Chloe Nguyen3 said:I have a question: why don't women who have already given birth use the IUD? I’m genuinely curious, so if anyone actually knows their stuff, weigh in. Also, why can't women who haven't had kids yet—but plan to—use an IUD? And what's the deal with diaphragms?🙏 🙏
Is there any reason my response shouldn't be considered valid? 😉
I used an IUD from age 21 until 24. I had it removed once I decided to have a child. So, essentially, I put it in BEFORE I gave birth.
One gynecologist refused to write me a prescription, so I went to a different doctor instead. There isn't any objective medical reason why I shouldn't be able to use an IUD before giving birth. I actually bought one myself—using a prescription from abroad—because back when we were part of the old America, that kind of device just wasn't available to us.
Exactly one year after giving birth, I went back and got my IUD put in again.
About two and a half years ago, I started taking birth control due to some hormonal issues—specifically PCOS, irregular cycles, and the severe anemia that came along with them. It was pretty foolish of me to be using both that and an IUD at the same time, so I went ahead and had the IUD removed.
I’m hitting that age where I have to start watching for perimenopause symptoms. I'm going to stick with Cilest to make sure I don't actually feel them.
As for that diaphragm gel, I’d never want it unless it was absolutely necessary. Same goes for all those vaginal foams, creams, and whatever other extra nonsense they sell. I can't stand all that prep work during sex—it’s tedious—and frankly, I wouldn't feel secure using them anyway.