Christian Lopez3 said:I’ve been sitting here wondering about something... How much can a church dominated by men living in strict celibacy actually mess with our own sexuality just because of that lifestyle? Like, is it some kind of weird compensation mechanism or what...?
Look, at the end of the day, that's all just theory and history...
I mean, let's be real—they're having sex too, and honestly, probably more than most...
I mean, I'm sure there are definitely people out there living the celibate life—even if it feels totally unnatural to me...
Honestly, I feel like I've already been through this whole phase...
Honestly, when you get down to it, all this talk about Christian celibacy? It’s basically just philosophy at this point... nothing more than high-minded theory.
So, I had this priest tell me once that I should just shape my faith however I need it to be—sort of like, make it fit my own life. It’s a pretty wild thing to hear, honestly. Like, you expect these guys to be super strict about the rules, right? But he was more like, "Hey, do what works for you." It kind of made me stop and think about how much of it is about following a script versus actually finding something real for yourself.
Just because they didn't see my face in church every single Sunday...!? Seriously?
I just told him straight up—look, God is everywhere if you believe, and I’m sure He’s watching over my neck of the woods too... but honestly? I just don't have the bandwidth for church right now. Between everything else going on, I really need to save that time for my kids instead.
Besides that, I honestly just spend every night lying in bed praying that I actually made it through the day like this...
When it comes to sexuality, honestly, it’s just a personal thing—everyone should be able to handle their own business privately.
As long as you can actually shoulder the weight of it... honestly.
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