What were your biggest pregnancy surprises and pet peeves?
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Zachary White5 said:It was actually kind of cute at first, but now it’s just getting on my nerves because everyone thinks they already KNOW the gender of my baby... My future mother-in-law is convinced it's a girl—mostly because she’s spent her whole life surrounded by guys and is dying for a granddaughter—and my family is certain it's a girl too, just because I'm supposedly "calm and gentle," which is such a load of crap. Then my friends are all swearing it's a boy, though God knows what they're basing that on. And the kicker? I'm barely even twelve weeks along. 🤣 Everyone keeps asking how I am, if the baby is showing yet, or trying to poke at my stomach 🙄 like it's some kind of public attraction just because they heard the news! I guess my hormones are just all over the place lately, so everything is just really grating on me right now. 🙂
It’s funny how different people are. To me, all that guessing feels way too sweet. I actually enjoy when people try to guess the gender; it’s always a blast to see who gets it right.
A coworker at the office told me it's a girl because my face hasn't changed at all 😁
Mom thinks it's a boy because my bump is sticking straight out instead of being carried "low" or "centered," as she puts it. Then she looked at some 12-week ultrasound photos and changed her mind, saying it's definitely a girl because the fetus looks like me 😂
The highlight was at the hair salon. My husband and I go to the same stylist, and he cut my hair first. He stared at my reflection in the mirror and told me, just like my coworker, that it’s definitely a girl since my facial features haven't shifted.
While he started cutting my husband's hair, he told him, "Sorry man, but you're definitely having a girl." When my husband mentioned he was hoping for a boy, the stylist just shrugged and said, "Oh, then it'll definitely be a boy; it's never the gender the dad wants." 😂
Nobody tries to grab my stomach, but honestly, I’m the one offering it to my friends. Since I live in a different city and we don't see each other constantly, as soon as I visit, I ask them to check me out and give their expert opinion on how much I've grown since the last time they saw me. 😁