A little bit behind on things...
I want to wish everyone a very Happy New Year! Above all else, I hope you all enjoy nothing but great health!!
Angela Wright said:It’s been a while since we last caught up. Amy Hayes28Hey honey, I hope everything is going okay with you. Listen, please reach out and let me know what’s happening with that new brain tumor medication they were offering your dad.
What am I even supposed to say? Honestly, there’s nothing. Absolutely nothing. I’m sitting here staring at the screen, completely at a loss for words. I just don't know what to write.
We just couldn't agree to that medication. First off, Dad refused to shut up about it—he’s stubborn like that about everything unless it falls under "traditional medicine." On top of that, we simply wouldn't have been able to keep up with the costs. Honestly, nobody even dared to argue with him, because when it comes to health, people always say there's always a way to find the money. Maybe if things were different, they would have at least tried it for a couple of weeks while they had the funds, but the old man rejects absolutely anything that isn't standard, textbook medicine.
That’s exactly right. They just had to cut his radiation treatment short because his blood counts are a mess—by the way, his blood sugar hit 30. On top of all that, he’s dealing with a massive ear infection that nobody has even bothered to address yet.🙄
I am absolutely sick of everything right now. Honestly, the worst part is that my elderly father refuses to ask those "God-complex" doctors a single question because he’s terrified of offending them. He thinks he can't just demand answers like a normal person! It's infuriating. Just stop being such a pushover.👎
Right before Christmas, he was supposed to have a change in his radiation protocol. The doctor specifically noted that we should start focusing on radiation for the pelvic area, but since then, we haven't been able to find another doctor to sign off on the paperwork. So, the radiation plan remains exactly the same as it was. Honestly, at this point, it isn't even necessary anymore.
For those first ten days, they were getting irradiated for about 10 minutes at a time. It was all pretty much guesswork because there wasn't even a doctor on hand to determine the exact dosage or what exactly was being administered, so they just went by approximation. You probably won't believe me, but I'm telling you the truth—and honestly, that's just the tip of the iceberg compared to the even worse stuff I could tell you about. Total flop.
I asked the doctor for a definitive diagnosis, and he just gives me this arrogant attitude, snapping back with, "Why do you even need to know? You didn't go to medical school, so what does any of this mean to you?"
In the end, I started rambling about something that practically makes no sense. I was just scribbling it all down when I realized someone had gone and smeared my marker over the whole thing.🙄 Anyway, just something completely unrelated to what we were talking about.😢
We decided to take him to a private doctor this Monday without letting the hospital know. We just need someone to finally clear out that infection, and we want to get an MRI done so we can see if there’s actually any change at all.
So basically, they just sleep through everything, forgetting it all anyway...
One day, things are going to get better.😢