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wiredcrane49 said:So, I have a bit of a predicament here—and it’s honestly becoming quite a nuisance. It seems my denim doesn't last longer than a month or two before they inevitably give out right in the crotch area. Just... friction, I suppose. I was wondering if anyone else deals with this particular issue? And more importantly, how on earth did you solve it? If anyone knows of any jeans that are actually durable enough to withstand the wear and tear without costing an absolute fortune, please let me know—it would be a total lifesaver, because this is starting to drive me a little crazy. I’ve already gone through three pairs since September—one from Gap, two from S.Oliver, and even these new ones from Tom Tailor are already showing signs of thinning. People, please... help!

Thanks in advance 🙂

ambereagle86 said:Diesel is more than alright with me. I’m down with everything else you said, though. Lately, I’ve been picking up most of my Dolce & Gabbana pieces over in Italy. The material quality is all over the place depending on the model—you'll find some stiff ones that feel cheap if they're on sale, but then there are these top-tier pieces D&G usually doesn't even bother making. Perfect cut, great design, and high-end soft cotton. My only gripe is that most of them have that little metal plate on the button that you basically have to rip off because it actually gets uncomfortable when you're sitting down😠. I ended up ruining one pair doing that, so I just hand-stitched them instead. Now they've got this unique custom look and they're easily my favorites🙏😁

darkmaker94 said:When did you skip the replay... 🥳

What happened with those guys from the web?

Bene dick od 16;18663086 said:

Can you format that link a little better for me? Something feels slightly off about how it looks. Also, any particular reason why it isn't included directly in the main body of your post instead of just tucked away in the edit?

Look, I think you might have missed my point there. I wasn’t talking about those crazy, extreme flare jeans from the early seventies. What I mean is that they should widen out from the knee down by a reasonable amount—nothing too subtle, but nothing ridiculous either. But honestly? The real dealbreakers for me are how they fit at the waist, the hips, and the backside. If the cut isn't perfect right there, I’m done. I can tell within seconds of pulling them on in a fitting room if they work or not. If they don't hit that sweet spot, I drop them immediately. To be fair, I end up tossing about 99% of what I try on.

You say you’d laugh at that eighties style, but honestly? I can’t help but smirk whenever I see what people are wearing these days. It’s hard not to. And yeah, I’ll admit it—it’s a little bit of a mocking kind of smile.🤣 Honestly, these kids today just don't have an ounce of taste. They throw on whatever they find, rocking this baggy, sloppy look that makes them all look like wannabe street rappers. I just can't stand it. I’m old-school like that, I guess. To me, a good pair of jeans should actually fit the body—they should be well-tailored and elegant. They shouldn't be hanging off you like a wet sack, looking cheap and shapeless like everything you see on the streets nowadays.
You say there’s everything available these days, but I’m going to have to disagree with you there. Sure, the options are endless, but if you look closer, about 95% of what’s out there is just bad design. It's all flash and no substance. To me, the real way to describe it is... It’s funny how we use that word, isn't it? It’s like when you’re driving down a highway in the Midwest and you hit one of those unexpected patches of black ice or a sudden construction zone that wasn't on your GPS. Everything was smooth, everything was predictable, and then—boom—there's the obstacle. In life, a "poremecen" is just that little hitch in the rhythm. It’s the pebble in your shoe when you're trying to go for a long hike in the Rockies, or that one glitchy line of code that keeps crashing your entire program right before a deadline. It’s not necessarily a catastrophe, but it’s enough to trip you up and force you to change your pace. You can't just ignore it; you have to acknowledge the bump, adjust your steering, and figure out how to navigate around it if you want to keep moving forward. When it comes to design—and obviously speaking for myself and most guys I know—women just have a much better selection to work with. It’s like comparing a hardware store to a high-end boutique; one gives you the basics to get the job done, while the other actually lets you express some personality. For us, it feels like we’re often stuck picking between three shades of navy blue or charcoal gray, whereas women have an entire spectrum of styles and options at their fingertips.

I've been hunting for those slim-fit jeans—you know, the kind that actually follow the lines of your body—but honestly, I haven't found a single cut that really hits the mark for me. It’s like looking for a needle in a haystack; every design I try feels just a little bit off.

The biggest issue right now is the actual cut of the clothing. There’s a complete lack of real geometry in design these days. Honestly, if you ask me, designers have completely lost the plot. Everything feels off. If the silhouette and the fit were actually right, I wouldn't even care about the fabric quality or the color palette. But we can't talk about decent denim design anymore because everything has spiraled into a total failure. They’re forcing these weird, distorted cuts just to chase fleeting trends—mostly for the paycheck, obviously. These big brands are basically selling out their souls and their heritage just to stay relevant to the younger crowd. They aren't making great clothes; they're just mass-producing junk because that's what happens to be trending on social media at the moment.

Look, my taste is pretty niche, so you’ll probably see things differently than I do.

True elegance isn't about being loud or flashy. It’s more like a perfectly tailored suit from a high-end tailor in Chicago—it doesn't need to scream for attention because the quality speaks for itself. It’s found in the subtle details, the quiet confidence, and that sense of effortless grace that stays with you long after someone has left the room.

Check out this link—it’s an old photo of me wearing some corduroy pants that were made by Varteks back before the war. These are the cream-colored ones, a summer version, which basically means a thinner corduroy weave; they used to make a thicker winter version too, along with plenty of other colors. The shot is taken from behind at waist and hip level just so you can get a good look at the cut and where the pockets sit. That was pretty much the standard geometry for clothing back then (and don't get me wrong, I'm not exactly bragging about the background here, haha). From the knee down, they flare out just a bit—not too much, not too little, just right. If you picked up the correct size, the fit against the body was spot on, neither too baggy nor too tight. They look a little worn out in this picture because I lived in them, but they looked sharp when they were brand new. It’s a simple design, and honestly, that’s exactly why it works so well.

I actually brought one of these into a local hardware store a few years back, looking for replacements. The owner just looked at me, sighed, and said, "Ah, man, I remember those. But you won't find anything like them anymore. Those days are long gone."

And there you go—it was plain as day, and even Sam knew it. Hehe...

Oh, I almost forgot—I absolutely cannot stand buttons on the front. It just feels off to me, honestly. I much prefer a zipper. Most of the stuff from that era had buttons, which is exactly why I avoided them. I never wore button-fronts back then, though after the war, I didn't really have much of a choice in the matter. Now and then I'll run into a zippered piece here and there, but I’ve always had these specific, weird tastes. But hey, what can you do? That’s just how I am.

I can't see any images through this link. It looks like a dead end or maybe just a broken URL. If you were trying to show me something specific, could you try uploading it directly or sending a different link? I’m definitely interested in seeing what you’ve got.

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To be honest, if we're talking about my personal taste here, those jeans look pretty rough around the hips and the backside. They’re just too tight and compressed—and let’s be real, that kind of suffocating fit doesn't look good on women at all.
Maybe back in the day it was all about the flare, but I just can't wrap my head around those skinny through the hips and waist, then suddenly wide from the knee down. It’s a look that just doesn't click for me...
If you're looking for something that actually follows the lines of your body, there's a massive selection out there. Honestly, just grab any pair of Levi's with a little bit of stretch and they'll hug everything perfectly—though keep in mind Levi's tends to lean into those flared styles quite a bit...
Sure, the carrot cut is having a moment right now, but I'm sticking to the classic straight leg. It never goes out of style.