What were your biggest pregnancy surprises and pet peeves?
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Brian Williams4 said:I saw something hilarious yesterday. I happened to overhear this pregnant woman chatting with a friend of hers. The friend was rubbing her belly, and then out of nowhere, the pregnant lady reaches over and starts petting her own chest. The friend just stood there completely stunned. 🤣 The woman tells her, "That’s actually how it feels when you rub my stomach. I'm not a fan." Total boss move. 😁
Peter Hall6 said:🤣 I still cannot 🤣 quite wrap my head around her saying "fur coat" instead of
chiara My boyfriend's mother just told me that boys are actually born earlier than girls. 😁
Laura Barnes42 said:It honestly gets under my skin when I'm fourteen years old and people start asking me where my stomach went, and what’s worse is that it’s usually people I actually respect and consider intelligent. It's just frustrating. I guess I just left it at home today, but maybe I'll bring it along for the family reunion. :-
hollowpilot92 said:I absolutely second everything written here!
I am still trying to wrap my head around what exactly is supposed to be "blissful" about this state, aside from the fact that we are literally bringing a new life into the world.
I just remembered all those comments about how "I need to keep a smile on my face because the baby can feel it" or how "black clothing isn't appropriate for pregnant women."
Hmm, I'm only just realizing now that not having to go into the office anymore isn't actually a bad thing.😂
Oh, tell me about it—some days, if my belly wasn't so massive, you wouldn't even realize I'm in my third trimester.
Kimberly Phillips6 said:I find myself genuinely irritated by those former and current expectant mothers who insist that I need to be out exploring everything and enjoying every second—claiming this is supposedly the most beautiful phase of my entire life.
Please, don't take this personally, but we aren't all cut from the same cloth; pregnancy isn't a magical experience for everyone, and frankly, some of us would much rather stay glued to the sofa—even at just 25 weeks—than wander around aimlessly.
Is anyone else feeling this way? 😁
Brenda Doyle5 said:Me. 😁 Even though—my first two trimesters were absolute hell. The first three months were pure nausea (I didn't vomit, but my stomach was constantly in my throat), everything bothered me, every smell was revolting... just awful. During the second trimester, I was still miserable—irritable, back pain, zero energy, exhausted... basically a disaster. But now that I've hit the third trimester, I actually feel great. Most women I talk to say they struggle during the 1st and 3rd trimesters and feel fine in the 2nd... though my condition could definitely take a turn for the worse. 😂 I lose my mind when someone starts lecturing me about the "blissful stage" or how beautiful this period is. I've had better times in my life, and I'll definitely have better times in the future. 🙂
Michelle Sanchez11 said:I suppose I should address what Brenda Doyle5 said earlier. It’s an interesting perspective, though perhaps a bit... optimistic? If that's even the right word for it. I find myself wondering if we are all looking at the same set of facts, or if we've just collectively decided to ignore the obvious inconsistencies. Maybe I'm being too cynical. It's possible. But then again, history usually suggests otherwise, doesn't it? Anyway, moving on.Greetings. 😍
I suppose I should probably mention that things have been... well, let's just say they haven't been particularly smooth lately. I guess there isn't much point in dwelling on it, though. Perhaps. It feels like everything is shifting underfoot, almost like trying to build something on quicksand, if that makes any sense. I might be overthinking it, but I can't help feeling that certain patterns are repeating themselves, even when we try our best to avoid them. It’s a bit exhausting, honestly. Not that I’m complaining—not really—but it is quite a lot to process all at once. Anyway, I'll get to the point eventually. I think. [Username] says:
It is quite a peculiar sensation, I suppose, when you find yourself anticipating one thing only to be met with the exact opposite. It’s rather taxing on the nerves. First, you're expecting a girl, and now, after all that, it seems you'll have to wait all over again to finally get a daughter. It is a bit much, I guess. 🙂
My situation is... well, it’s a bit different, I suppose. I already have a son, and now I’m nine weeks along with my next. It hasn't even been that long, but the comments have already started rolling in. People are always saying things like, "Oh, if only you were having a girl this time since you already have a boy," or, "And if it turns out to be another boy, well, I guess you'll just have to live with it—as long as the baby is healthy, right?" I guess they think they're being helpful, or maybe they don't realize how repetitive it all sounds. It's just... a lot. 🙂