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Raymond Ward75 said:Electric scooters are the absolute scourge of the modern age.
That devilish, silent contraption poses a constant threat to both pedestrians and drivers alike... These malicious little things—piloted by riders who seem to possess an innate sense of entitlement—are becoming impossible to escape.

They zip around wherever they please... weaving through crowds of pedestrians at speeds that rival a moped..

Join me in my attempt to vent some much-needed frustration regarding this scooter phenomenon.

Whenever I spot one of those scooters, I am half-tempted to just smash it into pieces!
I truly despise the electric scooter!!

The core issue—and I’m speaking specifically about Washington, D.C.—is that we simply lack the infrastructure—the roads and streets—to accommodate scooters and bicycles without them encroaching on pedestrians or motorists..

I found myself in Paris earlier this year, and honestly, the place is teeming with cars, bikes, and scooters... they even have an abundance of service hubs for renting them out (in fact, it’s hard to find a private bike when everyone is using the rental fleets, kind of like how people rely on Citi Bike here in the States).
And, naturally, they don't clog up the sidewalks; they have dedicated lanes right on the street.
In Washington, D.C., that's just not feasible because our streets are far too narrow..
I haven't the slightest clue how they planned out Paris back in the day (long before cars or motorcycles were even a thing) to include such wide boulevards, whereas the Washington, D.C. city officials weren't quite as forward-thinking, I suppose.

Scott Reyes84 said:Hey there, everyone!

Quick question for the group: does anyone know if there are any active Goju-ryu karate clubs operating here in the States?

Thanks so much 🙂>

Perhaps:
https://www.facebook.com/KKAnteStarcevic/

Velvetmason81 here—just sitting here thinking about how much everything changes, you know? I was reading this old article earlier—well, more like an essay, actually—about how certain traditions just fade away when they aren't actively fought for. It made me think of those old-school training halls back in the day—not like these flashy, high-tech gyms you see in downtown Chicago or Los Angeles now, but real, grit-under-the-fingernails places. There’s something lost in the modern rush—that quiet, steady discipline—that people seem to forget. We’re all so busy chasing the next big thing—the latest gadget, the newest trend—that we miss the value of staying put. Anyway, I digress. Just one of those mid-afternoon contemplations, I suppose. Back to the grind. kaže:
Gentlemen, please—don’t roast me too hard for what I’m about to ask. I’m 30 years old, and in my entire life, I have never stepped foot in a martial arts gym. I’ve been looking into MMA lately, and I’m wondering if there’s a club anywhere in the States—maybe somewhere like Chicago or Denver—that would actually take someone like me, just to train and learn the ropes. I know, I know—you’re probably already typing out "Why did you wait this long?" or some other jab. I can hear the sarcasm from here. Honestly, it’s a bit embarrassing to even ask, but here we are. I have zero experience, my cardio is nonexistent, I’m carrying a few extra pounds, and frankly, I’m a bit of a mess physically. But I have this genuine desire to try it—to have something to occupy my time outside of the daily grind at work. If I’ve missed the boat entirely and it’s too late to start, just tell me straight. I can take it. But if there’s still a window of opportunity, please let me know where I could head. I'm specifically drawn to MMA because of how it blends everything together—it seems like the most interesting path to me. My main question is really just this: Is there an actual gym out there that caters specifically to total, absolute beginners? Thanks a lot for any insight you can give.

Look, if I could have walked into a Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu academy as a total greenhorn at forty-four—and believe me, my knees would have had some very pointed questions about that decision—then you can absolutely pull the trigger at thirty. Honestly, age is just a number when you're staring down a guy half your size who wants to wrap you in a pretzel. Just get out there. 🙂 MMA—now there’s a sport that really tests the limits of what we consider "civilized" entertainment. It’s fascinating, isn't it? One minute you’re watching two highly trained athletes execute a technical grappling sequence that looks more like high-stakes chess than a fight, and the next—well, the next someone’s getting hit with a knee that sounds like a car door slamming shut. I was watching a replay of some old UFC bouts the other night—back when the atmosphere felt a bit more like a gritty underground club than the polished, corporate spectacle it is today—and I couldn't help but think about how much the discipline has evolved. It’s not just brawling; it’s a science. The way they mix Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu with Muay Thai and wrestling... it’s almost poetic in its violence. Though, I suppose "poetic violence" is a bit of an oxymoron—not that I'm arguing against it. Just a thought. Anyway, what’s everyone’s take on the current landscape? Are we seeing too much emphasis on the flashy strikers lately, or is the ground game finally making its comeback in the big promotions? Personally, I miss the days when a guy could walk into the Octagon with nothing but a dream and a decent chin—though, looking at the medical bills for those guys, maybe that wasn't my best advice.

To be perfectly honest—and I do mean that with full sincerity—I’ve spent quite a bit of time training in various martial arts and combat sports over the years. But it was always focused on striking—you know, the heavy hitting, the impact side of things—so this particular discipline is entirely new territory for me. I am, for all intents and purposes, a complete beginner here. 🙂
At first, I’ll admit—it was a little awkward. You find yourself second-guessing everything, wondering how people are going to react when you walk into the room or speak up—that sort of social anxiety that hits you early on. But honestly? You realize pretty quickly that your age doesn't actually matter in this context. What people think of you isn't tied to the year you were born. That being said—and I’ll touch on this only briefly since it's a bit of a tangent—once you hit a certain stage in life, you do have to be a bit more mindful of certain things—physicality, health, and all that—but that’s a conversation for another time entirely.

As for the MMA scene—you’ve got UFK Trešnjevka—they used to take in recreational fighters, if I recall correctly, and honestly, they run a top-tier club.

Much success to you, old man. 😁

Jack Reyes82 said:If I ever decide to get back into this sport, do I need to go through the whole enrollment process again, or can I just pick up where I left off like a regular member? Also—and this is the big one—should I try to return to my old club, or would it be better to find somewhere new? Please, if anyone has some advice, I’d appreciate it. I have these nagging anxieties that people—even the coaches—might look down on me because I've been away from training for so long.

Well, you're asking quite a lot there... honestly, it all boils down to how much talent you actually have.
If you've got the skill, any decent coach should be willing to take you on.
But then again—it really depends on the individual coach's ego...

If you head back to your old gym, they already know who you are, which saves you the hassle of proving yourself—but if you think they'll give you a hard time about your hiatus, just find a new club and start fresh.

Jack Reyes82 said:Hey everyone,

I’ve been mulling this over for quite some time now—whether or not to get back into Taekwondo. I stepped away from the mats about three and a half years ago, and while I haven't completely lost the muscle memory—some of those techniques still linger in the back of my mind—there is this persistent urge to start training again. Do you all think it's too late? I'm 17 now, and I can't help but wonder if I should be looking toward other pursuits instead, or if there's still a viable path forward for me in the sport.

People head back into the arena after much longer breaks than that—even much older folks do it.

Greetings,

Has anyone here actually had some hands-on experience using those gel-lined wraps instead of the traditional cloth bandages?

From what I can tell—looking at a few options online—they don't seem to be much more expensive than the standard ones...

Thanks,

Angela Wright said:Just get it done so you can head out for your vacation 😉

Oh, I intend to... Once I’ve finally recovered from this mess, I’m heading somewhere far away... 🙂

Well, turns out I completely misread that X-ray... my pulmonologist confirmed everything with my lungs is actually fine 🙂
I really am sorry for causing such a stir—definitely a lesson learned for me on not jumping to conclusions too quickly...
As it stands, I just have these two small tumors in my neck... they're scheduled to be removed shortly 🙂

I’m inclined to agree with crimsongull20 ...that she truly lives life to the fullest 🙂
It certainly appears as though she’s carved out quite a high-quality existence for herself...

crimsongull20 said:Only those who have endured genuine hardship and profound loss—without being broken by it—can truly understand. Without such experiences, perhaps only a rare few with innate talent could grasp it.

P.S. That typo reminded me of the legend of Grdana. 😁

Everyone deals with significant losses at some point in their lives.
For me, the weight comes from how much everything seemed to hit all at once—just a concentrated cluster of grief.
My girlfriend’s father was out fishing just two months ago—an active, healthy man—and now... he's gone.
Five years ago, I lost my brother to liver failure, and then my sister passed away just last month... it makes you sit back and wonder, at times, what exactly is wrong with the universe.
On top of that, I'm navigating things with my mother; she's 82 and terrified of an upcoming surgery. Her thyroid has grown so large they’ll likely have to perform a sternotomy just to reach it—it's a daunting prospect for someone her age, and understandably so.
Then there's my father (84), who suffered a stroke last year. He hasn't spoken since, but I can see him declining; the dementia is setting in, and he's fading more every day.

Yesterday, I found myself thinking back to how my girlfriend and I celebrated New Year's Day... back when life wasn't quite this cluttered with—forgive my language—this absolute mess.

It's strange how certain problems that used to feel monumental now seem trivial, almost insignificant... though I find myself wondering when this relentless cycle will finally break. It doesn't look like it's happening anytime soon, clearly.

The only thing I can really do is find my own ways to cope—focusing more on self-care, watching my diet, maybe taking a trip somewhere,
... trying to actually live a little, because you never truly know what tomorrow might hold.

Angela Wright said:Grdana, you really ought to try viewing your current situation through the lens of life’s broader patterns—the fundamental realities, if you will. Everything is inherently uncertain; there are zero guarantees, and things are constantly in flux. How we choose to navigate that volatility is entirely up to us. Even when it feels utterly impossible—which it often does—it really just comes down to a matter of personal resolve. You have to find the courage to define things on your own terms and constantly weigh those options internally. I suppose some people prefer to stay in the dark, at least until they're forced to face the music. It's all about those fluctuations... you know? 😉

Oh, absolutely—there are no guarantees. Life is unpredictable, which is precisely what makes it beautiful (for the most part, anyway).
I tend to be a rather rational person by nature, and as such, I rely on knowledge and data as my primary way of interfacing with the world around me. That said, I can certainly accept the fact that certain things remain unknown—perhaps they always will be...
And I really need to get moving... the main issue with this fluid in my lungs is that I can't quite make it to the gym to work it out properly. Yesterday, instead of taking the subway, I decided to walk, and I ended up trekking all the way to 8.1 miles ..

crimsongull20 said:If I were in your shoes, I’d probably look into some light psychotherapy—might actually do you some good.

Regarding the thyroid surgery: I personally know three women who had their entire gland removed, and they all bounced back within about a week—hardly any pain involved at all.

Just lie down, get some sleep, and try to relax. That fluid in your lungs is almost certainly nothing... and even if it turns out to be something, there's no sense worrying about it now—save the stress for later.

My version of "psychotherapy" will be a weekend getaway I'm planning outside the city...
The thyroid surgery itself doesn't really weigh on me... it's just this fluid in my lungs that's been getting under my skin. But you're right—I shouldn't let it consume me.

Angela Wright said:It's incredibly small. Someone probably already pointed out why—you’d essentially need a trophy for being such a saint to be forgiven for something like this. Honestly, I suspect your kidney issues might actually stem from all that intense stress you've been under before the benign diagnosis. That kind of thing isn't even that uncommon.
My dad went through something similar back when my mom was sick.

Thank you... I certainly hope I haven't earned any "trophies" lately... Ugh, I just can't stand this uncertainty.
I truly don't understand how some people claim they don't want to know the results...
We'll just have to wait and see what the pulmonologist has to say...
And I am really hoping the anesthesiologist doesn't push back the surgery—I'm praying I can get this sorted out before I meet him.

The tumor was actually diagnosed before all that chaos started... though, sometimes when things get stressful, it feels as if the mass in my salivary gland is actually pulsing. Of course, I realize it probably isn't physically throbbing, but that is definitely the sensation I get.

Angela Wright said:It’s entirely possible you just hit a bump while walking—something you didn't even notice—or, alternatively, it could simply be a glitch with the device itself.

On the other hand, what are the actual odds that we’re looking at a tumor originating from the kidney?
(I feel a bit awkward bringing this up, but I really need to ask)

So, my blood work came back almost perfect.
My white blood cell count is slightly off—it’s at 11.2, while the standard limit is 9.7—but my doctor mentioned it’s far too low to suggest any major infection that could be causing a pleural effusion (then again, I have a bit of a cold right now, so that might be the culprit).
My CRP levels are also within the normal range, sitting at 4.7 when the threshold is 5.
Even the Mokrac results look fine.
So, if we aren't looking at an infection or some kind of injury, what on earth is causing this fluid buildup in my lungs?
Is there any chance it was just an artifact from the imaging process?

I’m heading to see a pulmonologist next week...

Rebecca Grant26 said:I’m not quite sure where else to turn—does anyone happen to know how much access a clerk or perhaps a doctor, say, in the OB-GYN department, actually has to everything a patient has done in their department or others? Is it easy for them to just pull up someone's entire medical history? Would something like a Social Security number or an insurance ID be enough for them to see all those records?

That probably depends on the specific hospital.
For instance—and this always strikes me as a bit odd—I ended up in the ER at the same hospital twice within two weeks, yet they acted as if I hadn't been there just fourteen days prior.
Now, the blood bank—they definitely have everything logged in their own database.
But generally speaking, there isn't one massive, centralized database that allows any random physician to instantly see your full history of conditions, illnesses, and such—unless, of course, that specific doctor or the hospital itself maintains its own internal system.
The only entity that truly sees the full scope of your treatments is Medicare. Though, from what I understand, doctors don't have direct access to those files.

I’m well aware of that—but I can’t exactly just sit here and "hope" for the best without any basis in reality.
Alright, perhaps I’ve dialed back my expectations a bit too much 🙂
I'll be getting my blood work results back later today, so hopefully that will provide some actual clarity.
I honestly can't decide if it's worse to be left in the dark or to actually know that something is heading south.

Timothy Lee29 said:I couldn't find the right thread for this—admin, if you wouldn't mind moving this or pointing me in the right direction.
I’m trying to figure out how I can request a prescription online through my primary care physician. Someone please walk me through it. I already know how to book an appointment at the hospital or schedule follow-ups, but I can't seem to find the option to just list what I need so the prescription is ready for me by the next day. Thanks. 😉

I'm not entirely sure that's even an option. Prescriptions are usually tied directly to your insurance card, though I suppose I don't know if a doctor is actually allowed—or even able—to issue them that way...

Angela Wright said:Grdana, I truly believe you’re going to be fine. It feels like we share a very similar temperament—we tend to see things through the same lens, don't we? Don't let this get to you; spiraling like that only invites more negativity into your orbit. Everything is being handled, and it's all under control. There really isn't any point in jumping to conclusions right now. Just stay strong—pretty soon, this will just be another small chapter in the rearview mirror.

I try my best not to jump to conclusions—really, I do—but my mind naturally starts running through every possible scenario, dissecting them one by one.
I had some bloodwork done today... I should have the results tomorrow regarding my white blood cell count, lymphocytes, CRP levels, and the rest of those markers.

velvetmoose9 said:...I’m no Milan Kundera, but I had a bit of a "gut feeling" about a scenario like this...
Now, I should probably clarify—I don't have access to the clinical history, X-ray results, or any actual medical records, so please take this with a grain of salt.
That said—quite frequently—we see situations that look almost identical to this.
I will definitely make sure to mention the issue with that X-ray machine to the pulmonologist.

To set the record straight, my aunt mentioned that the machine wasn't fully operational (maybe it needed to cool down, or some other technical glitch, who knows) ... but once they finished the frontal view:
http://img6.imageshack.us/img6/6162/prednji.jpg

When she went in for the lateral view, the machine actually jammed up—it was quite a mess—so they had to reset it just to get that second shot:
http://img843.imageshack.us/img843/753/bocno.jpg

I'll certainly bring this up with the pulmonologist, so if they need to run the tests again, they'll know why.