I’m trying to figure out what the limit is here. How long am I actually allowed to leave this on? Because honestly, after just 10 minutes, the spot where it's massaging starts itching like crazy... Is that actually a good sign, or is something going wrong?🤷
swiftbear86 said:Make sure you eat the day before, and definitely have breakfast in the morning... Just stick to something that isn't greasy and won't make you bloat (stay away from beans, peas, broccoli, cabbage... stuff like that) For breakfast—just a dry sandwich... No milk or dairy, no fruit, and absolutely no chocolate. Avoid anything sweet.. On an empty stomach, take a lactobiotic like Prolife or Linex... Seldiar capsules can help calm down intestinal irritation... though I'm not sure if they'll sell them to you over the counter at a CVS without a prescription... Maybe just explain the situation to your doctor—tell them it's irritable bowel triggered by anxiety—and they might give you a script, or at least a private one so you can actually buy it... Persen helps with relaxation—take one pill every 4 hours... Or maybe a belmiran dan...That’s what I’d recommend taking the day before too...👍 Let me know if it works☕
Anyone who’s actually messed around with Persen knows it’s absolute garbage for libido.🙂
Look, I actually thought Persen Forte was decent enough—it definitely did something for me. The only catch was it made me feel totally wiped out. I mean, you gotta try stuff to see if it works; everyone reacts differently. Besides, they’re out here running ads for it day and night (not that I’m trying to sell you on it or anything🙂)
Tyler Ruiz502 said:Maybe—and I mean maybe, I don't know—but I've listed my symptoms. Let me try laying them out chronologically;
-First off, I’ve been peeing constantly (yeah, seriously) and there's this... different scent to my urine. It has these notes I can't quite put my finger on, and it definitely isn't diet-related because it's been like this for 10 days now.
-Every day, there’s been this yellowish discharge on my daily liner (it's been going on for about 7-8 days). The smell is okay, it’s just thicker and comes out in a single drop—honestly, over the last few days, I've been sprinting to the bathroom just to check if my period had started.
-Most specifically, about 4 or 5 days ago while I was sleeping, I felt this sensation in my uterus—like it was expanding, filling up, swelling? I actually thought I might have been dreaming. But then the next afternoon, it happened again... just while I was resting. And I can't even pull in my lower stomach like I used to; I've always had an extremely flat stomach—zero bloating, very proud of that line—🙂 but now my lower abdomen just feels bloated.
-The nasal congestion started around then too (only at night).
-Then, three days ago, I was a million percent sure because I felt incredibly lightheaded—totally unable to function at work, forgetful, almost like I was drugged. Headaches, pressure, mood swings—happy, sad, angry at my boy, on the verge of tears, then happy again just because he was happy... that was basically my whole Wednesday and Thursday. Oh, and nausea—I didn't actually throw up, but I had genuine bouts of nausea during the day, not in the morning (more like motion sickness, like when you're sitting awkwardly on a train ride).
-Yesterday, I finally felt normal again.🙂
-But tonight, I've got these unpleasant cramps. They feel exactly like my period cramps, just much weaker—since my actual periods absolutely wreck me—but still strong enough that they woke me up several times.
Vrrrrlo detailed, I know.☕
And, thanks for all the replies. I'm certainly not any wiser after reading them, but it means a lot to me.😍😍
Oh, one more thing—do you think it's smart to show up to the OBGYN with a complete blood count already done (I'm planning to go to a private lab)? I'd love to avoid being sent running back and forth between different offices if I can help it.
What do you mean, "wiser"? We don't have a crystal ball here, if that's what you were expecting. I'm telling you again: take another test in a couple of days. At this stage, even an exam won't help much, and if you really want to hit up a lab, you might as well just check your beta levels—that's the only thing that actually matters...
Tyler Ruiz502 said:Ugh, guys, I am just so confused and honestly feeling pretty down right now.. Basically, we took a test this morning—an Intim Plus—and it came back negative. And here I was thinking it was probably just some formality given all the symptoms I’ve been dealing with lately.
My last period was January 21st, and my cycles are usually super regular, around 27 to 28 days. Today is day 30, so obviously I haven't started yet, and the test really should have shown something by now 😢
To make matters worse, I spent the entire night dealing with cramps—they feel just like menstrual cramps, just a bit milder.. over the last two or three days, my hormones have been absolutely wrecking me; one minute I'm overwhelmed with sadness, the next I'm happy, then there's the brain fog, the headaches (well, okay, it was boiling hot outside today), and for the past 10 days, I've been peeing constantly like a broken faucet. I've also noticed some yellowish discharge, a stuffed-up nose (not even congested, it just feels tight and then clears up after a few minutes, happening all night for the last couple of days), and yeah, my lower abdomen feels soft and bloated too—it doesn't feel like it's just my gut 🙂 )
Now nothing makes sense. Is it actually possible that I've just imagined everything?? 😕
And what should I even do?.. Obviously, the very first thing I'm doing Monday morning is calling my doctor, but until I can get through to them on Monday... what would you all say to this... any advice? 🙂
Those stories about tests being wrong or giving false negatives—I mean, I always took those with a grain of salt (you know, testing too early, using them wrong, drinking too much water beforehand...), I truly thought those were just rare outliers.
Now I'm starting to think I'm losing my mind (autosuggestion is a powerful thing, isn't it?) and it's not like I'm trying to be one of those people who "wants to be pregnant" just for the sake of it—this just kind of happened by accident, and the idea of having a baby actually started growing on me over these last two weeks..
Please, help me out with some advice 🙏
I'd suggest you just take another test in a few days if your period still hasn't arrived. I once took a test right on the day I expected my period and it was negative, then five days later it was positive.
Look, something is clearly off—there’s definitely an issue here—but I’m telling you, it isn't pregnancy. In my experience, when my cycle is actually regular, a test will show positive by the very first day I'm late.
quiethawk142 said:So, what am I even supposed to do right now??? My period is already ten days late, and get this—both the tests I took on day four and day seven came back negative! I can't even see my OB-GYN until next week! Does it actually make any sense to bother taking another test at this point?
Just take another one tomorrow. Honestly, if your cycles are usually all over the place, go ahead and do it.
But look, if your period is usually clockwork, you would have seen a positive by the first day you were late. If that's the case, don't bother wasting money on more tests—you aren't pregnant. At that point, you're just stuck waiting for your appointment or for your period to finally show up.
I honestly have no clue how you ended up with two pluses there. It makes zero sense to me... 🤷 If anyone actually gets what happened, please drop a comment below.
Joseph Murphy6 said:Nauseous every now and then, but it's pretty mild. Might just be in my head... A bit dizzy too—but honestly, that’s pretty normal for me... Now I'm second-guessing everything...
Look, just go grab a test tomorrow so you actually know. Honestly? I think you already know what the answer is. But with all this confusing guesswork going on, just take another one so you can finally stop worrying.
Joseph Murphy6 said:Took a test Monday (supposedly day M) and it was positive. A bit faint, but still a plus Did another one Wednesday and yeah, still positive Been dealing with nausea and dizziness for about ten days now
Then this afternoon, I started spotting🙂🙂🙂
Look, how heavy is this bleeding? Is it lighter than your usual flow? Honestly, it has to be, because by all accounts, you're pregnant. I actually knew someone nearby who didn't even realize she was pregnant until her third month. She had her periods like clockwork, just lighter than usual, which she figured was just stress. But you can't just ignore two positive tests. If they were negatives, we wouldn't be talking, but those positives mean something.
Yeah, look, testing makes sense if you’re already running a day or two behind schedule, but if not, just hang tight for now. When are you actually supposed to get it?
People claim implantation bleeding happens right when you're expecting your period, so you might mistake it for your actual flow, but let me tell you, it's definitely not 😉
Or maybe it’s just not happening. :-) You'll find out in a few days. If it shows up, you'll know exactly where you stand, but if it doesn't... well, then you know. If your period doesn't arrive or if it's late, just go ahead and take a test so you aren't sitting there stressing yourself out for nothing! And honestly, that spotting? It might just be implantation bleeding.👍