Dealing with homosexuality in the family: How to handle it?
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slywolf45 said:What kind of medals are you talking about here? This isn't about seeking awards; it's strictly about stopping harassment and discrimination. Why on earth would I expect a medal just for being a lesbian? 😕
All I'm looking for is basic decency—not having to look over my shoulder while walking down the streets of Washington, D.C., after leaving a club, fearing that three idiots might jump me like they did to my friend a few years back.
That's all I want, nothing more.
And you are absolutely right to demand that; being treated normally, just like everyone else—I couldn't agree more. No one is better or worse than anyone else.
However, I wouldn't exactly be seeking out fame either if I spent all my time wandering around, say, a gay club, loudly proclaiming how heterosexual I am, how wonderful it is, how everyone who doesn't get it is a primitive, and how it's my personal business, while simultaneously making a systemic effort to make sure everyone knows about it—which is exactly how some homosexuals behave. To be clear, I'm not talking about the people who live their lives openly and naturally; I believe no one has the right to harass them in any way. But there is a distinct difference between living your life and constant advertising or public spectacle, treating an orientation as if it were the sole defining feature of a person's entire identity.
At the end of the day, you are first and foremost yourself, and only then, as you put it, a lesbian.