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Bumping this thread in Feedback & Suggestions ·
I’ve been chewing on this issue of reviving old threads lately, specifically why it’s viewed with such suspicion around here.

I’d really value some insight, starting with the moderators, though I'm curious to hear what everyone else thinks as well.

Basically, what’s the actual harm in someone deciding to post in a discussion that might be, say, two years old?
Edward Rivera98 said:Just like that whole "I have to do this" attitude, you know, like when you're on vacation somewhere and everyone loses their minds because someone, say, "has" to eat cheese for breakfast... 🙄
It really gets under my skin when people start acting all frantic over nothing.

Plus, there's zero tolerance for anyone being different.

And the arrogance, that vibe where someone thinks they're God's gift to the world.

Not to mention the hypocrisy. I don't care if your principles are totally different from mine—if you actually stick to them, I'll respect that. But when someone talks a big game and then does the exact opposite.... 😠

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Edward Rivera98 said:Just like that whole "I have to do this" attitude, you know, like when you're on vacation somewhere and everyone loses their minds because someone, say, "has" to eat cheese for breakfast... 🙄
It really gets under my skin when people start acting all frantic over nothing.

Plus, there's zero tolerance for anyone being different.

And the arrogance, that vibe where someone thinks they're God's gift to the world.

Not to mention the hypocrisy. I don't care if your principles are totally different from mine—if you actually stick to them, I'll respect that. But when someone talks a big game and then does the exact opposite.... 😠

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Edward Rivera98 said:Just like that whole "I have to do this" attitude, you know, like when you're on vacation somewhere and everyone loses their minds because someone, say, "has" to eat cheese for breakfast... 🙄
It really gets under my skin when people start acting all frantic over nothing.

Plus, there's zero tolerance for anyone being different.

And the arrogance, that vibe where someone thinks they're God's gift to the world.

Not to mention the hypocrisy. I don't care if your principles are totally different from mine—if you actually stick to them, I'll respect that. But when someone talks a big game and then does the exact opposite.... 😠
ruggedcobra742 said:1.) People who act like they're God's gift to the world—acting all high and mighty without having a single shred of actual substance to back up that ego
2.) Licemjer
3.) Folks who just can't stop being loud and obnoxious for no reason
4.) Petty people—you know the type—who feel the need to comment on everything and always have some tiny little grievance to air

What I actually like: humble, genuine, straightforward folks... people who are actually kind and keep things optimistic... 😁

If you take those four traits and toss them into a bowl with a heavy dose of MSG to really crank up the intensity, you get a perfect description of one of my colleagues. 🤮

On a less intense note, when it comes to general personality flaws, I’ve never been a fan of people lacking any sense of adventure or those who are just painfully stiff—it reminds me of that awkward square shape Uma Thurman draws in the air during Pulp Fiction.
Sam Rodriguez43 said:It honestly gets under my skin when people just refuse to listen. You know the type—they state their opinion and then immediately shut down. They ignore everything you say. Even after you lay out every possible counterargument, they still stubbornly cling to their initial (and clearly wrong) stance.
Then there are the people who judge anyone who doesn't think exactly like they do.
And don't get me started on those who follow orders from an authority figure—like a professor or a boss—without question, even when the instructions make zero sense. It’s like they can't be bothered to spot the logic gap, or if they do, they're just too intimidated to speak up.
I also can't stand the ones who finish other people's sentences or try to answer rhetorical questions.
Or the folks who throw around big words that they don't actually understand.
Then there are the people who are so terrified of being proven wrong in a real debate that they constantly interrupt you or try to change the subject.
And the ones who turn absolutely everything into a joke.
Finally, there are the loudmouths who make a ton of noise even when they have nothing meaningful to contribute. Honestly, seeing that isn't exactly rare here on Reddit. ☕

And, of course, those who can't even manage to use basic punctuation or accents correctly. 🙂
Dog attack on a little girl in Law ·
Reading through this news report, I can't quite wrap my head around why the grandmother would walk her little girl so close to a dog that was clearly acting aggressive.
crimsondriver54 said:you see that kind of thing in plenty of scenes across basically any Woody Allen film

Exactly. It’s pretty much one of his central themes!
Best route to Mount Rainier? in Cycling ·
jadetiger962 said:Give it a shot over by St. Simon's🙂

Found it, right on the east side of Central Park!
Best route to Mount Rainier? in Cycling ·
Jamie Palmer said:What you’ve laid out there sounds like the perfect route through town, starting from Main Street and heading over to Broadway (I actually make that trek twice as often as I work actual business days). Once you finally reach the top of The Den, that’s where the road up toward Mount Rainier really kicks in. If you’re looking to get off the pavement and hit some hiking trails, there are a few paths leading toward the summit—I believe they’re called the John Smith and Miller's trails, if my memory serves me right. The first one starts near Cathedral Hill, while the second one branches off from the parking area in Suburban Heights.
Or just take the mountain road straight to the peak.

And where on earth is Broadway? I can't seem to find it anywhere on the map.
Best route to Mount Rainier? in Cycling ·
Look, I’m not originally from Washington, D.C., so right now I’m just kind of winging it, trying to piece together some decent cycling routes using Google Maps and a lot of trial and error. 🙂

My main priority is staying away from cars as much as possible; I want low-traffic roads and, if I can swing it, unpaved paths whenever they're available.

I live on the east side of the city.
So far, I’ve mapped out a pretty great route that kicks off where Vukovarska turns onto Main Street (lol), where a pedestrian path starts heading northeast; you cross through Borongaj, then the road continues toward Branimirova, where I take a slight turn west and follow a trail until I hit that gas station on Branimirova, then loop back toward Ravnice 1, head up through the plains, and eventually come out onto Maximira. From there, I keep going up past the agricultural college, hit St. Simon's, go through Upper Kustošija, pass through Chret, hit The Den, and finally find myself at the base of Mount Rainier.

Now, where should I head next to reach the summit? Basically, I’m looking for a more scenic way to get there without making the ride unnecessarily difficult.

On top of that, can anyone describe a similar route that lets me escape the city entirely without having to dodge heavy traffic?
Noise protection tips? in Health ·
Thomas Green96 said:The noise levels in my new apartment are driving me absolutely insane, and I was wondering if anyone knows of any alternatives to standard earplugs—maybe some kind of specialized ear protection or something else that actually works so I can get a decent night's sleep?

First off, what on earth is making all this noise?
Persistent symptoms... help! 🆘 in Health ·
electricpanther82 said:I haven't been feeling right since late May. It started out looking like a nasty stomach bug—headaches, a low-grade fever hovering around 99 degrees... just felt off. For the first two weeks, I couldn't keep anything down. Everything I ate came right back up, and there was this constant, nagging discomfort and dull ache right around my belly button. The thing is, even after about two months when the vomiting finally quit, I still felt terrible. Just... drained. Now, things are mostly better, but I still get bouts of nausea, and honestly, I've lost weight and stayed pretty exhausted, especially with this heatwave hitting the states lately. It’s making me paranoid that whatever this was might come crawling back. I've gone through the wringer with testing, though. Blood work and urine tests were totally fine. Tested negative for Salmonella and Rotavirus. Had a gastroscopy, abdominal ultrasound, a gyno exam, chest X-ray, throat and nasal swabs—all clear. Mononucleosis was a no, thyroid is fine, EKG and cardiology were all good, eye exams, blood pressure, ENT stuff... everything was normal except for some allergic rhinitis. My question is, could these symptoms point toward some kind of bowel disease? Or maybe just a lingering virus or some kind of bacterial thing?😠Also, is it possible to basically manifest physical symptoms just from stress?

You asked me to take a look at your thread.

I didn't deal with any vomiting.
For me, it hit suddenly about two years ago; I simply woke up drenched in sweat. That initial, "shock" wave lasted a few weeks, and since then—over the course of two years (interspersed with episodes where I feel slightly better)—I've dealt with an intense lethargy of both mind and body. Fortunately, it seems to be improving over time, month by month. It’s all quite difficult, though, because I’ve changed mentally as well; I basically "shut down," which cost me all my friends and eventually my girlfriend. I went from being someone who could ride a bike for hundreds of miles in just a few days to someone for whom a flight of stairs feels like hell—something I don't even want to think about, and honestly, can't dwell on too much.
It’s only now, after two years, that I’m actually understanding what happened to me and trying to slowly reintegrate into a normal life.
I find myself genuinely moved by simple things, like the smell of leaves, the warmth of the sun on my skin, or that pleasant sense of tiredness at night. I had already begun to forget those sensations.
It irritates me when people tell me it's just stress, because I've lived through far worse things than this and I've learned how to handle my problems.
The truth is, I suffer quite a bit, and I know I fell into depression AFTER the illness had already dismantled most of my life. That was a consequence, not the cause.

My theory?
I suspect we're looking at some kind of undiscovered illness.

I try to live as healthily as my brain will allow. I eat clean, I do yoga, I get plenty of sleep, I almost never drink, and I stay away from cigarette smoke.
It’s been over two years now. I’ve recovered significantly. I believe I’ll feel like a whole new person in another year or two.
It's a long road, and a lonely one.

As for you, I truly have no idea if my experience has anything to do with yours. I really hope you feel better soon! 🙂
I need a doctor! in Health ·
Angela Wright said:Your upper abdomen area is actually your stomach, while the liver sits on the right side just under your ribs. I’d bet you're dealing with a stomach issue, so you should definitely ask them to run a test for Helicobacter pylori. If there were anything wrong with your liver, it would have popped up on those blood panels you already had done, and since those came back clean, that's one less thing to worry about. You might want to get an abdominal ultrasound just to get a clear look at your liver, gallbladder, and pancreas.

Well, it finally happened. They found H. pylori.
I went through about 40 different tests, shelled out a ridiculous amount of money for the whole ordeal, and managed to get the results via email the very same day. Aside from my bilirubin being slightly elevated, the only thing that actually flagged positive was the H. pylori.
To be honest, I'm pretty disappointed; my symptoms don't really align with what this bacterium is supposed to cause, so the whole situation still feels like a complete mystery to me...
I need a doctor! in Health ·
Angela Wright said:Yeah, I get it, I brought up dairy because it’s such a major allergen, though there are ways to screen for that possibility nowadays. It probably wouldn't be a bad idea to track how you feel after eating certain foods. Grains can cause quite a bit of trouble too.

My stomach isn't actually giving me any grief at all.
I cut milk out of my diet ages ago since I know it makes me feel worse.
When it comes to alcohol, it’s not my stomach that reacts; instead, I just lose all my energy and get hit with this strange, intense pain in my upper abdomen. Because of that, I’m going to go ahead and get my liver checked tomorrow.

Anyway, I’m going to run as many tests as possible at the lab tomorrow and I'll post the results once I have them.

Thanks a lot, Angela Wright and jadesailor14!
I need a doctor! in Health ·
Angela Wright said:Have you actually gone for allergy testing?
It’s possible you're reacting to something that’s manifesting as this constant fatigue and fever.

I honestly have no clue what I would even test for when it comes to allergies, because this whole thing has been dragging on for two years now regardless of the season. I can't draw any meaningful connection to anything I do or eat; there are no skin rashes, no respiratory issues, nothing. I've cycled through various diets, I don't smoke, and I haven't even dared to touch a beer in quite some time because it just makes me feel worse.
It doesn't feel like an allergy to me.
Unless I'm somehow allergic to H2O or something equally ridiculous?
I need a doctor! in Health ·
jadesailor14 said:what about antibodies?

I honestly can't say for sure. But I assume they ran those tests too if they actually needed the data.
I need a doctor! in Health ·
Angela Wright said:Have you actually gone out and gotten tested for STDs?

I've already been screened for the most common STDs, including HIV, chlamydia, HPV, and a few others that I can't quite recall at the moment.
I need a doctor! in Health ·
jadesailor14 said:I'm not convinced blood work alone is going to solve all your mysteries.
just search for "biochemical lab" plus whatever city you're in and pick one yourself.

Fine, I tracked down Breyer, so I'll head over there tomorrow and have them run every single test they can possibly manage...
I need a doctor! in Health ·
Angela Wright said:I’m assuming you’ve already had a full blood panel done since your doctor sent you for one, and you mentioned everything came back normal. Honestly, the only thing that jumps out at me is your thyroid. Your best bet is to ask specifically for a referral to check your thyroid hormone levels. If your thyroid is acting up, it can absolutely wreck you—we're talking constant exhaustion, shaky hands, racing heart, insomnia, or waking up drenched in sweat at night. If your doctor won't take these symptoms seriously or thinks you're just being dramatic, tell them you want a referral to an internist instead. If they refuse and continue to dismiss you, just grab your medical records and find a new physician.
The Mayo Clinic is actually quite excellent if you want to get a full physical done all in one day, though it isn't cheap, so you should probably check their pricing online first.

I've already had my thyroid hormones checked twice now, once through the Mayo Clinic and once at General Hospital. Those results were perfectly fine.
I've also had a CT scan of my head and spine, lung imaging, ultrasounds for my heart and abdomen, and I even tested positive for H. pylori...
I need a doctor! in Health ·
Is there some kind of private practice, hospital, lab, or whatever else out there that could actually run a comprehensive blood panel for me? Can anyone point me in the right direction?

Two years is honestly way too much to deal with; after taking a few months off, this fever has come crawling back. It sits right around 99 degrees—not high enough to be an emergency, I guess, but it absolutely drains the life out of me when it lingers.
I’ve already been through every possible test under the sun, and it all ended with me being slapped with a diagnosis of Chronic Fatigue Syndrome.😕

I can't help but feel like that diagnosis is just a polite way of saying, "We have no clue what's wrong with you, so just fuck off!"
I really don't want to go back to my primary care physician because she’s already looking at me like I’m losing my mind, so I'd rather just bypass her and go straight to the labs.

I'm just done with this, please help!
😠
Losing interest in everything in Psychology ·
ruggedgull33 said:But why on earth have you gone weeks without talking to anyone? Doesn't that start to weigh on your mind after a while?

You’ve completely isolated yourself, and while I don't know what kind of work you do, there isn't a single job out there—not even working remotely for a firm in Seattle—that requires you to go weeks without any human contact whatsoever, be it with friends, family, or just casual acquaintances. Have you ever even considered wanting to live with a partner instead of being all by yourself?

You mentioned yourself that you’re generally quite social and curious, so I take that to mean you aren't naturally some sort of lone wolf who thrives on solitude; this lifestyle doesn't seem to fit your temperament at all. So, what actually happened to cause such a massive withdrawal from society?

Given your current state, it isn't surprising that you're craving stronger stimuli, anything to give you a bit of a jolt to snap you out of it. However, please don't let yourself succumb too deeply to this sense of resignation, because you really could spiral into a heavy depression or perhaps even more serious mental health struggles. You need to pull yourself together while you still can; try to ramp up your interactions with other people, because the longer we isolate ourselves, the harder it becomes to reintegrate into the world. And honestly, a few sessions with a therapist might not be a bad idea either. 🙂

Do reach out. It would be genuinely interesting to understand the actual reason behind this isolation.

The reason for my loneliness is this:
I'm living in a foreign country where I don't speak the language and I don't know a single soul here. I'm only here for work...