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brightgardener8 said:Maybe it would be better if my sister wrote this, since she was the one taking mom to the ER with her husband yesterday...
Anyway, they were stuck waiting there for over three hours. It felt like everyone just wanted to get rid of them and pass them off to someone else... just the usual. At first, they told us they wouldn't give mom mannitol because she didn't need it (or some excuse like that), but then, in the end, she actually got it.
In the middle of all that, some medical professional made the brilliant observation that we shouldn't feed mom because her blood sugar was over 9 (?!?!?!).
Honestly, guys, when you hear stuff like that from someone who is supposed to be a medical expert, it makes you want to lose it.
First of all, mom is a diabetic on insulin, so her sugar needs to be LOWERED, and 9 is an elevated reading (she had eaten breakfast before we arrived at the hospital).

Now we're dealing with a whole other headache involving mom's primary care physician. According to him, WE are now responsible for bringing all the documentation to the board every single month (just so she can be assigned a medical professional to give her injections), even though until recently, he and his staff handled everything.

So, I called the emergency line. I didn't really need to explain anything, but they just told me the ambulance was on its way. Once we arrived, the ER doctor started "lecturing" me right off the bat, claiming that the ER isn't meant for cases like this—that patient transport should be organized through the primary doctor and that we should have had a referral for outpatient care. Basically, they acted like it was our fault for not planning this specific situation out perfectly... 😵
Back at the hospital, we were once again told that mom is actually doing okay considering her diagnosis, and that she doesn't actually need Mannitol because based on her labs (blood sugar, enzymes, urea, pupil response, etc.), there wasn't any sign that her condition was caused by edema or anything similar. So, we sat there waiting for about three hours, completely unsure if they were ever going to administer the Mannitol or not, only for it to turn out that she did receive it... after which she finally woke up and started talking. 😍
Throughout this whole ordeal, I actually stayed pretty quiet. I just explained to the doctor that this wasn't the first time this happened, and that mom has received Mannitol in similar situations before, which I guess was enough. 🙏
And that "brilliant" medical professional who tried to explain mom's glucose levels to me... and then later tried to explain things that actually fall within my own professional field, but misinterpreted everything absolutely incorrectly... honestly, what can I even say? It was pathetic.
Anonymous said:My mom passed away this morning at 10:05, just three and a half months after her diagnosis...

I am so deeply sorry. Sending you strength and wishing you peace during this time.
Charles Newman said:... my mother passed away

I am so incredibly sorry, George. Please hang in there.
Grace Fowler said:Hey everyone!! Just checking in before I head out. I actually have an interview for a surgery residency tomorrow... I'll be sure to check back in soon with updates..

Good luck, Dina!!! 😘
Hey everyone, I’m just so relieved that the bad luck from last year and the years before that hasn't repeated itself! I truly wish you all a much happier New Year's Day!
Grace Fowler said:I guess I’m just looking at a successful surgery as my little gift from God for Christmas. That's all I can ask for... Dina

🙂
Stay strong, dear Dina. I'm rooting for you and wishing you nothing but the best!
Carol Ramirez said:We laid my Grandfather to rest today. He was like a second father to me, such a massive pillar of strength.
I honestly don't know how to move forward. Everywhere I turn, there are these heavy reminders of our fight—the bottles of medicine he took, everything I used to prep for him, the prescriptions, the lab results, his glasses. If I could, I’d just run away to Mars.

My deepest condolences.
slyseal28 said:...

Or honestly, if anyone knows the right place to direct this question...
Where can I file a formal complaint or publicly call out someone holding the position of "Director of a nursing home" who brutally insults a family member just for coming in to submit an application for a vulnerable loved one seeking placement in that very facility?
Linda Campbell said:...Don't be afraid of anything...

I wish it were that easy. Honestly, I’m struggling to find the right words to describe what I've been feeling lately. There is just so much sadness on these forums, and so much grief out there in the world. Angela Wright, Linda Campbell, and all of you dear people who have faced the deepest kind of pain yet you still show up here—you are my role models. I truly admire you.
My mom's condition is getting worse by the day. It feels like she's slowly, surely slipping away, and I feel completely helpless, unable to do anything for her or even for myself. I’ve fallen back into "that hole" again, that dark place I can't seem to climb out of. It feels suffocating, like a weight on my chest, but I know I have to push through...
Take care of yourselves!
Grace Fowler said:... and honestly, it’s such a huge deal to me because my sense of taste finally came back too (I guess I'm just one of those lucky people...)

Way to go, Grace! You've got this. Hang in there and keep pushing forward! 🙂
My heart goes out to you. Deepest condolences.
slyseal28 said:http://www.carcinoms.com

This is just fantastic—especially this forum!
Linda Campbell said:... sister-in-laws...

Honey, sometimes sisters-in-law can be the absolute worst people you'll ever deal with. Don't let them get to you—stand your ground and give it right back to them. You know exactly how to handle it.
Sending love.
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Linda Campbell, I am so incredibly sorry for your loss.🙂
Anonymous said:... Thanks, Angela Wright. How’s your mom doing? I haven't seen any posts from Amanda Williams64 in a while—do you know how her mother is faring?

Hey, I'm back! I've checked in once or twice, but it's been pretty brief. My mom is doing okay. And by "okay," I mean she can still walk, eat, handle the bathroom, and bathe all on her own. But the independence ends there. She can't really cook anymore, her vision is fading, and using her phone has become such a struggle. Her speech is getting harder, too. Sometimes her sentences just don't make sense, so we have to play detective, asking follow-up questions to piece together what she’s actually trying to tell us. 🙂 There are moments when she loses track of time, too; if she takes an afternoon nap, she might wake up thinking it's already the next day. It's just one of those things. But she's hanging in there.
Hi everyone!
Elizabeth Diaz60 said:Lately, my mom has been having some trouble swallowing pills, which includes her usual propolis capsules. Does anyone know if there's an alternative or perhaps a different format, like a liquid version? Also, what kind of effect would she get if she just swallowed the contents of the capsule directly?

First things first! You can actually pick up a propolis tincture at most local pharmacies. It’s basically a hydroalcoholic solution containing about 25% propolis extracted in alcohol and roughly 5% beeswax. These tinctures usually come in half-pint bottles, so it's definitely a liquid option.

Hey everyone, I'm checking in too! Honestly, I don't have much profound insight to offer right now. Life is just moving along as it always does, and we're all just finding our way through it. In any case, wish me luck!
Grace Fowler said:Hello, my dear friends!!
Well, here I am, posting for the third time. The truth is, I don't really feel like myself—honestly, I don't feel much of anything at all. These bone pains are just completely overwhelming. But I refuse to let this take over my mind or my life... I want you all to stay brave, because I’m certainly going to keep trying....
Sending a million hugs to everyone, from Grace

Big hello to you! Please stay strong and don't give up!!!😘
Hey everyone, what can I even say?! Mom is out at the beach right now, supposedly "relaxing and feeling great." But how am I doing? Honestly, when I don't see her—which has been happening lately, where we go a day or two without seeing each other, not even counting her trip to Miami—I feel this strange sense of relief. Because she needs so much help, I find myself constantly bringing her back to my place, and when she's here, I get incredibly nervous and angry. Then, once she heads back home, I’m hit with this awful emptiness. After that, it’s just pure hell; this indescribable wave of fear, despair, and hopelessness takes over. It’s just a constant cycle.
I wish I could tell you things are looking up. Unfortunately, it feels like she’s visibly fading. Even though her appetite is still surprisingly good, she’s already lost 6 pounds.
Hang in there, Grace Fowler, keep your head up!
Best to you all!
Hey everyone!
It’s been a little while since we last checked in, though there haven't been any major "life updates" worth sharing until now. Mom has finally finished her radiation treatments and wrapped up her first round of Temodal. She actually headed out to the coast today. We were honestly worried she wouldn't be allowed to travel—given what the doctors initially told us—but during her most recent checkup, her oncologist gave her the green light. Given everything she's going through, we really want her to soak up some sun and enjoy herself while she can. Things aren't exactly easy right now, but for the moment, we have things under control.
Take care, all!