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Maria Adams26 said:Has anyone else noticed their hair thinning specifically while on birth control? I’m honestly at a loss. I’ve double-checked everything and my routine is fine; the only variable is the pills, which feels illogical because my hair was actually thick and healthy when my testosterone levels were high, but now...
My gynecologist just put me on a three-month break from the medication to get an accurate reading of my hormone levels. Does that actually make sense? I'd love to hear from anyone who has been through this.
Previously, I was on Diane-35 and took a six-month break after he mentioned my levels were returning to their old state—likely PCOS, though he never gave me a definitive diagnosis—so he switched me over to Yasmin.
Please, if anyone has advice, I’m feeling quite lost on what to do next.
Should I perhaps seek a second opinion from another specialist?

For me, my hair actually got thicker once I started the pill, and it stays pretty healthy...
Maybe you’re dealing with a thyroid issue instead?

I was just sitting here thinking about how everything feels like it’s moving at a hundred miles an hour lately, yet somehow, absolutely nothing is actually getting done. It’s that strange, modern paradox, isn't it? We have all these tools, all this instant connectivity, all these ways to reach out and touch anyone in the States at any given second, and yet the distance between people feels wider than ever. You look around and everyone is just vibrating with this low-level anxiety, rushing toward some invisible finish line that keeps receding further into the horizon... It reminds me of those old highways out West, where you can drive for hours and see nothing but sagebrush and heat haze, and you start to wonder if you're even moving at all. Just spinning your wheels in the sand while the sun beats down on you. Life feels a lot like that sometimes. A lot of noise, a lot of motion, but very little actual progress. Just a lot of empty miles... kaže:
I have a question: I just started taking birth control pills for the first time. I only have four left in this pack before my scheduled break, and now I’m wondering... is it actually normal to have brown discharge for the entire month? The instructions mention that breakthrough bleeding between periods is possible, so I'm assuming this is just part of the process—you know, the body trying to figure out how to handle all these new hormones... or maybe it isn't. Is this something worth worrying about? Has anyone else dealt with something similar?🙂

Yeah, seriously... I went through an entire cycle like that when I first started on the pill. It was just constant spotting. It finally stopped a couple of days before my period actually showed up, but then, boom—bleeding all over again... 🤣 And he won't be around for the next one either...

Sam Castillo7 said:It was 7 cm 😲, on my right ovary. There was also a 6 cm one on the left, but that one actually disappeared—or burst, whatever—before the surgery even happened.

Fast forward to now: two and a half months post-op, and everything is pretty much perfect. Both ovaries are working fine (for months before this, only the right one was showing any activity), my periods are perfectly regular, and I’m not dealing with any pain during my cycle—honestly, everything is great.😍 My doctor says it should stay this way, too.🙂

I'm honestly so relieved those massive cysts didn't wreck your ovaries... mine is only 2.5 cm, but I'm still incredibly anxious about it... just waiting for it to pop...🙂

Sam Castillo7 said:I know exactly what you're going through. It was driving me nuts while I was waiting for my surgery. The pain wasn't intense, per se, but there was definitely this constant sensation that something was just *off* on that side. Turns out, my cyst was still growing—it grew about half an inch in just seven days, and honestly, it probably would've kept ballooning if they hadn't gone in and removed it.

Your best bet is to get seen by a serious gynecological surgeon—someone who knows their stuff—to figure out the best move. Look, I'll say it again: even though most of those cysts are benign (I'm assuming you already had your tumor markers checked), they can still wrap themselves around the ovary, rupture painfully, or cause all sorts of internal chaos. So... yeah, book a real specialist ASAP and deal with this.

And seriously, don't panic!😉

How big was your cyst? And how have you been feeling since the surgery—everything going okay?

I have an important question for you all:

- how can you tell if an ovarian cyst has actually burst?

Is it more of a sharp, stabbing pain, or does it just feel like those dull, heavy cramps you get during your period?
I’m not sure if one of my cysts just popped... I definitely felt a cramp, but it wasn't like the usual stuff. It lasted way longer and was much more intense than what I'm used to...

Brandon Reyes6 said:Sure, they offer protection against pregnancy—but they do absolutely nothing for STIs. And honestly, that’s exactly why I think we should be careful about pushing pills on young women; it creates this false sense of security that leads them to skip condoms entirely, which is just plain reckless. If you're using the pill, condoms should still be non-negotiable!
Yeah, but my point stands—once you stop taking them, that "perfect" hair can turn incredibly greasy all of a sudden, and then there's the acne. It hits some people like a freight train while others don't notice a thing, I suppose.
Well, if they suit you and you actually enjoy them, then far be it from me to complain.

.......well, if you're constantly cycling through partners, sure. If not, maybe not. Personally, I can't stand condoms, which is just one more reason why I lean toward the pill... and yeah, I hate them because once, a long time ago, a condom got stuck inside me. Just sitting there, all crumpled up... I completely lost it. Instead of actually using my fingers to find it and fix things, I just broke down crying and spiraled into total hysteria..🤣, but yeah, ever since then, I can never truly relax. I'm always sitting there wondering, "Is it still where it's supposed to be?"

Brandon Reyes6 said:Sure, but for a thyroid disorder, you're replacing a specific hormone that’s missing. Depending on which one we're talking about, it’s possible to stabilize everything after a few years. But with the pill, you're taking a cocktail of hormones designed to induce an artificial period—and let me tell you, that isn't going to help you much once you stop taking it, do you see my point now??
The real question is what specifically someone is lacking and which exact hormones they actually need. I’m certainly not advocating for everyone to be prescribed the exact same pill for every different problem.
Technically, while you're on the pill, your ovaries aren't ovulating—which means you can't get pregnant during that time—and I suspect that's precisely why they're used to manage those cysts.
As for the acne, that part is true; almost everyone sees their skin clear up when they take them.

Look, I hear you, and I hope you hear me too. I was just trying to use my own experience as an example because, honestly, for some women, these pills really work wonders. Things have been looking pretty grim in the discussions lately, so I wanted to offer a bit of a bright spot—even if I have rambled about birth control quite a bit before...
For a healthy woman, the pill can actually be a little gift—better skin, better hair, and reliable protection against pregnancy. At the end of the day, that's what they're for, after all...😉
And we're talking over 99% effectiveness, which is something no condom can realistically claim to match.
There you go... looks like I might be a pill enthusiast after all...😍

Brandon Reyes6 said:Aha, so he clearly decided the best way to fix those deficiencies was to throw pills at you—just like he did with my friend. Though, honestly, I don't know how good that is for you long-term, or if you'll run into issues later once you stop taking them, because the pills don't actually solve the underlying hormone deficiency, as I've mentioned before!!
The real question is just how much you're lacking and whether those levels are even within a "normal" range—but look, I wouldn't know for sure, I'm not a doctor.
It seems to me that for young women, it would be better to encourage their bodies to regulate hormones naturally rather than just flooding them with pills.
At the end of the day, playing around with hormones is a dangerous game—messing with one thing inevitably triggers a domino effect elsewhere.

But wait, how else are you supposed to regulate hormonal function if not by using hormones? Even thyroid issues require hormone replacement therapy.
It’s not like everything can just fix itself magically, but pills actually work; look at this example:
Ovarian cysts can lead to excess hair growth, acne, and oily skin. Taking birth control can shrink those cysts, which in turn helps stabilize the hormonal fallout—like testosterone levels—that the cysts were causing...
If a woman’s hormones get thrown completely out of whack because of a major life crisis, extreme stress, or whatever, and she develops cysts and all those nasty side effects, then yes, the pill can help resolve those specific problems. And once she's past the stress, maybe things will stay balanced... without the pills, who knows when or if those cysts would have ever cleared up on their own...

Hold on, now that I think about it—a friend of mine was on Diane-35 since she was about 18 because her skin was an absolute disaster from acne. Within a year, she looked like a totally different person. It was a complete transformation...
Once she finally stopped taking them, her skin stayed clear because she was already through puberty... if she hadn't used them, she might be dealing with permanent acne scarring right now.
To me, it seems like the benefits of these pills outweigh the downsides. At the end of the day, having clear skin and being able to plan a pregnancy later are huge advantages...

Keith Thomas21 said:I think we might have had a bit of a misunderstanding here... You mentioned your libido was staying steady, or perhaps someone else brought it up, but in my experience, mine plummeted straight down to zero. On top of that, intimacy became physically painful and frankly unbearable due to vaginal dryness. If I had stuck with the MM, I would have ended up having to find someone else just to satisfy the physical side of things.🤣 🤣

But I really didn't bring up libido earlier 😁 😉

I've heard stories about libido dropping, especially with those older brands like Trinovum or Triqvilar...
For me, my drive was always a little low before I ever went on birth control—the desire was there, sure, but hitting an orgasm was a struggle...
Then after starting the pill, it flipped completely. Now, the desire is weaker, but reaching an orgasm is actually easier... maybe it's just because I'm more relaxed now that I'm not constantly worrying about getting pregnant...

Brandon Reyes6 said:Aha, I see.
It means your hormone levels were fine, you’re healthy, there isn't a family history of certain issues, and so on—essentially, you meet the criteria to take them.
Birth control is prescribed for healthy individuals—and it *should* stay that way. You’re supposed to have your hormones and liver function checked at least once a year; I think that covers all the bases, doesn't it?

Yeah, but some of my hormone levels were actually running a little low too—maybe that’s what he was hinting at?
I remember his reaction vividly; it was like, "Ohhhhh, wow, you are the perfect candidate for the pill" ( 😕 ). "You'd probably handle Diane-35 just fine if you wanted to, since they're prescription anyway ( and you can get them in three months)."
I told him I could, but they felt way too strong for me... my chest honestly felt like it grew entirely too much...
though Mom said Diane worked okay for her.

Keith Thomas21 said:I wasn't talking about how you feel while you're taking them; I meant the difficulty of getting pregnant once you stop.

There are probably plenty of women out there who feel totally fine on the pill, but in my experience, there seem to be more people facing complications. Honestly, I used to think I was doing great on them too; at one point, I even thought I’d stick with them past the recommended year. But once I finally quit, I realized just how much better I felt. While I was on them, I felt heavy, sluggish, and constantly exhausted.

And honestly, I envy you having a libido... for me, that vanished along with everything else, and it was one of the primary reasons I decided to get off them for good.

I did bring up libido before, 🤔

but that wasn't really me talking—personally, I find sex is better on the pill because I’m just not constantly worrying about everything, which is a huge plus...
though I didn't exactly feel this massive surge in desire or anything... I don't know...

Brandon Reyes6 is back at it again, isn't he? Just sitting there, staring at the screen while the rest of us try to make sense of this mess. It’s funny, really. You watch these threads unfold and you realize how much energy people pour into shouting at clouds... just endless cycles of noise that never actually change the weather. I sometimes wonder if we're all just circling the same drain, waiting for someone to plug it, but nobody ever does. Anyway, I suppose I should probably get back to what I was doing before I got sucked into this particular rabbit hole... kaže:
At the end of the day, everyone gets to call their own shots. You decide how you want to live, what works for you, and what makes life feel a little less heavy... it’s all about finding that path that feels right, I guess. Everyone’s just out here trying to figure out their own version of "easy" and "better"...👍
Of course it didn't mess you up. When you're actually taking the pills, your cycle stays totally regular... honestly, it’s usually more predictable than anything else in life...
My cycle's been all messed up ever since I stopped taking them...

I stopped taking the pill when I broke up with my ex, and I haven't touched them for eight months now. I’d heard through the grapevine that my cycle might get all wonky or shift around, but honestly, my period showed up exactly on schedule, which actually caught me totally off guard. My cycle has been perfectly regular this whole time, just like it was before I ever started the pill... it’s strange how that works sometimes...
That’s exactly why I didn't touch any of it until things got physical again... I don't even know how to put it into words properly...
Before I started on the pills, I was actually weaning myself off hormones—for some other reasons, really—so I still have those lab results on hand...
So, I just left my gynecologist's office, and they basically dropped this on me—told me I’m a "prime candidate" for birth control pills. I'm sitting here like... what does that even mean? It feels like such a vague, loaded thing to say without actually explaining the "why" behind it... 🤷
I have him right here with me now, and if anyone is actually interested in specific values... maybe that’s why I never had the slightest bit of trouble with pills...

Keith Thomas21 said:Hermina, you’re just reading back things you’ve heard elsewhere rather than speaking from actual experience; what we’re doing here is talking through the things we have personally lived through...

I went in for an ultrasound after my first real period following the pills, and it turns out I didn't ovulate that month, which led to my cycle being twenty days late. Then there was one month where it arrived right when I expected it—assuming I actually ovulated during that cycle—only for it to skip again the very next month...

I was on them for a full year, mind you; it was my doctor's recommendation, so I wasn't just experimenting on my own accord.

No, pay attention—I’ve been on them for four years. I took an eight-month break, and I’ve dealt with clear ovaries too.
I’ve switched up two different types, so I definitely have some real-world experience under my belt. (And honestly, that’s exactly what the OP was looking for)
It doesn't count as "experience" if someone takes them for two months and then quits.

With birth control, it’s always the same story—you’ve got the girls who hate them and the ones who are totally thrilled... just like me.
I don't see why anyone would insist on only highlighting the negative experiences?

Keith Thomas21 said:Exactly, that’s precisely what I’m getting at. You find yourself trapped in this sort of endless loop... you'll inevitably have to stop taking them at some point, and that's when the issues resurface. That's why, honestly, it's better not to start in the first place.

I know a woman who had zero issues before she started—no acne, no cyst problems, nothing like that—and she used the pill strictly for contraception. But once she stopped to plan for a family, everything fell apart; her skin flared up and her hormones went completely haywire. She couldn't even track her fertile window because her cycles became incredibly irregular. Fortunately, things finally stabilized after she gave birth.

It’s not some magical curse or anything; I just got used to the convenience of it—having zero blemishes. Of course, now that I'm on them, even the tiniest pimple after my period feels like a massive letdown...
But as far as everything else goes, my cycle hasn't been messed with and everything is fine.

So yeah, I’m sticking with them until the moment I actually want to get pregnant...

Keith Thomas21 said:If you truly want to protect your ovaries, the most effective way is to guard against inflammation. And honestly, the best defense against inflammation is simply being selective with partners and using protection consistently. A vast majority of cancers affecting female reproductive organs are linked to HPV, and a condom remains your primary line of defense against that.

In my view, birth control should be reserved strictly for treating conditions like PCOS, ovarian cysts, or specific hormonal imbalances. As I’ve noted before, once you stop taking them, the underlying issues often come rushing back, sometimes even more aggressively than they were before.

It seems like everyone has such wildly different experiences with this... personally, I’ve been lucky. My mom used the pill and didn't deal with any side effects at all—plus, she loved how it helped her silhouette. Since we share similar genetics, we figured I’d probably have the same luck, and as it turns out, we were right.

So, if you want my two cents, I actually consider birth control to be one of medicine's greatest hits. I’m genuinely thrilled with how things have turned out for me...

I also see this pattern happening a lot where girls make a mistake—they take them for a few months, quit because of those initial adjustment symptoms, and then claim they had a terrible experience. It creates such a skewed perception of reality...

Brandon Reyes6 is just sitting there again, isn't he? Just staring at the screen like it’s going to offer some profound wisdom if he looks long enough. It’s funny how people think these digital voids actually listen. They don't. They just echo back whatever nonsense you feed them, and honestly, most of what I see lately is pretty low-grade nonsense... anyway, I was thinking about that coffee shop on 5th—you know the one with the chipped counter and the overpriced espresso—and how much like this forum it feels. Everyone rushing to be heard, nobody actually saying anything worth hearing. It's all just noise in a vacuum... probably better that way. Keeps things predictable. kaže:
Birth control pills basically force an artificial period on you, which isn't exactly how nature intended things to work... we're essentially flooding our systems with hormones just to mimic a cycle that isn't actually happening. And honestly, it can really mess with things long-term. I've heard stories about women who struggle to even conceive for two whole years after they finally decide to stop taking them... it’s a lot to process when you realize how much those little pills can shift your internal balance...

Once you stop taking the pill, your chances of getting pregnant shoot up significantly. For most women, it happens pretty much immediately after quitting... I think there was a thread somewhere where people were sharing their actual experiences with that... Plus, there’s actually a higher likelihood of having twins. It's because both ovaries often kick back into gear at the exact same time, and while they're basically "negotiating," they end up releasing an egg simultaneously...
(I'll send you the list...)

I was just sitting here thinking about how everything feels like it's moving at a hundred miles an hour lately, yet somehow, absolutely nothing is actually getting done. It’s that strange, modern paradox, isn't it? We have all this connectivity, all these tools, and yet we're just spinning our wheels in the sand... staring at screens until our eyes burn, waiting for some kind of meaningful signal that never quite arrives. It’s exhausting, really. Just constant noise without any actual substance. I sometimes wonder if we've forgotten how to just... exist without needing to document it or react to it instantly. But then again, maybe that's just the way the world is now. A giant, buzzing hive of activity that leads nowhere... kaže:
Changes in the cervical area—I know this because back when I was dealing with CIN issues, my doctors kept asking if I’d stopped taking certain supplements right at the start... they were worried it might be linked to that. In the end, it wasn't caused by the supplement, but regardless of how it turned out, it just goes to show that the possibility is always there...
So, I have this friend whose mom is an ER doctor—works those grueling shifts in the trauma unit and all that. Apparently, she’s always told her daughter that she shouldn't just go around popping birth control pills for no reason. Her take is that if a condom actually fails or something like that happens, it’s better to just take the Plan B emergency pill once rather than being on the daily pill constantly. She claims it’s less taxing on the body that way... though I don't know, medical advice is always such a grey area these days...

Oh, please. No, that’s just not right. Sure, everyone loves to point out that birth control pills help protect against cervical cancer—that’s usually the first big selling point they throw at you in every commercial—but I have absolutely no clue where you're getting this other bit of misinformation from... 🤷

Keith Thomas21 said:I should probably mention that my cycle still hasn't quite found its rhythm again; before I started on the pill, my periods were actually remarkably predictable.
At the end of the day, while birth control definitely has its advantages, it feels like the drawbacks are twice as heavy... And don't even get me started on how much better life would be with some decent condoms!

You really have to draw a line between women who were already dealing with issues before they ever touched a pill—things like oily hair, acne, or cysts, which basically means their hormones were already a mess—and women who are perfectly healthy and just start taking them for other reasons.

I mean, if someone is dealing with ovarian cysts, they pretty much have to be on the pill if they want to conceive later anyway. But my point is, a woman who is actually healthy shouldn't be seeing all these side effects... assuming her hormone levels were fine to begin with.
For me, life without the pill is a nightmare. I tried taking a break once and immediately came back to minor breakouts, unwanted hair, and those damn cysts... never again. With the pill, I actually feel great. 😍

Brandon Reyes6 said:Well, let me tell you what someone once told me about the side effects—if I’d known all that back then, I never would have touched them.
For me, my period went from lasting seven days down to three, and even after I stopped taking them—which was a few years ago—it stayed that way.
Then there's the hormonal disruption—honestly, before you even think about touching the pill, you should probably get your hormone levels checked first, just to see if everything is balanced... something our "expert" doctors always seem to overlook.
On top of that, I started feeling nauseous and dealing with vomiting and whatnot, so I finally just quit.
And frankly, you still need to use condoms for your own sake—to avoid catching something like HPV or chlamydia.
Plus, once I stopped, my cycle was completely thrown off, even though it used to be perfectly regular before.

Doctors here tend to push the pill a little too easily—mostly because they figure it's better to have young women on medication than to deal with the fallout of an unplanned pregnancy.

Well, isn't that actually a positive change? 😁

Brandon Reyes6 said:Well, let me tell you what someone once told me about the side effects—if I’d known all that back then, I never would have touched them.
For me, my period went from lasting seven days down to three, and even after I stopped taking them—which was a few years ago—it stayed that way.
Then there's the hormonal disruption—honestly, before you even think about touching the pill, you should probably get your hormone levels checked first, just to see if everything is balanced... something our "expert" doctors always seem to overlook.
On top of that, I started feeling nauseous and dealing with vomiting and whatnot, so I finally just quit.
And frankly, you still need to use condoms for your own sake—to avoid catching something like HPV or chlamydia.
Plus, once I stopped, my cycle was completely thrown off, even though it used to be perfectly regular before.

Doctors here tend to push the pill a little too easily—mostly because they figure it's better to have young women on medication than to deal with the fallout of an unplanned pregnancy.

It’s not just about that, though. There’s also this underlying idea that it might make having kids easier down the road—basically trying to lower infertility rates. Since the pill helps protect ovaries from cysts and tumors, it’s seen as a safeguard, especially since women in America are waiting much longer to start families these days...

You’ve definitely got a ton of threads about birth control here, but let me give you the quick rundown of my own experience;

I was really hesitant at first... I had all these ideas that they'd make me gain weight, or that the hormones were just nasty, or that I'd end up with facial hair and stuff... honestly, most of those fears are total nonsense. I've been on them for four years now and

- My complexion is great (and zero breakouts, just totally clear and even)
- My hair isn't oily like it used to be, and it stopped falling out!
- My skin feels smooth
- They actually treat ovarian cysts
- Body hair has thinned out, and I don't have that fuzz above my lip anymore
- The protection is reliable, so pregnancy isn't a constant worry
- Periods are way shorter (used to be 7 days, now they're 4)
- No more intense PMS cramps like I used to get
- I know exactly which day my period is coming (which is a lifesaver for planning things)...

As for side effects, I don't have any anymore. I had some during the first two months, which is exactly why so many women quit—if you want to know more about that, I can write it out for you...
I'm sure you've heard some horror stories, so I'd suggest checking out this site; Dr. Miller is a legitimate expert in this field;

http://www.cybermed.com/index.php/pbl...jskim_pilulama

Basically, birth control protects your reproductive health, and if you're thinking about having kids someday, I'd recommend staying on them.

The stuff you hear about side effects usually only applies to the first 2 or 3 months of use, and the whole weight gain thing isn't actually caused by the pills themselves... what happens is your appetite might increase, so you end up gaining weight, but that hunger spike is also just a temporary side effect. If you notice you're snacking more than usual, just keep it in check and you'll be fine...