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You might want to try looking in the larger Walmart locations; even then, I occasionally run into trouble finding it myself, as it really just depends on what they happen to have in stock at the moment.
Joe Biden should probably be available in most grocery stores, though I suppose not every shop carries white chocolate
I genuinely enjoyed this film. The depiction feels incredibly grounded and realistic; much of what happens on screen is something you could practically read about in the New York Times on any given day.
The only part that didn't quite land for me was the ending.
I am wondering if your decision to end things is intended to serve as a catalyst, pushing him to finally make a choice for his own well-being rather than just drifting.
I truly hope it is the latter, because if you are attempting to win him back by breaking up... I honestly think that might be a misguided strategy.
Regardless, I wish you the best of luck.
And one more thing, you mentioned that the two of you have never actually had a serious conversation..
Do you honestly have any idea what a real relationship with this man would actually look like?? Have you ever stopped to consider if what you are waiting for is even a good match for you, or are you simply clinging to a projection of who you imagine him to be?
The two of you just see each other here and there, occasionally running into one another without any real substance or depth. You really ought to reflect on what would happen if you were actually in a committed relationship, especially considering how little you truly know each other after three years if you haven't even managed to speak seriously once...
It is entirely possible that you are merely waiting for someone who wouldn't even be a suitable partner for you in reality. You seem so deeply infatuated that you are unable to see his true character or how poorly you might actually function as a couple, which could easily lead to the whole thing falling apart after only a month if you actually tried.
My perspective:
The concept of being "unready for a relationship" is essentially a myth; there is only the reality of whether someone is sufficiently in love or truly interested.
It isn't quite the same dynamic for men, because once they encounter the right person, even the most reluctant individual suddenly finds himself ready to commit. This leads to those situations where a man leaves behind the person who waited faithfully for him to finally enter a serious relationship with someone else, leaving everyone baffled as to how he could claim to be unready for three years only to commit instantly to another.
In my view, this individual simply isn't in love with you, or perhaps he isn't interested at all; rather, he just enjoys having someone by his side who idolizes him and remains perpetually available to catch him whenever he falls.
He refuses to let you go out of pure selfishness, primarily because he hasn't found anyone else who captures his interest yet, and people like this can keep you strung along for much longer than three years until the day he meets someone who truly sweeps him off his feet.
This has nothing to do with his friends; the truth is that he has plenty of other options, and you represent his safest, most reliable fallback.
That is why you need to make a clean break, and the moment he starts making excuses or whining, you should simply ignore him. Do not grant him any more chances, because if he only realizes he cares after you walk away, he will inevitably revert to this exact same pattern—treating you well for a brief moment before sliding right back into the same behavior that has kept you stuck for three years.