What kind of person should I strive to be?
in Psychology ·
You simply have to be good—in whatever sense you personally define as such. It’s a subjective mess, really... one person might look at your actions and find them lacking, while someone else will swear you're doing everything right. Everyone operates on their own internal compass regarding what "good" actually looks like. There is one more thing worth keeping in mind, though—one that people often struggle to accept—and that is the reality that you will never be a perfect fit for everyone, nor will you ever truly become the person they want you to be.