Posts by Raymond Booth40

Vec would only fall in love if he actually went looking for it. As far as I can tell, he’s never going to find anyone...

I just can't. I start feeling completely overwhelmed if we don't talk for three months and make plans to meet up. It honestly makes me feel physically ill.

It’s a shame he didn't find someone better. Personally, I'm just looking out for his best interests, so he can figure out the rest on his own.

Where on earth did you hear that...

I am truly sorry to hear things turned out this way, especially since there was no connection to begin with.

He knows he won't find anyone better. He's fully aware that nobody can top what I bring to the table. At the very least, he should commit to a real relationship; otherwise, I’m just left with endless flings, and that is simply not how I want to live my life...

And who knows, maybe nothing even happens and he just ends up alone. I honestly don't have a feeling that things will change. He needs to realize that I'm the one right here. But I simply refuse to sacrifice my youth for this.

I honestly can't even... Posting anonymously here. A guy at his job was asking around about me, showing genuine interest, and my man just looked him dead in the eye and said, "How are you even going to build a future with her?" What on earth is that supposed to mean?

Well, if they aren't looking for a committed relationship, then I'm out. That’s just not what I need. It isn't healthy for me to be in a situation where I might end up getting hurt elsewhere

He refuses to commit to anyone at all. Honestly, that feels even worse to me than if he just didn't want to be with me specifically. I've dealt with so much trauma because of him; I know I need to walk away, but I just can't seem to do it.

It can stay this way forever. Even when you're in your 40s or 50s...

Is it possible for him to stay this way forever, just refusing to commit to anyone? Even when he hits his 40s?

The money is gone

My guy is a total narcissist too, honestly!

It wasn't exactly obvious from the start; it gave me a false sense of hope. It was only later that I realized

There is simply no way he can fall in love when he’s a true narcissist. He fell for me too, and look how that turned out. Now he claims he isn't interested in anyone else at all.

He’s honestly giving me mental fatigue

I’m not looking for anyone else besides myself

It wasn't always like this. At first, things felt much more like a committed relationship. Then, overnight, he just completely flipped the script and started acting like he was just casually dating someone... before, he actually treated me like we were together.

I just can't wrap my head around the fact that they won't go with anyone else.