zakan14 said:So we all agree with Douglas Reed7 regarding affinity and maintenance. It’s true that forcing things without any foundation can be totally counterproductive. From what I can tell by looking at our posts, that seems to have been understood well enough.
Then why that comment about ambitions involving some vomit icon??? Isn't that a bit out of line, considering nobody actually mentioned forced agendas or "sick ambitions" anywhere? Honestly!😲 😲
It's definitely unclear what that remark was even aiming at. Who wouldn't want their kids to just be kids?
The icon was meant to highlight certain points. My apologies to anyone who felt offended. Blame the faulty PDF 😬. Alright, we've cleared that up, let's move on.
By pure coincidence, I see about four or five young musicians passing by my living room window every single day. Some are legitimately aiming for Juilliard or the Curtis Institute, while others should probably be banned from touching an instrument in the presence of living beings. And look, I'm a parent too. God knows there are wonderful people out there, but there are also—to put it mildly—idiots who mistreat their children. And what's the result? Under various kinds of pressure, these kids end up finishing some joke of a music program, move on to high school, lose their minds right before graduation, and end up with nothing to show for it.
At my house, we've got piano, violin, guitar, and drums going. I'm also a father who cares about his kids. So, I think I know what I'm talking about.
Special shoutout to Zlo. 🙏