Project: Find a Friend (Classifieds / Meetup Thread)
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Anyone hanging out in KC?
Grabbing coffee, hitting some bars...
Grabbing coffee, hitting some bars...
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Robert Torres2 said:Hey there. My aunt has schizophrenia. She’s 65 and living alone. Her ex-husband usually helps her out, but he’s starting a new family and moving away, so he won't be able to look after her anymore. Things have gotten pretty intense—she actually attacked him with a knife a few months back, and she’s constantly getting into trouble. She’s already been declared legally incompetent. Honestly, social services aren't doing much to help; they're just hoping the ex-husband stays responsible, but he's leaving soon. She deserves a life, but my mom can't step in because she's elderly and struggles even to walk, so we really need an alternative. Does anyone know of any specialized care facilities for people in her situation? What’s the move here? It's just not safe for her to live alone or rely on one person, especially since she gets violent and loses touch with reality.
I'd love some advice. Please help.
Chloe Flores83 said:Hey, flying lady... how do you actually deal with all this stuff disappearing from the house, or things moving around and then random new items just showing up? Everyone assumes people with schizophrenia are just doing it themselves and forgetting, or they straight up don't believe it even happened. Do you have any other take on it?
Adam Morris4 said:It's not like I'm hearing an audible voice, though—you know, like in those movies about schizophrenia... It’s more like this *other version* of me—someone a bit tougher, maybe a little more cynical—is checking in. This "inner me" addresses me directly, almost like a coach, and we end up dissecting a situation or a person together. Or if I'm at the gym pushing through a heavy set, he’ll give me that mental nudge to hang in there. Honestly, I really hope I'm not dealing with some mild version of a mental health issue... I definitely don't want to end up being prescribed heavy-duty antipsychotics over some internal pep talks!
Mark Baker17 said:There’s still a massive amount of nuance to consider—everything from vaccine quality and storage protocols to general health,
immune system strength, and so on.
But, say you get vaccinated today, and then a few months later you actually get bitten by a rabid dog; well,
you'd likely just receive a couple of booster doses as a precaution... Five years is a rough estimate, I suppose, and
it's highly variable, because even after, say, twenty years, you might still have enough antibodies
to prevent the disease from taking hold if the viral load is low enough...
Harold Anderson3 said:Well, I was under the impression the vaccine lasted about a year, but now Mark Baker17 is claiming it lasts five years.
I suppose things probably changed again in the meantime, right?
@Mark Baker17/">@@Mark Baker17 thanks for filling in the gaps, anyway. 😉
Harold Anderson3 said:Exactly. About ten years ago, I actually got bitten by a bat on my hand. They told me I’d accidentally killed it, and if I hadn't, they would have sent it off for testing to see if it was rabid or not. But since I did, they had to force the treatment on me, even though it most likely wasn't infected. The post-exposure vaccine is incredibly pricey, but then again, rabies is basically a 100% death sentence, so my doctor wasn't about to take any chances.
velvetmoose9 said:Basically, this is just the standard protocol we should be following 👍
neonsailor26 said:Good morning, everyone.
So, two days ago, a tiny kitten gave me a little scratch (it’s a wound smaller than a millimeter—honestly, it’s basically gone already).
Now I’m sitting here wondering... what are actually my chances of catching rabies from this?
Is there any legitimate reason to be panicking right now?
And more importantly, can I just walk into a clinic and demand the rabies vaccine on my own initiative?
Thanks in advance for the help!
swifttrucker13 said:When you say it's "probably predetermined," does that mean there's actually a chance it isn't? Look, don't kill me, I'm no physics expert—I'm just trying to find some shred of proof that free will actually exists! xD
I totally get that, except for me, it’s turned into a full-blown obsession because of PTSD, and I’m genuinely worried I won't be able to snap back to "normal." If you don't mind me asking, what's your take on the whole free will thing?
I mean, sure, we don't *act* like robots, but that’s exactly how it plays out when you look at it through the lens of determinism. Honestly, everything just feels... colorless now. I'm seeing the world through a totally different filter and it's stripped away all that beauty—though, God, I really hope it doesn't stay this way forever. I've even scrolled through some forums where people argue that pride and guilt are completely meaningless under determinism, which just leaves me wondering... what kind of feeling actually matters anymore? If nothing counts, then what does? I feel like I'm literally losing my mind over this, if I haven't already..
swifttrucker13 said:Fair warning: this might trigger an existential crisis for some of you!
Hey everyone... I wanted to lay out my situation pretty quickly, and if anyone out there thinks they can offer some advice on how to snap me out of this current headspace, I’d really appreciate it. 🙂
So, here’s the deal—I’ve been dealing with OCD for as long as I can remember. I’ve cycled through basically every obsession and fear in the book, but this one feels... different. It feels worse. These days, it isn't even about the physical compulsions—like, I'm not necessarily tapping things or checking locks a dozen times—it's more like these constant mental rituals (pure O style). My brain is currently stuck on determinism and the whole "free will" debate. From what I've read online, most people seem to agree that free will is a myth, though there are always those outliers who argue otherwise. Personally? I think we probably don't have it, but there's still this tiny, nagging chance that we do. And that's the thing... it's all I've thought about for the last few weeks, and honestly, I'm terrified I'm going to lose my mind if I don't stop. I know, I know—I should just let it go because philosophers have been banging their heads against this wall for centuries without a real answer. But it feels so incredibly vital, like I *need* to solve this puzzle to move on. To make matters worse, I'm also struggling with depersonalization and derealization right now. I'm scared that I won't be able to look at the world or the people around me the same way anymore... like I'll just see them as these biological robots with zero agency. The determinists just have such much stronger arguments than the free will crowd, you know? So, yeah... if anyone has any tips on how to escape these existential loops, or if anyone else has been down this rabbit hole before? Thanks in advance.. 🙂
George Collins71 said:Look, I’ve got nothing to prove to anyone in the elite class during a Cross Country race. I'm just trying to put my best foot forward 😁 while actually giving your suggestion some thought... well, I suppose we'll see how it plays out, one way or another.🙂
Nicole Barrett76 said:If someone receives a diagnosis of schizophrenia only after multiple visits to a psychiatrist, I believe the likelihood of an error is relatively slim.
Then again, the soul is such an abstract concept, isn't it? It isn't like a physical ailment where you can point to a specific millimeter on your body and say exactly where it hurts and why, only to have it confirmed by an ultrasound or an X-ray.
However, if the diagnosis is made quite early—say, after only three or four appointments where the patient remains fully conscious and oriented—then I suspect the possibility of a psychiatrist making a mistake is significantly higher than in the previous scenario.
But please, do seek out someone with more experience than I am.
Rebecca Rivera3 said:Which essentially means we can't effectively treat that specific subtype of schizophrenia where negative symptoms dominate and positive ones are almost non-existent.
Rebecca Rivera3 said:Eglony is an antipsychotic, but I only take it some days and skip it others... I honestly don't know if I'll even go back to my psychiatrist. They want to switch me to different antipsychotics and seem to think I've completely lost it😵. Do you think the meds actually help? How can we ever tell if it's just a placebo effect that we're enduring all those side effects for?
Rebecca Rivera3 said:Interesting... when I first joined this forum, I wasn't expecting such silence. I'm not quite sure if that's a good thing or a bad thing. I'm trying to engage and stay busy with my daily routine... even posting here. I'm sharing my situation just to feel, for a moment, like it isn't actually happening. :-)
Laura Castillo6 said:Look, it’s true that antipsychotics hit everyone differently, but if you ask me, you two might have been slapped with a schizophrenia diagnosis based on some pretty shaky evidence. Honestly, though, even if the diagnosis is accurate, it doesn't seem to be having much of an impact on you guys, which is actually a good thing. You're going to recover; it just takes a lot of patience. I’ve always felt the brain does its best healing while we're asleep. Once you get back into a steady rhythm—you know, hitting that 10 PM to 6 AM sleep schedule, eating three solid meals a day, and getting some light walks around the neighborhood—your body will naturally start to bounce back. Antipsychotics can definitely drain your energy, but maybe try taking them only in the evening? On a side note, I personally tried Ginkgo Biloba extract and found it really helped my focus. You can find similar supplements at any local pharmacy, so why not give them a shot? Since you're already managing psych meds, I don't see what the harm could be in trying a little something extra.