folded, and every single piece comes on its own hanger. 🙂 They even threw in a little gift. 😍
It seems like they’ve cleared out a lot of stock; the stuff left on the site is a bit quirky. But they aren't just selling junk, and this denim skirt looks even better in person. I’ll definitely be keeping an eye on them—they might have some great classic jackets, like these. Though, yeah, they do lean a bit towards the eccentric side. 😬

I know they carry 44 in the regular H&M section—that's where I usually shop—but I'd really love to check out that plus-size collection. I'll swing by the mall, thanks.😁

That Elvi site definitely has some pieces that are a bit too "grandma" for my taste, though they aren't outrageously expensive.
And they replied to me from that Simply Be page with nothing but a generic automated email. 😠
So, I sent them another one. 🙂

Signing off on this one for the BiB meetup in Austin..

So I took a quick little peek at Elva from the MOBA 👍
Think I’m gonna have to dive a bit deeper into her kit and actually study this stuff properly 😉

nimbleheron47 said:They’re pretty pricey, sure—but when you finally find that perfect H/J cup, you’re just lucky you can even order it somewhere. The selection isn't exactly massive, either. At least in this thread, we all get what it's like. 😉

And they throw in some extra nonsense too. Honestly, I wouldn't blink at spending $30 or so on that. It's not like I ever found anything significantly cheaper back when I used to have things custom-made...

Trust me, I've paid my fair share for bras over the years. 🤷

Look, you shouldn't tell someone with a size 11 foot that there's a huge selection of cute, affordable shoes in a size 8 at the local mall. Someone with an 11 is going to pay whatever it takes just because they actually found a shoe that fits their foot. That's just how it works.

The person wearing a size 8 will shop around to get the best deal. But the person wearing an 11? They'll buy whatever they can actually find.

I have a friend who's a size 11/12. She pays way more for shoes than I do. I mean, damn, she doesn't have a choice. If I told her those prices were too high, would that somehow help her squeeze her feet into a standard size 9? Probably not. 🤷

Anyway, I won't get too deep into it anymore. This has been a great thread—I've already gathered a bunch of links and tips on where to look and what to watch out for. You guys are awesome. 😍 😍 😍

I'll let everyone know how the quality is from Figleaves and if it's basically like armor 🤣 that keeps everything held firmly in place (which is the goal, since I look much smaller in stuff like that). I'm waiting until after my vacation to order, just so the package doesn't show up while I'm out of town.

Even though I’m not particularly curvy or big-footed, I second everything you said. My struggle is always with swimsuits—I’m a Small on the bottom, but a 34D or even a DD on top. Finding a bikini is a nightmare (though bras aren't quite as bad). Even now, with the trend of buying tops and bottoms separately, it’s still tough to find something that actually provides 🙂 support without looking totally cheap. So, like you, I don't really look at the price tag, and I certainly can't be picky about color or pattern—I just grab whatever fits and looks decent. 😳

dustycyclist72 said:I know they carry 44 in the regular H&M section—that's where I usually shop—but I'd really love to check out that plus-size collection. I'll swing by the mall, thanks.😁

That Elvi site definitely has some pieces that are a bit too "grandma" for my taste, though they aren't outrageously expensive.
And they replied to me from that Simply Be page with nothing but a generic automated email. 😠
So, I sent them another one. 🙂

I knew they’d give you a canned response like that, haha. 🤣 Just keep at them. We need to bug them until they actually change their minds. 😬

Yeah, Elvi is kind of tacky. But it’s decent for basics—you know, those black trousers, belted coats, and things like that—mostly because the material is actually good and they hang nicely. I picked up a classic black A-line midi skirt from them once (the link is dead now, out of stock). It doesn't even look like it came from Elvi. 🤣
They also had two or three really nice winter coats/jackets, but everything sold out so I can't find the links. They're fine if you're looking for more classic, neutral pieces. 🙂
Basically, they hooked me with the length of those skirts. Most knee-length skirts elsewhere feel more like minis on me, which isn't really my vibe unless I'm down at the beach in the summer. This black one hits right at the knee, which I love (the description lists the length, so I could measure it beforehand to see where it would land). Plus, the stretchy waistband means they don't slide around.

I think I've seen this link around here before, but take a look if you haven't yet. They have some cool stuff.http://www.yoursclothing.co.uk/

Though, personally, I still find converting UK sizes to US sizes a bit sketchy...

nimbleheron47 said:I knew they’d give you a canned response like that, haha. 🤣 Just keep at them. We need to bug them until they actually change their minds. 😬

Yeah, Elvi is kind of tacky. But it’s decent for basics—you know, those black trousers, belted coats, and things like that—mostly because the material is actually good and they hang nicely. I picked up a classic black A-line midi skirt from them once (the link is dead now, out of stock). It doesn't even look like it came from Elvi. 🤣
They also had two or three really nice winter coats/jackets, but everything sold out so I can't find the links. They're fine if you're looking for more classic, neutral pieces. 🙂
Basically, they hooked me with the length of those skirts. Most knee-length skirts elsewhere feel more like minis on me, which isn't really my vibe unless I'm down at the beach in the summer. This black one hits right at the knee, which I love (the description lists the length, so I could measure it beforehand to see where it would land). Plus, the stretchy waistband means they don't slide around.

we should collectively bombard them with emails 🥳
and I really hope they reconsider—they have some great pieces, especially the bras 😍

I am quite fond of that blue jacket/trench coat over at Elvi 😁
but their inventory is incredibly thin 🤷

For now, I'll stick to Lisc to find my bras and just pick up everything else at your standard department stores.

Michael Fisher8 said:I think I've seen this link around here before, but take a look if you haven't yet. They have some cool stuff.http://www.yoursclothing.co.uk/

Though, personally, I still find converting UK sizes to US sizes a bit sketchy...

Yeah, their sizing feels a bit off, too. It’s kind of like shopping at New Look—you really have to aim for a 14 to get a 44, even though they list those vague measurements in centimeters on the side.

Has anyone actually ordered from them lately and can weigh in on the sizing? 🙂

dustycyclist72 said:we should collectively bombard them with emails 🥳
and I really hope they reconsider—they have some great pieces, especially the bras 😍

I am quite fond of that blue jacket/trench coat over at Elvi 😁
but their inventory is incredibly thin 🤷

For now, I'll stick to Lisc to find my bras and just pick up everything else at your standard department stores.

There was actually a decent amount of stock over at Elviju—mostly stuff for older ladies, though they had heaps of classic pleated trousers in every color imaginable, a few modern skirts, and two or three gorgeous jackets. One jacket was particularly cute and trendy... but I didn't want to splurge on the pricey pieces until I checked out the cheaper skirts to gauge the sizing and quality. Apparently, they had an extra discount on already marked-down items one day, and everything just flew off the shelves. They’ll probably get autumn stock in soon, but even without the sales, the prices are a bit steep for my taste—that denim skirt of mine was £59... hmm, I wouldn't really drop that much, even if the quality is solid.

Dresses are honestly my biggest struggle—they’re pretty much the reason I even started hunting for shops online. It’s just hard finding anything that actually fits my weird proportions (I've got that pear shape, where my bust is about 4 inches wider than my hips). And then there's the length issue... :/ Local stores around here just don't carry anything that works for me. 🙂

But hey, I’ll find myself a dress shop that actually caters to people like me—even if it takes until my dying day. 😂

This lady: http://www.igigi.com/ makes these magical dresses for curvy girls. Not every single one is my style—let's be real—but they’re definitely cut specifically for those of us with curves and chests. 😬 She actually knows what she's doing.

Only problem is the price tag—ouch. Some boutique in the UK resells them, and I stumbled upon it once. Shipping isn't too bad, but the actual dresses? The prices are absolutely astronomical. 😢

http://www.modcloth.com/shop/dresses

They have some really pretty dresses here. Plenty of plus-size options too. Just keep in mind it's an American shop.

Michael Fisher8 said:http://www.modcloth.com/shop/dresses

They have some really pretty dresses here. Plenty of plus-size options too. Just keep in mind it's an American shop.

The selection of gowns here is—dare I say—actually quite stunning. One might almost forget the surrounding chaos for a moment. 😍

Has anyone here actually gone through the process of ordering something from overseas lately? I’m curious about the logistics—specifically regarding the shipping reliability, customs headaches, and how the actual delivery plays out once it hits American soil.

nimbleheron47 I don't know—have you actually looked at the stuff they carry at Gap lately? I picked up a dress there about eighteen months ago—it’s one of those completely shapeless, straight-cut pieces that offers zero structure—but it comes with a belt. You just cinch it right where you need to, and suddenly, it actually works. 😉 I’m quite satisfied with her—she wasn't exactly a splurge, either—costing somewhere in the neighborhood of $30 or $40. 😁

Buying directly from these US stores usually isn't worth the hassle—if they even ship at all. Between the crazy courier fees, shipping surcharges, customs, and sales tax, it adds up fast. And if you try using the regular mail? It just ends up stuck in customs anyway. It almost never works out to be a good deal.

The only way to make it work is going through someone else—basically having a private individual forward the package to you...

Honestly, it depends entirely on what you’re looking for. I’ve been ordering stuff from the States for my hobbies for years now. I’ve only ever hit a snag with customs twice—and I knew those were coming because I was ordering bulky packages with equipment in them. Usually, things slide right through. I even had a medium-sized tool pass without an issue once (maybe because it was right before Christmas?). Most things get cleared easily since we just don't have them here.

Clothing and shoes, though? They don't let those through quite as easily. So, it's not always about the price tag—it's about what exactly you're importing.

That’s why I mostly stick to EU shops these days. But hey, if you find a dress in one of those US stores that you absolutely *have* to have, just shoot me a DM. 😉

I pop into C&A every few months. Last time, I actually tried some stuff on. My struggle is that with a lot of brands, if the fit isn't perfect or it isn't steamed properly, I end up looking like a total grandma. Or, if it's too tight, I look like I just rolled out of a dive bar in downtown Chicago. 😲 That’s why I really dig how these Igigi dresses are cut—even if most of the prints aren't really my style, the tailoring is super smart. They help neutralize my bust area, which can look pretty vulgar if I don't pick the right cut. 🙄 Even in a turtleneck, I feel like I look like I'm trying too hard. 😂 😳

But you stumble upon something decent every now and then. It’s not like I don't own a single dress or anything. 🙂

Cuts like this always make me look smaller: http://www.modcloth.com/shop/dresses...h-a-kiss-dress. That kind of V-neck that isn't too low... yeah, that’s basically the only top style that works for me.