My personal struggle is avoiding the whole housewife trap, much like Michelle Bennett14 . That’s actually why I admire Louise; she embraces being a homemaker. Honestly, I’m fine with having misjudged the guys out there, but I have no idea what you're getting at, man.
Look, if he wasn't worth the effort, then he just wasn't worth it. Period. Though, let's be real—those guys you women always seem to fall for usually have a whole rotation of other girlfriends waiting in the wings anyway.
Women are trying to play men's roles, and honestly, we've completely lost the plot regarding gender roles. A woman was designed to be a mother and a homemaker, while men are built for the heavy lifting—you see this clearly in the real world, where you don't exactly see women dominating construction sites or working in greasy auto shops. But now, there’s this massive push for men to stay home, cook, clean, and babysit. It’s just not in their nature, and frankly, most men end up cracking under the pressure or becoming completely feminized in the process.
The whole struggle for a woman has always struck me as a joke; you give it a shot, realize it’s a losing game, and move on. I see most people leaning right into that chaos. You've got ten women fighting over one guy—it’s honestly laughable to me. Some even seem perfectly fine with sharing him, which, frankly, strikes me as nothing short of twisted. It’s basically a pack of wolves circling each other just to get to the same man.
Michelle Bennett14, those old-timers are actually giving you solid advice for once. Just take a breath. You can’t go around trying to overhaul the entire world; at the end of the day, the only thing you truly have control over is how you treat yourself—if you even bother to do that. Pick your inner circle with more intention. Watch people, listen to what they say...