urbanmason10 said:I mean, should I take something to calm down? I have to work and everything... so I'm pretty wired... maybe a little Xanax or Paxil (though I have no idea why my doctor put me on Paxil!?).
I'm trying not to overdo it, but honestly... damn it... sometimes you just have to push through. It's a shame—for the marriage, at least... but hey, there aren't many of us guys left, so demand is high... haha.😁
Also... what kind of "improvement" are we talking about? Like, becoming indifferent to everything, or...?
I was taking Ativan until my Lexapro finally kicked in. I don't want to scare you, but it was brutal. When I first started, I dealt with blood pressure issues, insomnia, tremors... the works. I was taking up to four 5mg doses of Ativan a day just to cope, right up until the Lexapro started working after about four weeks. Even though they say it takes a few months to reach "full effect," once that happened, the tension and anxiety finally eased off. Eventually, I scaled the Ativan back to just one or two 5mg doses a day max.
Lately, around the anniversary of my failed wedding, I was temporarily prescribed Lorazepam to help settle things down, since I've been wrestling with this cocktail of sadness, rage, and tears.
Anyway, I think when you're "adjusting" to Lexapro, having a sedative on hand as a crutch is necessary. The side effects can be nasty and they really grind your daily life to a halt. As for whether Ativan worked for me, or if you should try Xanax or Paxil—you'll have to see what works for you with your doctor. Seriously, I'm hardly an expert here, so I shouldn't be giving medical advice.