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Religion classes in school - Megathread in Students & Teens ·
I think I posted this in the wrong thread.
My focus isn't actually on religious education itself, but rather on children's rights, especially given some recent... situations involving that topic.
Of course, parents are primarily responsible for raising their children and instilling specific attitudes and values, yet it often feels as though children are treated as if they have total autonomy over certain matters.
It makes no sense to me for kids to attend religion class just because of social pressure. On the other hand, if attendance is mandated simply as a prerequisite for receiving sacraments, then that’s essentially coercion.
Furthermore, I can't wrap my head around the idea of threatening children with hell; that is truly the absolute rock bottom.
That said, I assume religion teachers follow a set curriculum and administer tests, and presumably, they are held to the same school standards and accountability as any other staff member.
There have been several instances where instructors ended up in court due to such absurdities—imposing personal views—and they are rightfully sued because teaching shouldn't involve intimidation or making someone feel inferior.
I was reading an article recently about a liberal cardinal from the USA who opposes aggressive prayer protests outside hospitals. He supports sharing the sacraments with those who are divorced but were married in the church, and he is "for" the LGBTQ+ community in the sense that he doesn't condemn them and wants to keep the church doors open to them.
Given the rise of these various "movements," I really don't understand how anyone can still use fear to intimidate children.
It seems to me that the church is opening up in all sectors and adapting to the modern world. I'm not sure if that transition holds much weight here in America, since our institutions still feel stuck in the era of the Inquisition.
As for my own experience: I didn't have religion classes in elementary school, but I did in high school. Even then, I don't recall anyone ever asking if I actually wanted to participate, though I know I lost interest in religious questions the moment I hit puberty.😁In high school, everything boiled down to the priest dictating while we took notes; even though I was an honor student, he refused to give me an A, stubbornly sticking to a B. To be honest, I frequently skipped class to grab coffee instead. The topics covered things like contraception and similar issues—not bad subjects, per se, but they were uninteresting to me because I learned all of that from magazines anyway.😁
Religion classes in school - Megathread in Students & Teens ·
Robert Rodriguez9 said:Feel free to take a look through this thread.

Does any religious education curriculum actually have a formal lesson plan on this topic?
Religion classes in school - Megathread in Students & Teens ·
rowdypanther12 said:Yeah. I’d suggest taking a closer look at what's actually being taught.

I can't really dive into that right now.
Could I get a little help here? Like, what should I be studying? Any specific topics?
Religion classes in school - Megathread in Students & Teens ·
rowdypanther12 said:Of course I'm worried about how this might affect my child; if I weren't afraid, I would have already enrolled her in 😂

Well... obviously, we aren't teaching children to be malicious or corrupt.
Any potential illusions are usually boiled away the moment they develop a sense of critical thinking.
Religion classes in school - Megathread in Students & Teens ·
rowdypanther12 said:No, I actually think it’s more harmful

I honestly think you're just afraid of him.
I read "Fear of Flying" twice—the first time I was just like, "WTF?", but by the second time, I was literally snapping photos and transcribing parts of it.
I’m positive that with you around, there's zero chance your kid will misinterpret or follow instructions from any random object. 🤓
And hey, if you give him a recipe for disaster and he ends up freezing up or acting out, then mission accomplished! 💪🏻 (That last part was a joke, no offense intended)
Religion classes in school - Megathread in Students & Teens ·
rowdypanther12 said:I’m talking about religious education, too. If a parent feels certain content is harmful or doesn't align with their values, they shouldn't have to let their child participate.

Is it really appropriate to compare religious studies and its curriculum to the psychological adventures experienced by the heroine in a novel by Margaret Atwood? 😁
Religion classes in school - Megathread in Students & Teens ·
rowdypanther12 said:I’m not really talking about the library itself, just the material they have on the shelves.
At the end of the day, parents are the ones responsible for what their kids are exposed to.

My apologies, I haven't caught up on the last few posts from last night or this morning, so I'm a bit lost regarding the context here.
I am speaking broadly regarding religious education classes... whether or not to enroll them if the child doesn't want to, or to send them if they do (though in first grade, they barely know what they want, and at that age, we can hardly consider it a meaningful choice).
Religion classes in school - Megathread in Students & Teens ·
rowdypanther12 said:So, you really believe adults should be the ones deciding what kind of content kids are exposed to?

Good grief, comparing this to a library is a completely different ballpark.
Has anyone here even looked into children's rights?
By "forcing" a child to attend or skip religious education, you are actively violating one of their fundamental rights.
How can you possibly draw a parallel between a library and this? Honestly, give me a break!
Religion classes in school - Megathread in Students & Teens ·
rowdypanther12 said:Do you think a seven-year-old should be allowed to check out any book they want from the library? For example, something like *The Fault in Our Stars* or maybe a book about phobias...

Oof
I wouldn't exactly expect to find Eric Jong or Henry Miller sitting on the shelves of an elementary school library.
They aren't exactly the best examples here...😵
Religion classes in school - Megathread in Students & Teens ·
Why make this so complicated?
What exactly are your children learning from you?
The first step should be asking your kids what they actually want. If they have an interest in religious studies, then enroll them; if they don't, there are plenty of other ways to handle it.
Why on earth are we placing all this emphasis on the school system or the instructors when the choice rests entirely with you?
Oh, please...
Stand by your own convictions instead of pointing fingers at everyone else!
Your child should have the sole right to decide whether they want to attend religious education or not, regardless of your personal views.
In fact, by forcing a child to either attend or skip these classes, you might actually be violating one of their fundamental rights as individuals!
Disowning a family member in Psychology ·
boldbadger20 said:I'm not entirely sure where this belongs, but I suppose I'm looking for some perspective on how people might handle a situation like this.

I'll keep this brief: a close family member, an armed robbery, and a conviction.

I guess I'm just wondering if, in your opinion, that person is still worth having in my life, or if any kind of relationship is even worth valuing anymore.

My father disowned me twice.
The first time was when I left my husband. My father only came back around once he finally understood what actually happened and why I made that choice—he didn't care about the "why" at the time; he only cared about the gossip. Now, he loves me.
The second time was because he found out I had coffee with someone who wasn't Catholic, but a Jew.
He even tried to turn the entire family against me just because I don't support the Republican Party.😁
I just tuned him out (besides, I live far away from them anyway).
Eventually, everyone came around; they love me, they're on my side, and they look forward to my visits.
At the end of the day: one good friend is worth more than an entire family. (Even if we are all "good" now 😁).
How I felt during those periods of being "disowned" doesn't matter; what matters is that I refused to let it break me in any way.