-ana- said:Honestly, besides having a huge list of hobbies 🙂 , and spending quite a bit of time at doctor appointments—are you working? Looking for a job? What’s the vibe like when you go in for an interview? Is there any stigma? 🙄 🤣 ........
A girl on this forum mentioned that a guy with schizophrenia is assisting in a medical setting 🙂
And even for one lady I know, her son—who works with my mom—also finished college despite it being pretty... tough...
I was the one who mentioned the medical assistant. Look, it’s a bit of a complicated situation. My dad owns a company, so feel free to laugh, but while I am technically an employee, I don't see a steady paycheck unless $167 it's absolutely necessary. I'm married now, too. Because of that, I can't really spill all my secrets; I have to maintain a little privacy. Dad provides the startup capital, so technically, I'm the owner and the CEO, if you want to call it that. I run my own business. Now, people might look at that and think, "Wow, that sounds absolutely amazing!" But for me, the real dream hasn't been achieved yet: finding fulfillment as a human being. Maybe advocating for mental health awareness or something like that? Outside of working for my dad, I've worked four other jobs where I just didn't fit in at all. It's hard to explain, but it just wasn't my place. As for my doctor, I see her once a month, which is actually a lot, considering how much my moods swing. It's always that constant struggle somewhere between mania and depression.🤣 🤣 🤣
Taylor Howard36 said:Don't cry, keep your chin up🙂 I'm right there with you🙂 You have a husband... someone who stands by your side... someone who loves you EXACTLY AS YOU ARE! That's how I want to be when I meet someone... lately, my luck with men hasn't been great at all☕ 😢
Oh goodness, we better stay on topic before Mad Scientist comes after us. But seriously, it’s a total miracle. Before he came into my life, I truly felt worthless because I feel like I carry the mark of Shell on my forehead. I used to wonder what I was ever going to do with my life; it felt like I didn't have anything to offer that wouldn't just end up hurting some guy. And then here he is, coming back and loving me all over again—he absolutely adores me. You know how strong he is? He's about 190 pounds, so what could I possibly be afraid of?😂 😂 😂 ☕
Taylor Howard36 said:I don't hold any prejudices against people dealing with illnesses or anything like that.
But honestly? I think I’d be a little terrified of being caught off guard by someone like that sometimes too. 😬
Besides, I love grabbing coffee with my grandma, ☕ and honestly, the older I get, the more I cherish that time we spend together. 🙂
I totally get where you're coming from, though I remember one time I hugged my boyfriend's mom so tight that if she saw me today, she might actually spit in my face! Not that I'd ever do that, obviously.
The last time I actually laid a hand on someone was when my brother was a kid—I'm six years older than him.
It really gets to me when people think that way.
I would choose my own life over anyone else's any day of the week.
Did Maddox have a diagnosis, or was it that maniac Bush? Anyway...
I was at AMC Theatres yesterday, and if people had known, they would have absolutely lost it. I'm heading out to do the exact same thing this Friday. It’s just so difficult for us here. 🙂 🙂 🙂 🙂 🙂 Honestly, I just couldn't care less.
I totally get where you're coming from. My ex-boyfriend's mom was actually worried I might kill him in his sleep. Meanwhile, I've been sleeping next to my husband for over a year now and he’s still perfectly fine.
I completely understand because, given my own struggles with mental health, I tend to steer clear of certain people just because they seem off to me. Honestly, I’d much rather grab a coffee with my 88-year-old grandma. ☕ 🎉
I honestly wouldn't hold such heavy prejudices against people if I hadn't gone through all this nonsense myself. Now that I'm a bit older and have a better grasp on how the world actually works, I feel like I, as a schizophrenic, might actually be living better than half the population. I can't stand fake people either, but you eventually just learn how to tune them out.
Nowadays, whenever I head to the hospital, I bring my Walter Wolf along and pass him through the window to them.😘 It’s honestly not easy to witness—seeing grown men lined up in those big wards like Jews in a concentration camp. 😠
And don't even get me started on our healthcare system; it's a complete disaster! When you're stuck in the hospital, they rotate through different sets of incompetent staff every four days.🙂
briskgull27 said:I'm curious—what goes through the minds of you mentally healthy people when you actually meet someone who is schizophrenic? a) "Let's get out of here" b) "Whoa, I've never met a real crazy person before!" c) "Oh boy, a real madman... I'm scared." d) "Oh, you poor thing." e) "They look perfectly normal to me." f) "They're acting really strange and staring intensely." g) "Thank God I don't have anything like that."
What do you think???????????
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By the way, I'm currently in what's called remission, though my doctor hasn't officially cleared me yet. I constantly struggle with time; I often can't tell which day it is. Also, a few people mentioned they know someone who is schizophrenic and they're all just pitiable. Well, I need to be honest while I have this wonderful high-speed internet, my dishwasher, microwave, satellite TV, DVD player, DivX, cell phone, the little radiator right next to me, and I shouldn't forget my digital camera and my little printer. I have everything I need, and honestly, hanging out with my gadgets is much more pleasant than dealing with people. I suppose I'll eventually move past this phase. But for me, having one close person every five years is probably my sweet spot for making new friends. And if I'm expected to go out for three coffees in a single day? That's just not good for me.
You're actually scaring me! I might just have to call up that monster from the attic so you can see what I mean. I nearly lost it when I realized he showed up again.🙂
I’m curious—what actually goes through the minds of you mentally healthy folks when you happen to meet someone who is a schizophrenic?
a) "Okay, let's get out of here fast" b) "Whoa, I've never actually met a real crazy person before!" c) "Yikes, a real lunatic... this is terrifying" d) "Oh, you poor thing" e) "They actually look totally normal to me" f) "They're clearly struggling and acting really erratic" g) "Thank God I don't have anything like that"
Douglas Ramos2 said:I have a few questions for anyone who has experience dealing with schizophrenia: 1. Do you ever feel like certain people just drain your energy or affect you negatively for no clear reason? Like, just being near them feels off, even if they aren't saying anything stupid or doing anything out of the ordinary? 2. Do you get the sense that you can predict things before they happen? Whether it’s in a dream or while you're awake? 3. Have you ever felt like you could communicate with the deceased, or perhaps sensed you had some kind of supernatural ability? 4. Do you struggle with sleep issues, like restlessness or insomnia? 5. Do you find yourself talking excessively? 6. Does your focus constantly jump from one thing to another?
To be clear, I'm talking about how things feel when I'm not on medication. If anyone knows someone living with schizophrenia, I'd love to hear your thoughts. Thanks!
For heaven's sake, I'm talking about when I'm OFF my meds!!!!!!!!!! 1. Yes 2. No 3. Yes—once 4. Yes 5. No 6. No, I'm actually pretty dull 😂 😂 ☕
Douglas Ramos2 said:I have a few questions for anyone who has experience dealing with schizophrenia: 1. Do you ever feel like certain people just negatively affect your energy for no apparent reason? I mean, just being near them feels off, even if they aren't saying or doing anything stupid. 2. Do you ever get the feeling that you can predict events? Like, either in your dreams or while you're awake? 3. Have you ever felt like you could communicate with those who have passed away? Or like you possess some kind of supernatural ability? 4. Do you struggle with sleep issues? Things like restlessness or insomnia? 5. Do you find yourself talking a lot? 6. Does your concentration jump rapidly from one thing to another?
Of course, I’m talking about how things feel when you aren't on medication. If anyone knows someone living with schizophrenia, please share your thoughts. Thanks!
Me, me, me! I'll go first!
1. Sometimes people definitely bring me down, but other times I just think, "Wow, they are being so silly."😁 2. Not really, but I did dream about the late Franja the night he passed—God bless him. I know not everyone will agree with me, but no big deal! 3. I've experienced second-degree sensations. 4. Yes, I have trouble sleeping. I work too much and my mind just won't stop racing. 5. I can stay quiet for two hours, but once I start talking, I'll dominate the conversation for thirty minutes straight! 6. That's an interesting question. My focus moves pretty fast, similar to how my friends and I act when we're messing around. Otherwise, my head feels completely empty.
David Stewart52 said:It might sound a bit silly, but I’ve actually reduced the amount of toxins in my environment. I cut back on coffee and alcohol... basically just flushing the junk out of my daily routine. That's really it. More sleep, vitamins, and things like that. Honestly!
Well, that sounds great! I don't smoke, I don't drink, and I make sure to get 10 hours of sleep—that's huge for me. I'm not quite following the part about carbon, though. Could you explain what you mean by that?😍
I take vitamins and minerals. And I eat very little meat.
Hi David Stewart52, I feel the exact same way, mostly because I know just how people can be.😂 😂
So, my next big mission is to figure out if anyone has actually achieved full recovery. I was watching this documentary about John Forbes Nash that shows some really intense moments. It’s called Brilliant Madness. The film mentions that he hasn't taken any medication from 1970 up until now. But regarding the medical and pharmaceutical industry, the film quotes him saying: Briliant mind : Now i taka som New drugs They ara much easier to cope.🤣 🤣
Ultimately, you get the sense that the real Nash was just naturally burnt out.😘
Taylor Parker10 said:The social stigma surrounding this is just massive. It really is. And it isn't just limited to those dealing with schizophrenia; it affects people facing all kinds of mental health challenges. As someone coming from a medical background, I honestly expected more empathy, but it feels like so many people still view those struggling with mental illness as "crazy"—as if they aren't human beings or as if there is something fundamentally wrong with them because of their diagnosis. Or when someone is battling depression, you see some idiot treating them with total contempt, acting like they are the most worthless person on the planet just because they are struggling with depression.
Dear Taylor Parker10, isn't it actually worse when it's an intellectual or someone considered part of the "smart crowd" acting that way rather than just some random fool? That's the hard part, isn't it? My grandmother is 88 years old. She gets a bit lost sometimes, jumping from one thought to the next or simply forgetting things. Half the family thinks she's just acting, even though she’s otherwise quite healthy. 😂 😵 😂
I just scheduled an MRI appointment. The lady at the front desk was telling me, "You really need to see a neurologist first, blah blah blah..." I was just like, "No thanks! I’ve already been through the psychiatric ward, my doctor just didn't send me for this specific scan yet."
Then she goes, "Aha, let me check..." blah blah blah...$500. Honestly, I can't wait to see if there are any gaps or anything else showing up on the results.😬
Catatonic Schizophrenia: This specific presentation is characterized by at least two of the following primary features: (1) Physical immobility, shown through states like stupor or catalepsy (which can include waxy flexibility) (2) Intense, seemingly aimless physical activity that doesn't respond to outside triggers (3) Extreme negativity, such as resisting all directions without clear reason, maintaining rigid positions when being moved, or remaining mute (4) Unusual voluntary movements, including strange posturing, repetitive motions, distinct mannerisms, or noticeable facial grimacing (5) Mimicking others through echolalia or echopraxia Disorganized Schizophrenia: This version is defined by meeting these specific requirements: A. The following three elements are particularly striking: (1) Disorganized speech patterns (2) Disorganized behavioral patterns (3) An emotional state that feels flat or simply doesn't fit the situation B. It does not meet the diagnostic requirements for Catatonic Type. Paranoid Schizophrenia: This type is identified by meeting these criteria: A. a Type of Schizophrenia in which The following criteria ara met : A. Preoccupation with one or more delusions or experiencing frequent auditory hallucinations. B. The patient does not primarily exhibit disorganized speech, catatonic or disorganized behavior, or a flat/inappropriate emotional response. Residual Schizophrenia: This classification applies when these conditions are satisfied: A. a Type of Schizophrenia in which The following criteria ara met : A. Absence of prominent delusions, hallucinations, disorganized speech, and significantly disorganized or catatonic behaviors. B. There remains ongoing evidence of the condition, seen through negative symptoms or at least two symptoms from Criterion a for Schizophrenia appearing in a milder form (such as unusual perceptions or eccentric beliefs). Undifferentiated Schizophrenia: A Type of Schizophrenia in which symptoms that meet Criterion a ara present , but The criteria ara not met for The paranoid, Disorganized, or Catatonic Type. Symptoms of Schizoaffective Disorder: When in a depressive phase, someone might experience: Symptoms of Schizoaffective Disorder : During The depressed state The following symptoms May be present : poor appetite, weight loss, trouble sleeping, restlessness, physical slowing, losing interest in hobbies, feeling drained, intense guilt, worthlessness, difficulty focusing, or even suicidal ideation. When in a manic phase, symptoms might involve: heightened social or professional drive, increased talkativeness, racing thoughts, feelings of grandiosity, reduced need for rest, agitation, high self-esteem, distractibility, or impulsive, risky behaviors. Psychotic symptoms can encompass things like delusions, hallucinations, fragmented communication, disorganized thought or behavior, complete physical stillness, or a lack of facial expression and motivation.
Norman said:You’re actually doing okay right now, since you’re AWARE that you can IMAGINE things, AWARE that you might HALLUCINATE 🙂
Usually, "crazy" people don't have that kind of self-awareness, do they? 😎
Norman? Your old psychiatrist?? Old lady?? It doesn't matter. Do those doctors actually have any clue when we'll finally find a CURE for patients who are more elusive than birds in a backyard? For schizophrenics?
Will it be in 40 years? 50? 60? Does anyone truly have an idea?😠 😁 🙂 🙂
John Nash said:I have a question for the OP: how did you feel when you first started dealing with this illness? What were those initial symptoms that made you realize things weren't quite right? Can you recall that moment? Honestly, kudos to you for being so open😘—people like you are rare enough👍
It’s clear you really grasp the complexities of schizophrenia. If I may say so, your mom is probably incredibly lucky to have someone who loves her with such depth and sincerity. I’m sure you’ll understand why I’m so grateful for lithium; it isn't like those other meds that leave you feeling like you're stuck in low gear.
Okay, here’s the deal: my self-esteem took a massive hit, which turned me into a bit of a recluse. One specific thing sticks in my mind. Back in 1996, we used to go out every Friday, but I found myself staying home every single damn Friday instead. My grandma eventually asked, "What's going on? Why aren't you heading out?" And I just thought, I don't know, I'm changing—I'd rather just stay in. So I told her, "I just don't feel like it." That was enough until one spring day when I came home from school, sat down in the kitchen, my grandma walked in, and I just said, "I can't do this anymore." And then it was all psychology and psychiatry...
My goal used to be traveling to the Rockies if I ever needed to find some healing, but now, my main goal is simply staying out of the hospital. Regarding what you said about fake social circles and friendships—I’m glad you mentioned that as someone who is healthy, because it is the absolute TRUTH. And truth is a great thing; you just have to embrace it.
lina aja said:MR-scan $500, well it depends on what you need, and as for a CT $167, you can get a referral, but be prepared to wait a really long time
Pete, I'm definitely going to have to drink twice as much as I originally planned just to get through this, but it's necessary.😍 I think Apocalypto is a great film; I just hope more people realized that the world hasn't changed all that much since then.
Regarding your debate, I honestly look at my condition from a purely chemical perspective.
And why wouldn't I? It feels like almost every single and every other medication is specifically designed to make me act a certain way. Literally.😍