Posts by restlessfox9

Believe it or not, I finally managed to log in after what felt like an eternity of failed attempts.

And why on earth not just start a new thread? 😬
I am also casting my vote to stay.

Oh, thank you... I am just overwhelmed. Honestly, I feel like running out into the middle of the street and screaming at the top of my lungs because I'm finally pregnant 😍

I suppose I should share a bit of good news... after that unfortunate spontaneous mishap, today I finally saw two solid lines 😍 😍 😍 😍 🤣 🤣 🤣

Benjamin Nelson8 said:When a pregnancy ends spontaneously like that, people tend to assume the baby wasn't "healthy" and that nature was just stepping in to reset the system...

How do you even move forward from that?

I haven't personally gone through something like this, but if you need to, please just give yourself the space to heal, to process it, and to accept what happened... and then, when you're ready, try again...😘

this is all just too much to handle... a friend tells me, "it's not that big of a deal, it was only 20 days"😲 as if it isn't a massive deal. Even if it were just one day, I don't think I could face it... 🙂

I'll drop this in this subforum as well, just in case someone might have an answer... 🙂

Ladies... I haven't been around here for a while. So, a few days ago I went to see my doctor, and he told me I had a miscarriage at 20 weeks. I was bleeding a little, and honestly, I just assumed it was my period since the symptoms felt identical—except the pain was absolutely unbearable, which is why I finally went in for an exam... anyway, he tells me this is "normal." He actually said most women who experience a loss this early don't even realize it happened??? And then he tells me not to worry. Now I'm asking you all: has anyone else gone through something similar? How am I supposed to process this? I mean, I truly cannot wrap my head around it... how can he possibly think this is just normal? :-(