So, I’ve finally started digging through this whole thread from the very beginning, and honestly—I have to admit—I’ve learned so much already! I’m only about halfway through, though, and since I’ve run into a bit of a situation myself (which I haven't found an answer for yet!), I figured I’d just ask:
When I first started taking the pill—after doing all my bloodwork, everything checked out fine, and my doctor at the Mayo Clinic gave me the green light for Trinovum—I actually handled it really well. No side effects at all, aside from some mood swings, but I managed those just fine; it wasn't any worse than my usual PMS.
Then, somewhere in the middle of the pack, I missed a dose—well, I took it late. It was the next day, more than 12 hours behind schedule. Following the instructions, I took it as soon as I got home and then just carried on with my normal evening dose. That caused some bleeding the very next day—basically, my period started. It wasn't painful, and it wasn't any heavier than usual, but the issue is that it’s been going on for 16 days now. I finished my first pack, and now I’m in that 7-day break period, and while the bleeding seems like it might stop soon, I’m just not sure...
There was one day where I had to stay in bed because I felt so weak and wiped out (on top of some personal nonsense I've been dealing with lately), and the bleeding still hasn't let up. It wasn't as heavy as my regular days, just a little lighter, with a couple of days where it felt totally normal... so, nothing extreme or terrifying. I feel okay physically—I had some typical cramps and bloating for a few days, but otherwise, everything is fine.
The elders in my house are absolutely losing their minds over this. They saw me stuck in bed all day and started interrogating me about what happened. Plus, they don't even know I'm on the pill because they’re totally against it—I’m almost 22, after all—so now there is this massive family drama unfolding. My dad is basically trying to force me to go to the doctor because he’s convinced I’m dying or something! I’m trying to explain to him that I’m perfectly fine and that this is just a normal reaction as the body adjusts to starting birth control...
Personally, I have zero desire to go back to the clinic. I’m certain I’m okay, and I really don't want to deal with the hassle of waiting five hours just to see the doctor for a single minute. And I'm not even going to call, because they never pick up the phone anyway; whenever I need something, I have to show up in person. So, I wanted to ask you guys—have any of you dealt with something similar? Am I thinking about this the right way, or is this a normal thing to happen?
Or should I just give in to the tyranny and go see the doctor after all?
One other thing—I’ve seen so many questions in this thread about when to restart the pill after the 7-day break. Like, do you take it on the 7th day or the 8th? After browsing around on a site like
http://www.mayoclinic.org, I stumbled upon this explanation regarding that:
I’ve been on Diane 35 since 1999, and the instructions say to take it for 21 days with a 7-day break. I took that literally—meaning, a 7-day break, then start again on the 8th day. But recently, a nurse told me I should actually be starting on the 7th day, so now I’m super confused. What is the correct way, and if she’s right, what are the actual consequences?
>> There are different schools of thought on when to start a new pack of contraceptives. Some say you start the new pack on the 7th day of the break, while others say the 8th. The "German school" recommendation is to start the new pack on the 7th day. This minimizes the chance of a follicle from a "dormant" ovary waking up and growing, which could lead to ovulation despite being on the pill. This logic follows how a natural cycle works: the day menstruation starts is both the last day of the previous cycle and the first day of the new one. Thus, the 7th day of the break acts as the 1st day of the new cycle.
So, how do you all usually do it? Day 7 or Day 8?
I took my last pill on Friday, and now I can't decide if I should take the next one on Friday or Saturday. I usually take them at night, around 10 PM, and it might be better to take the first one on Friday, since I'll be spending the weekend with my significant other starting Saturday afternoon... just so I can be as safe as possible.
P.S.—thanks so much for everything, and please excuse the messy way I've put this post together.