What were your biggest pregnancy surprises and pet peeves?
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Frank Morales6 said:Exactly.
And they were pulling heavy physical shifts all through the winter, too.
Not like we do today.
Honestly, it really bugs me when people poke at my belly and say, "It’s going to be a boy."
I mean, sure, it might be, but wtf? What does that even matter—whether it's a girl or a guy?
Both my husband and I couldn't care less; we are just counting down the days until this baby is here, and we’re going to love them just as much regardless of gender because they're ours.
It feels like everyone is just flattering us—like the old-fashioned way where they say, "Oh, you'll have a son!"
To my husband, it's like, "Congrats on making a son," and to me, it's "Congrats, you're having a son."
It irritates me that my kid is being judged by gender before they've even been born.
And let's be real, the ones doing most of that gender-based judging are women 95% of the time.
I've been in the exact same boat.🙄
Every single aunt and neighbor kept telling me I was having a boy, and I'd just shut them down:
- "Actually, no, it's a girl."
-"Oh, they must have misread the scan, it's definitely a boy!"
But then those very same people acted all shocked once my little girl actually arrived.😍