Lisa Torres2 said:...where could I pick up some Kendo gear (a bokken, shinai, maybe a katana eventually)? Since I’m stuck having to buy from abroad, can anyone drop some links for ordering that actually ship to the States? I haven't found any local options yet...
There’s a massive variety out there—everything from shops strictly dedicated to Kendo and Iaido to those with a much broader inventory. You really shouldn't cut corners when it comes to the quality of your gear, either. What I can suggest are a few dealers we've had solid experiences with in the past, though you should double-check their shipping policies for the US. They generally should be fine...😕
www.e-kendo.com
www.e-bogu.com
www.sehyun-kumdo.com
www.budo-aoi.com
www.bogubag.com
www.e-mudo.com
...just a starting point for you.
Generally speaking, nobody would advise you to start your journey by just staring at a book or watching a video, but given your specific situation, I assume you don't have many practical alternatives right now. At least, not currently. One thing I've come across that I can highly recommend is a publication from the All Japan Kendo Federation (AJKF). It’s essentially a manual paired with a recording that lays out the fundamentals of the skill quite clearly. Most clubs or national associations have likely touched upon this at some point, but you could try digging through www.kendo.or.jp to see if you can order it directly. My only hesitation is whether an English translation exists. 😬 But honestly, don't sweat it too much; they tend to be pretty explicit visually, so the language barrier shouldn't be a major hurdle.
Good luck.