ruggedgardener74 said:My dad passed away this morning.
I am truly sorry for your loss.
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I am truly sorry for your loss.
shadowbison75 said:My dad understands how serious this is. From the very first appointment, they were blunt—they told us straight up it was a tumor and a large one at that. No sugarcoating.
The CT scan just confirmed what they saw right away.
So, my father has known from the start that he’s late in the game. He even got his discharge papers, so he could read all the details himself.
But I honestly don't know if I want to be completely blunt with him about exactly how many months he has left...
😢 😢 😢
We only really talked about the illness when she was the one to bring it up. Those conversations were a mix of tears and laughter... it was strange. We’d find ourselves making jokes about death just to cope.
The reality is, this disease doesn't just hit the patient; it hits the whole family. You have to face an unpredictable, relentless enemy together.
ruggedgardener74;91698941 said:Hannah Reed35, thank you for those words of hope. There is so much divine providence in your story, and I thank God that your mom is doing well.
Stories like this mean everything to those of us still walking through the fire.
The oncologist actually told her point-blank: either God loves you deeply, or you love and pray to Him with everything you've got... there is no third option.
I’ve always found myself praying the same way: Let Your will be done, not mine. You know exactly what I want, but let Your will prevail instead.
And God worked a miracle. In my heart, I know and believe that is the truth.
shadowbison75 said:Hannah Reed3, hearing stories like this really does help.
We all need some positive outcomes to hold onto during these brutal days...
Based on your experience, how honest is an oncologist actually with a patient regarding their prognosis?
Do they really lay it out straight, or do they sugarcoat things so the patient doesn't have to face the truth for months?
Our oncologist was direct with us. They phrased it as, "Given the situation, here is what we can expect during this period," but the message was clear. My mother didn't mince words—she asked him exactly what he thought.
In medicine, math isn't always simple. Sometimes 2+2 equals 5, and unfortunately, sometimes it's 3.
ruggedgardener74 said:Chloe Bennett5, I am so sorry about your mother. This disease is a nightmare.
I’m still fighting. I refuse to quit, even if everything—the statistics, the progression, the nature of the disease itself—is stacked against us. Today, I actually felt a glimmer of hope; the progression over the last two months has been minimal. I made a pretty drastic decision today: no more chemotherapy. I have a gut feeling about this path, and I'm going all in, whatever happens.
My dad never gave up on me, even when we clashed, and I won't give up on him. I'm still holding out hope that he falls into that lucky 5%.
I hope you've been able to find some peace after such a devastating loss. At the end of the day, parents are everything.
Dear ruggedgardener74, I know exactly what you're going through because I've walked that same path. You can look back at my old posts if you want. To make a long story short: in September 2012, my mother had surgery for colorectal cancer. Just as we were prepping for chemo, they found metastases in her liver, which she had operated on in December. The prognosis was three to six months. But my mom is a fighter; she doesn't go down easy. She pushed through chemo all through 2013—the Folfox IV protocol, 12 cycles... and look at her now! She's alive and shows no signs of illness. We are entering our tenth year. Her oncologist says there isn't even a statistical category for her; she simply defied every prediction and statistic out there!
Anyone who sees her would never guess how much she struggled, but she did. It was incredibly hard. I forgot to mention that in May 2021, she had to undergo a heart procedure due to severe fibrillation... but that's all behind us now. You have every reason to believe in that 5%. She stayed consistent with her chemo. It wasn't easy—cycles four and seven were brutal—but she fought through them like a hero. So, it comes down to the chemo and the supplements. I don't know if you're religious, but I have to say that prayer and faith in God kept us going.
She still takes beta-glucan. For three years, she squeezed fresh juice from beets, apples, carrots, and lemons every single morning, along with chokeberry.
She is 75 now. She handles all the housework, walks more than two miles every afternoon, and as soon as the weather warms up, she's out swimming in the ocean, both early in the morning and in the afternoon.
I hope our story gives you at least a small shred of hope. I celebrated every tiny bit of light at the end of the tunnel. Even now, I celebrate every good scan; I practically dance and sing for joy!
Overdrafts and negative balances: What's allowed?
in Banking, Insurance & Loans ·
slystag4 said:The folks over at Chase told me it’s currently being processed and that exceeding the limit is also permitted. They mentioned they don't have any definitive answers just yet, though.
Give me a break. They haven't a prayer. I suspect we're headed for a scandal that won't be easily forgotten.🤦
My deepest condolences....
Kimberly Taylor92 said:I recently posted about my mother's battle with pleural mesothelioma. Sadly, she passed away last Wednesday after a sudden decline. There was nothing more we could do.
Please accept my deepest condolences.
Fashion for curvy girls
in Fashion ·
wiredpuma92 said:Hey ladies, can anyone recommend where I can pick up some compression shorts or biker shorts in the US? I need something to wear under dresses or skirts because my thighs rub together 😐😉
I checked out H&M, but they only had one size in stock and they just ended up digging into my legs like crazy. I probably need a size 16 or maybe an 18, depending on how the brand fits.
https://www.victoriassecret.com/lingerie/shapewear
Victoria's Secret actually has some solid options for this. 👍
neoncyclist792, I'm sorry you have to get dragged into this fight, but someone has to step up. This guy thrives on our fear and helplessness.
You might want to check out some of the discussions over at http://rak-nije-mrak.proboards.com/
There's actually a lot of useful info there if you look.
You might want to check out some of the discussions over at http://rak-nije-mrak.proboards.com/
There's actually a lot of useful info there if you look.
Rachel Williams. My deepest condolences...
urbanharbor15, she passed away surrounded by her loved ones... you did everything within your power for her. Let that be some comfort to you.🙂
Fashion for curvy girls
in Fashion ·
rustytiger27 said:Seriously, I am recommending Mango Violeta denim with all my heart.
Everything I’ve picked up from them has been amazing. Honestly, finding decent jeans around here feels like a full-time job. I’m a standard US size 12, and let me tell you, nothing at Zara fits me right—I can force myself into them, but it’s a total struggle. Occasionally, I might find a decent cut over at C&A, and if I do, I just grab my usual 12.
At Violeta, though, I buy a 12 every single time. I’ve actually bought about 7 or 8 pairs by now, and every single one has fit like it was custom-made for me.
I couldn't agree more! Their Masha leggings are easily the best.
Breast cancer diagnosis
in Women's Health ·
Brenda Johnson68, we're thinking of you and keeping our fingers crossed!🙂
Castor, I am so sorry...
Fashion for curvy girls
in Fashion ·
Jonathan Perez88 said:Bikinis? Is the material actually decent? I'm looking for a two-piece—nothing fancy with a high waist, just a standard cut. 😬 I need to try them on first; ordering online is out of the question. I’m a size 12 or 14 🤔.
Someone mentioned Kik in the bikini thread—anyone actually used them? None of their locations are convenient, so I don't want to make a wasted trip. I picked one up at a Target clearance sale last year; the fit was great, but let me tell you, that fabric takes forever to dry.
Pletix! 👍.
Robin Diaz4... let him rest in peace. Please accept my sincere condolences; I am truly sorry for your loss.
Dear wearyskipper20... I am truly sorry to hear about your mother. Losing someone so young is devastating. I believe she’s in a much better place now, far away from this valley of tears...
Terry Lopez18... I am truly sorry. Please accept my deepest condolences...
ruggedfox11 said:I realized something today—and honestly, it’s nothing to be proud of.
He doesn't talk about his illness; he just dwells on it. I can't say for sure, but judging by how he usually carries himself, it isn't constant.
On the other hand, I’ve become completely obsessed with his illness. It’s all I talk about, all I think about—nothing else matters anymore. Honestly, I’ve become even worse than his brother, who constantly invents health issues just to stay the center of attention. To top it off, I found out today that I finally landed a permanent position at work. I wasn't even happy about it.
How do we get out of this mess?
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I know exactly what you're going through. I felt that same weight back in 2012 when my mom started her fight against cancer. If you look back at my old posts, you'll see we've had a rough road, and the battle isn't over yet. We aren't backing down. You’ll find that every positive scan—even just a slight improvement—gives you a bit of breathing room. Eventually, you start feeling like yourself again, reclaiming a life that wasn't completely taken over by this disease. Unfortunately, cancer doesn't just hit the patient; it hits the entire family.
Don't let him get the upper hand on you. That kind of lowlife thrives on nothing but our fear.
Since you landed that permanent contract, take a moment to celebrate. In this economy, that's actually a massive win.