steelridge58 said:Look, let’s be clear here—we aren't talking about some kind of performance or an act; this is about fundamental gender identity and the actual person you've met and experienced firsthand. I just saw the video. To me, being a woman is fundamentally about one's biological identity.
I really tried to lay it out for you with an example—you know, just to show how someone can exist and interact with the world without their physical appearance defining them, where they just act naturally and communicate authentically instead of putting on some kind of act, but I guess you aren't actually interested in really grasping the point I'm making.
Quincy:Deus ex machina Asks: I mean, honestly, what would I even have to become just to reach that level of understanding? 🙂) |
Look, I know you probably couldn't care less about this, but I really want to see if you’re even capable of wrapping your head around the whole situation from a different angle, just to test the limits of how much you can actually grasp on a topic like this.
Sometimes I think that if we could just find a way to truly step into the shoes of The Second, or even try to see things through the eyes of a parent raising a transgender child—or even just imagine ourselves navigating those same struggles as parents ourselves—it might actually help us understand the situation a little better.
Whether you actually agree with transgender identities or not really doesn't matter; seeking out genuine understanding and making the effort to educate yourself—to truly learn the nuances of someone else's reality—is something that enriches your soul rather than diminishes it. I honestly believe that staying informed helps us grow as people, regardless of our personal stances on the matter. But if you consciously choose to lean into transphobia or nurture xenophobic narratives in the way you speak to others, then you aren't just being closed-minded, you're actively choosing to stay small.
For philosophy.
Of course. That’s exactly why they identify as transgender, and they’re fully aware of that reality.
Quincy:Justin Richardson7 Asks: At that specific crossroads where you’re just staring into this empty possibility—this purely abstract assumption that I might actually find myself drawn to her because of the way her mind works—it just doesn't hold water. Because honestly, if someone possesses a way of thinking that breeds that kind of fundamental confusion, it isn't just some isolated quirk or a random fragment of their personality that you can overlook; it’s something that will inevitably bleed through into everything they do. That realization completely kills any chance of me being attracted to her intellectual side. To put it bluntly, her logic would eventually manifest itself in every little thing she says or does, leaving us as total strangers on almost every single issue, let alone finding some kind of spark or "vibe" that connects us. |
Look, this thought experiment—since it’s essentially just a mental exercise or a hypothetical scenario—is defined by its own specific set of rules, and I think we really need to stick to the parameters we've actually established rather than drifting into those extra points you're bringing up, because if we start factoring in things that weren't part of the initial setup, we aren't even talking about the same experiment anymore.
That is a incredibly tricky distinction, Volver.
If he hasn't actually
seen the person he's talking to, how did he experience them as a woman?
Is it based on their "softness, gentleness, or kindness," etc.—those
universal human virtues that, for some reason, are subconsciously tethered to biological females? 🤔
By doubling down on gender ideology,
you actually end up reinforcing biological sex even further. I can only hope one of these social experimenters realizes that, or perhaps one of the influential figures backing them might...
It would be far more intelligent and prudent to return to Jungian psychology on this matter—discussing the so-called inner feminine, the Animus, or the inner masculine, the Animus, or perhaps even introducing Yin and Yang concepts that aren't strictly tied to biological sex...
Western politics and the general political direction of the West is profoundly foolish and destructive.
Regarding that, and your experiment reminded me of this, I recalled a time back in the early days of the internet in America, when I met someone in a chat room who I really connected with—even though his nickname was male and my mental image of him was 😎
He was the sensitive, intelligent Yin, and I was the wild Yang (by modern terminology, does that mean he was a woman and I was a man? ... even though neither of us were biologically either 🙂 ).
Then, he got angry with me. He refused to talk to me anymore and would leave whenever I showed up. But to him, I was nothing more than my username (and whatever preconceived notion lived in his head). It turned out all I had to do was change my name to continue talking to this interesting being. First, I switched to another female name, but I didn't find real success until I returned as a male.
Isn't it tragic that in order to reach his soul, I had to "become" a man within a male body...?
There is a film by B. Streisand on this theme, and a novel by Erika Jong, but what I find puzzling is that the women in those stories—who disguise themselves as men for various reasons—still remain in love, as women, with the men who perceive them as men! That is the element that fails for me; it just isn't believable....