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High School Guide: Admissions, reviews, and advice in Students & Teens ·
mellowskipper said:My daughter originally wanted to go into graphic design for web work, but her school basically brainwashed her into thinking it was for losers—telling her everyone there was just out to cause trouble.
Now she’s insisting on going to an academic high school because, apparently, that's where all the "smart" kids go. I suppose she's just terrified of looking unintelligent.
It's a mess.

Around here, you actually needed a GPA similar to what you'd need for a top-tier prep school just to get into the tech programs. Though, I think they only had one class per grade level, so maybe that's why.
High School Guide: Admissions, reviews, and advice in Students & Teens ·
mellowskipper said:Is there actually some kind of admissions coordinator or a specific point of contact at high schools—I’m not even sure what the official title would be, I guess—that I can reach out to?
Would it be possible to request an appointment to sit down with my kid and have a brief conversation if they’re interested in a particular school and have a few questions?
Or am I just supposed to browse the school's website and call it a day?

I can't speak for the official district policy, but for our local high school, I’d suggest reaching out to the school counselor. She pops into parent meetings every now and then, and she’s always mentioned that we can swing by for anything—not just when things go sideways. Honestly, she seems super friendly and easy to talk to, really approachable...

That's about all I know.
Church and State: The "Sacramental Engineering" Case in Close to Politics ·
Rebecca Diaz said:They don't ban things openly; they do it subtly. I'm saying the exact same thing to you as a person of faith.
Kids are being taught they evolved from monkeys, that everything came from nothing, and how to use condoms.

Claiming that this kind of education in a country where the vast majority are Catholic isn't a "ban" just because it isn't written in a law book is incredibly naive.
It’s a calculated attempt to wipe out traditional values and promote degeneracy. 😠

None of that stuff is actually in the school curriculum. Now, whether creationists are intentionally twisting what's really being taught or if they just can't wrap their heads around the material... well, that's a whole different conversation.
What's the point of required reading? in Students & Teens ·
Kenneth Brown5 said:Does anyone happen to know if focusing on those big research projects and reading lists during high school actually pays off more in the long run? I’m totally flying blind here without any info.

It really just comes down to the teacher, I guess. I remember counting down the minutes until middle school was finally over, and now? Now I'm feeling totally overwhelmed by high school too. Our whole education system here is honestly kind of a mess.
What's the point of required reading? in Students & Teens ·
I've been sticking to my tablet lately; my Kindle just feels a bit too small for me.

I found this awesome reading app, though, and honestly, it's super easy on the eyes.
What's the point of required reading? in Students & Teens ·
Mad Hatter said:They don't have to, but if they don't, they shouldn't expect to be straight-A students or pull off a perfect 4.0.
An "A" is for people who nail everything with actual passion... or at least nail it even if they're just grinding through it because they want the grade. But hey, no complaining allowed, because there's always an alternative. It's called a C.

So you're telling me if a kid wants an A, they have to basically lose their entire identity and give up all their free time? Just to grind through a mountain of useless busywork that has nothing to do with real life, yet we still demand perfection?

I honestly don't see how my kid is ever going to be a valedictorian. 🤷
hiddendriver34 said:Stephens, Bradbury is actually required reading for class. 😉

Not exactly his best work, though.
What's the point of required reading? in Students & Teens ·
Sarah Hall53 said:Nah, I just mean it’d be pretty great if you had something to read right before hitting the hay.

Whoops, totally went in reverse there—my bad on the mix-up!

Anyway, setting aside how much school can weigh a kid down, not everyone is a bookworm. I mean, sure, books are awesome. Growing up, my family used to tease me constantly, saying I couldn't even go to the bathroom without a book in hand. I’d practically have one sitting next to my plate during dinner... but hey, that's just me. On the flip side, sports were never my thing. Honestly, watching a game on TV gives me stomach cramps, so imagine if I actually tried playing one! I was always more into PC gaming, though. I was basically installing operating systems while kids my age were still struggling to figure out how to attach a file to an email.

It really bugs me how much pressure there is for kids to be these "well-rounded" superstars who love everything. They're expected to wake up ready to tackle school with puppy-like enthusiasm, crush their homework, devour all those classic novels, play soccer or volleyball, read 50 pages of some heavy literary masterpiece before sleep (because let's face it, I doubt anyone counts Bujold, Herbert, or Bradbury as "required reading"), and then somehow act all offended when a friend asks them to hop online for a quick session on the PlayStation because apparently, gaming is pure evil.
What's the point of required reading? in Students & Teens ·
hiddendriver34 said:Steffi, I’m not sure I follow you. Are you saying we should just scrap required reading lists altogether because nobody picks up a book anymore?

No, no. I was talking about this teacher who actually told a kid he had to finish his assigned reading before bed.

Honestly, that's just plain rude if you ask me.
What's the point of required reading? in Students & Teens ·
Sarah Hall53 said:By the way, they actually asked about the ring's color on the SAT—right after a passage that says something like, "To cast a crimson light upon the fingers..."
If you give it even a tiny bit of thought—and, let’s be honest, if you aren't totally lost while reading—you can pretty much figure out they're talking about fingers and rubies, which means the ring is likely red.

edit: ninja style by Bill Clinton

I honestly hated those old books written in weird regional dialects back in school. It was such a drag. You’re forced to read stuff that bores you to tears, and then you have to struggle just to figure out what the heck is even being said.

I really believe most people stop reading once they graduate because those mandatory school assignments totally killed their love for books for good.
What's the point of required reading? in Students & Teens ·
Sarah Hall53 said:The thing is, about 90% of students aren't actually going to use their extra free time to pick up a book they actually enjoy—they’re just going to be glued to a PlayStation or scrolling endlessly through TikTok instead.
Maybe one or two kids per class might read just for the fun of it, and yeah, they'll tackle the required reading too, but for everyone else? That assigned reading is basically the only thing they'll touch all year long. So, honestly, it just makes sense to cut down on the workload. ☕

But okay, what's the alternative?

It's their own free time, right? 🤷Can't kids have a little break from school before they crash for the night? Why shouldn't they get to do stuff they actually enjoy for a change?

Let's be real here—how many "distinguished intellectuals," doctors, lawyers, or engineers actually sit down to read? Even looking at my own family, who all work in education, they read about as much as anyone else. Most of them are just as happy bingeing soap operas or trashy reality TV. Compared to that, playing video games feels like a much higher quality way to unwind. 🤔
What's the point of required reading? in Students & Teens ·
Susan James said:Quentin Tarantino

I don't see any issue with reading right before bed. In fact, I find it helps me wind down.
We all have this little habit at home, and honestly, I love that we’re keeping it alive. Even when we travel and end up with a TV in our hotel room—something we definitely don't have back at my place—it still feels like part of our routine.

The real issue is that these homework assignments are things we should honestly be tackling in class rather than being sent home. It feels like they really need that face-to-face guidance to actually get through them properly.
It’s honestly a real struggle when schoolwork starts eating up all the time that should be spent on just playing around and being creative.
Creative types—the ones everyone says are "in high demand" on the job market right now. 🙄There will definitely be those who had the luxury of just sitting back, taking their time, and playing whenever they felt like it.

I run into this massive hurdle whenever I try to get through any recreational reading: if you don't manage to finish a book during the school year, it feels almost impossible. Between the mountain of required textbooks, endless essays, and those heavy creative projects teachers pile on, there’s just never enough time left over. I actually stumbled upon some thoughts about this on Bookmeter. In this thread...

I honestly think it’s better to squeeze in an extra book whenever you can, even alongside your required school reading. If you just stick to the assigned curriculum, you end up spending all your free time running errands—you know, heading down to Target, prepping ingredients, making pizza, working on some art project, or just tackling chores. By the time you're done with all that, your brain is fried. I’d much rather lose myself in a new story during those quiet moments. It’s such a great way to expand your vocabulary and really fire up your imagination; books just have this way of opening up your mind in a way that daily tasks never will.

People always say that letting students get creative with their reading assignments is the best way to actually make them fall in love with books and get them reading more often. I honestly think there's some truth to that! 😬

Exactly.

The real headache is that the teacher seems to think kids shouldn't read anything unless it's for pure academic purposes—like everything has to be about schoolwork.

I remember staying up until 1 or 2 in the morning just lost in a book. But back then, I was reading stuff I actually *wanted* to read—things that sparked my imagination and made me happy. Not stuff I was forced to finish for a grade. Kids need that downtime away from school too, you know?
What's the point of required reading? in Students & Teens ·
hiddendriver34 said:Is that really supposed to be the only goal here?

I read somewhere recently that the skill sets being hunted for in the global business world have flipped completely upside down over the last decade. Apparently, "teamwork" has tanked in importance, and now creativity is sitting right at the top of the most desirable traits list. These days, companies want creative individuals; being a "team player" is practically old news.

If school is meant to prepare kids for life and the actual job market, shouldn't it be encouraging them to develop the very skill that's considered most vital right now? Do you think creative assignments should be limited to art class? Because right now, you don't see them anywhere in high school.

I constantly see parents getting all worked up whenever anyone mentions "creative tasks."

By the way, I have no clue what a "pizza assignment" is either. But honestly? It sounds pretty cool. 😁

Honestly, that sounds like some trendy nonsense that eventually just ends up hitting both the boss and the worker in the face. Creativity without the ability or desire to actually work with others only works in very specific niches. On the flip side, "teamwork orientation" is also just a buzzword. Nobody cares if you're naturally "inclined" toward it—what matters is that you understand what it means to contribute to a team, respect your tasks, and realize how your actions affect everyone else on the squad.

We actually had to let go of an incredible designer a few months back. Being amazing at her craft just wasn't enough. For example, if a project manager tells her a client wants a table with square wooden legs, and she designs this gorgeous, functional table but gives it round metal legs instead, she’s messed up. She stalls the whole project team, we lose credibility with the client, and maybe even the manufacturer says it's impossible within the budget... There are very few industries where one person can just do whatever they want in a vacuum.

Group projects in our school system are supposed to teach kids how to be creative within their own slice of the pie while collaborating so everything fits together. It should be about negotiating, communicating, pitching ideas, and syncing up with what others are thinking. Sadly, group work is anything but that. Most of the time, it's just a massive source of frustration for students. I get that it's tough to supervise multiple groups at once, but they could at least start by giving more concise instructions and explaining what group work actually is, why it exists, what the benefits are, and what happens if you don't participate.

But here in the States, it usually looks like this: split into groups of three, four, or five, pick a topic from a list, and present it this Friday. Good luck with that. It's a decent idea in theory, but totally half-baked and practically meaningless in practice.
What's the point of required reading? in Students & Teens ·
I ended up printing the whole damn thing at work on the color laser printer. My cheap inkjet at home burns through ink faster than a wildfire, and let me tell you, those cartridges cost an arm and a leg.

I was out there gathering leaves in the rain, running between shops in the next town over, and when I couldn't find what I needed because our local stores are such a joke, I just lost my cool during an egg scramble and decided to go buy those fake foam eggs instead. I even went all out and outlined the drawing right when we were rushing to dry out orange slices for Christmas decorations.

I used to help her sketch out those gorgeous flowers whenever she was about to burst into tears from sheer frustration, and honestly, it was ridiculous that some random biology teacher from high school was actually grading art projects. Like this one.
What's the point of required reading? in Students & Teens ·
Honestly, I feel like a whole new person since high school, especially hanging out with my girl. It’s such a relief now that we don't have to deal with all those pointless busywork assignments—you know, like drawing stuff or gluing random little scraps and posters together just for the sake of it...

Even back in biology class, it was such a drag. We had to spend forever copying these super detailed, totally useless descriptions of plants from our textbooks into our notebooks. My backpack used to be overflowing with those tiny little leaf cutouts and random bits of paper we were forced to use...
What's the point of required reading? in Students & Teens ·
Mine is currently stuck on Crime and Punishment. She’s got the audiobook playing and just paces around the apartment with her headphones on, swearing at Holden Caulfield and muttering about how he really should've just gone for the head with an axe against Fyodor Dostoevsky. 🤣
Religion classes in school - Megathread in Students & Teens ·
Jose Wells3 said:I’m not sure what you’re looking for here. They separate kids by physical ability in PE class, too. But apparently, that isn't considered a valid argument.

Look, my kids are right here in the hallway. I have absolutely nothing against the concept of discrimination.

I don't have an issue with the financial side of things either, though I could give you a very vivid demonstration of how much those religious instructor salaries, the hiring processes, and their standing within the school system actually irritate me.

That's not what I'm talking about.

Is that how you see it too? Man, if that's your take, I think we're done here. Nothing left to say.

By the way, nobody—not us, not any of the kids in my daughter's class—has ever been sorted by physical ability in gym class. So, I have zero clue what you're talking about. It looks to me like you're just comparing apples to oranges. That pretty much says it all.
Religion classes in school - Megathread in Students & Teens ·
Jose Wells3 said:Secularism implies institutional separation—something we actually have in place. Sure, it gets violated sometimes, but claiming that religious education is inherently incompatible with secularism? That’s just a total lapse in logic. Honestly, if you're an adult, shouldn't you be able to grasp what the term "secular" actually means?

Your example is, as usual, pure nonsense. It’s on par with asking a group of kindergarteners if they know what autosuggestion is, only to have them look at you blankly and ask if you're talking about a car suggestion.
Well, let me give you my two cents on that, too.

In a secular society, when a secular scholar gives a lecture on statecraft within a religious institution, it isn’t an intrusion. It isn't one organization overstepping its bounds into another. It's simply cooperation. Or perhaps, more accurately, it all comes down to who is footing the bill.

Alright, let's not drag this out any longer.

It honestly irritates me. You all frame your arguments around anti-theism when that’s clearly not the issue. The real concern here is the state of religious education in our public schools, yet you can see the disconnect from miles away. It’s transparent.

Oh, really? 🥳

Did it ever occur to you that it's just plain wrong to separate kids in a public school based on their religion? And to top it off, we're basically paying taxes to fund the discrimination against our own children?

Yeah, we must be some real bunch of anti-theists, huh? How terrible of us!
Religion classes in school - Megathread in Students & Teens ·
rowdypanther12 said:It’s highly unlikely he’d be stationed at St. Peter's; I can guarantee my kid wasn't sitting on a toilet seat. 🤷 That isn't even a possibility in any scenario I can imagine. A principal could certainly use the restroom and leave their office to the kids, but that's really the only way it works.
One time, they actually had the bright idea to put them in the classroom during religious studies.
They haven't tried that again, and they won't—I didn't go out of my way to be a "Karen" about it. 😂

Honestly, the bathrooms were perfect for them. They've got mirrors, plenty of light... basically an entire period dedicated to selfies and touching up makeup. Who am I to stop them? 🥳

I remember once someone suggested moving students to the back rows during religion class because of some emergency situation. Yeah, absolutely not. No way in hell was that happening.
Religion classes in school - Megathread in Students & Teens ·
silentmason4 said:I've been wondering lately—is there actually any legal ground to stand on when it comes to school scheduling? Like, is there a specific law or a set of district regulations I could point to if I wanted to complain about a totally nonsensical timetable? For instance, imagine a situation where religion class is squeezed right into the middle of the regular school day for a class where half the kids aren't even enrolled in it. It just feels so disjointed.

Nah, nothing exists.

You can try, sure, but if you run into someone who actually uses common sense... though most principals these days are just political appointees, so honestly? It feels like tilting at windmills to me.

My old school started out in the library, and bit by bit they pushed them out of every room until they ended up stuck in the janitor's closet by 8th grade. Back then, I used to just head home for lunch since the school was right across the street, but then they passed those rules banning students from leaving campus, so we all just wandered around aimlessly wherever we could get away to.
Religion classes in school - Megathread in Students & Teens ·
Rebecca Diaz said:If you can remember which specific schools you're talking about, please shoot me a DM. I'm pretty sure they're violating regulations.

Honestly, having religious studies in public schools at all? That's just common sense being ignored.