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I’ve been thinking a lot lately about the psychology of the "big move." You know the type—when a team or even just an individual decides to go all-in, throwing everything they have into a single, massive gamble to reach the top. There is always that specific moment in the media cycle where the new face of the project stands up, looks the world in the eye, and essentially says, "Don't worry, we've already won."

On one hand, I get the necessity of it. If you’re stepping into a high-pressure environment where everyone is watching your every move, waiting for you to stumble, you can't afford to walk around with a shrug and a "we'll see" attitude. You have to project a certain level of inevitability. If the leader doesn't believe the outcome is a foregone conclusion, why should the fans, the front office, or the teammates believe it? There’s a certain magnetism to that kind of swagger. It’s the fuel that drives a culture. I remember watching old clips of legendary coaches and players from decades ago; they didn't just hope to win, they spoke as if the trophy was already sitting on their mantle, just waiting for the season to catch up to them.

But then there’s the flip side, which is what bothers me more often. There is a very thin line between supreme confidence and pure, unadulterated delusion. When a massive shake-up happens—when assets are moved, legacies are shifted, and the landscape of a whole organization is rewritten overnight—to immediately guarantee a result feels almost reckless. It ignores the sheer chaos of reality. Injuries happen, chemistry can be a disaster, and sometimes, you can have all the talent in the world and still find yourself staring at a ceiling because the pieces just don't click the way they did on paper.

I’ve seen this pattern play out in so many different arenas, not just in sports. I’ve seen it in business, where a CEO takes on massive debt to acquire a competitor and immediately starts acting like they've conquered the market, only to realize six months later that the integration is a nightmare. I’ve seen it in personal life, too—that person who makes a huge life change and declares they are "finally set" before the dust has even settled. It feels like a defense mechanism, a way to drown out the underlying anxiety of the massive risk being taken.

What really gets me is the "culture" aspect of it. We often hear about how a certain player or a certain leader "changes the locker room" or "sets a new standard." But can you really manufacture a winning culture through sheer force of will and a few bold statements? Or is true culture something that is built through the grind, the losses, and the slow accumulation of small wins? When someone walks into a new house and says, "This is now a palace," it doesn't make it a palace. It just makes them someone who is very loud about their expectations.

I wonder if we, as fans and observers, are actually complicit in this. We crave the hype. We want the superstars to tell us that the struggle is over and the glory is coming. We want to believe in the inevitability of greatness because it makes the tension of watching the process much more tolerable. It’s easier to buy a jersey when someone is promising a parade than when they are promising a hard-fought rebuilding year.

So, I'm curious what you guys think about this brand of bravado. When a major move happens and the centerpiece of that move starts making massive guarantees, do you see it as the essential spark needed to ignite a powerhouse, or do you see it as a sign of hubris that usually precedes a massive fall? Is it better to be the person who believes they can't lose, or the person who knows exactly how easy it is to fail?
High School Guide: Admissions, reviews, and advice in Students & Teens ·
Kate Jackson4 said:Lincoln High, AT&T, and Technical High School
Minimum points required at AT&T

thanks man!
High School Guide: Admissions, reviews, and advice in Students & Teens ·
Michelle Nelson4 said:Actually, no.
You’d still find that kind of specialization back in Technical High School (like the old General Electric vocational program)
Last year, the cutoff score for the final student admitted was somewhere around 69 points.

So that's pretty much the whole story?

Computer Technician: Is it just Technical High School and Isaac Newton, or am I missing other spots?
High School Guide: Admissions, reviews, and advice in Students & Teens ·
Mark Johnson12 said:My kid was really aiming for Ruđer, but it looks like his test scores are going to be cutting it just a little too close. He'll probably end up at Tesla instead.

Wait, so there isn't even a computer technician track over at Tesla?
High School Guide: Admissions, reviews, and advice in Students & Teens ·
Kate Jackson4 said:We visited a few technical schools, and both faculty and students agree—head to Ruđer, they're the gold standard 😁😁😁

So, I've heard about MIT, but what other top-tier engineering schools are you guys thinking about?
High School Guide: Admissions, reviews, and advice in Students & Teens ·
Kate Jackson4 said:Have you attended any Open House events at the schools you're eyeing? We visited three technical high schools recently and found them quite insightful; being able to consult directly with the faculty and students provides invaluable perspective. To me, the most critical factor is gauging the overall atmosphere to see if it truly resonates with your child—what suits one student might be a poor fit for another. If your preferred schools haven't held their Open House yet, I highly recommend going...

We have finally established our application priorities and decided which school 🙂
prefers.


Could you tell us a bit about where you went and what the experience was like? Like, what did you actually see or hear?

"We" are looking at enrolling next year, but we are totally flying blind when it comes to the technical schools—we don't really have anyone to ask for the real scoop.
Grading Freshmen in Students & Teens ·
shadowcrane91 said:See? In our case, she told us during the meeting that for Art, Music, and PE, the most important thing is just putting in the effort. She didn't even give us a specific grading rubric, other than saying if you try hard, you'll land a B or an A...
That's why I'm feeling more bummed out than actually angry...
I mean, even if that "bird" she drew looked absolutely nothing like a bird (even though she claims that's what it is), she should've given her a B just for trying, if not an A for some other reason.
I didn't even ask about the grade specifically; we talk about what they did in class every single day, so she just mentioned it while talking about my kid's work (even though I already knew what the grade was)....
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In our case, they went into way more detail about everything—like, the actual rubric and what they look for. Like, exactly what you need to be able to do or make to hit a certain grade. Honestly, I totally assumed my kids would get straight As in those three subjects—music, art, and PE 🥳—but boy, was I wrong. They've got Bs in PE (and there isn't anything they can't do, or so I thought!), but hey, at least the teacher wrote a nice note next to the grade explaining why it was a B instead of an A.
Grading Freshmen in Students & Teens ·
shadowcrane91 said:Honestly, I’m starting to get pretty worked up here...
So, my little girl struggles with reading—like, her literacy skills aren't quite there yet—so she ends up pulling some Cs, bombing tests, stuff like that...
But the thing is, their teacher is super intense. Like, hardcore strict. She hands out everything from D's to A's to everyone without blinking.
What really set me off today, though, was this C she got in Art Forum.
The prompt was: "The Return of the Deer"

Look, I’m not saying my kid is some next-level prodigy, let's be real, but a C in ART???
The kid is SEVEN years old!
Did she draw a bear instead of a long-legged bird, or did she totally miss the point, or what?
If it even remotely looked like a bird (and she *can* draw birds), I don't think a C is fair at all.
A C. In freaking Art. She's seven.
WTF??
(Or maybe I'm just being extra)

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We’ve got kids in our class getting Cs in Art too. One mom was just as pissed off (and honestly, I feel you), but during the parent meeting, the teacher explained exactly what they expect in subjects like Art (or Music, or PE). She laid it all out—what they actually need to do to succeed. Apparently, Frendic got a C because he wasn't cutting his shapes where he was supposed to, even though she probably told him ten different times how to do it properly.
Looking for a specialist... in Health ·
I think I'm in the right place here🤷
Hey guys, so I really need to get this mole removed. Where can I actually go to get this done right? Like, should I be looking at a specific hospital system or does anyone know a solid private specialist who handles this kind of thing? Honestly, if anyone has some actual, real-world info, I’d be super grateful 🙏🙏
Wedding cakes and desserts in Weddings ·
Nicholas Moore61 said:I'm planning on hitting that spot too... just waiting to see if I need to find a supervisor (saw some girl trying to push her way past the counter yesterday while everyone else was busy grabbing ice cream...)

Broadway is always a total zoo, so I might just swing by Zvonimir instead. People told me it doesn't even matter where you order from, but man, I really don't feel like fighting through a crowd at the counter, you know? You still gotta talk to someone and sort out the details anyway.
Wedding cakes and desserts in Weddings ·
Linda Adams8 said:🤣 🤣 🤣
Here’s my update: I'm laughing because just yesterday I was 100% certain I’d be getting a simple white cake with real roses... Then, I changed my mind. My partner and I decided to go with a heavily decorated one instead. It's stunning and definitely not "simple." He had some influence over the choice, but I wouldn't have budged if it wasn't 😍
The thing about the bakery in Vincennes is that the decoration is where they get you. They tack on an extra 20-50% just for the decor—and ours ended up being fifty percent more than that. They have this scheme where they can make a cake for 200 to 270 people, and we need enough for 250... We decided to get the one meant for 200 people, and the total price is $900. The lady there advised us to get a smaller one since there's supposedly leftover waste, especially since we'll have side cakes anyway. Since our venue covers the cost of a $333 cake, we have to pay an additional $567. Honestly, it seems fine to me because this cake is special.
Visually, it looks like three tiers, but it's actually six because every tier is a double layer.
Flavors: chocolate and Vincennes at the bottom, chocolate and vanilla parfait in the middle, and at the top (the part we'll actually snack on), Black Forest and fruit parfait.

Good grief, this is my longest post ever—consider this my full report.😉


Thanks for the update, it’s seriously thorough 😘
I’m heading in tomorrow to order mine, though I only need a small cake for maybe 40 people. I think it'll be two tiers. My maid of honor said she'd show me some pics, and hopefully, she'll give us some ideas too. What's the deal with the procedure at Vincennes? Like, is there a specific "lady" you have to talk to, or can you just walk up to the counter?
Wedding cakes and desserts in Weddings ·
Linda Adams8 said:We’re going to the Broadway spot. I was thinking about grabbing a Black Forest cake, chocolate parfait, vanilla... just something delicious for my partner and me since we'll be treating ourselves to that cruise.😁
Expect a report tomorrow night on how it went...

Man, I am seriously waiting on that report! Don't leave us hanging! Also, are you thinking about doing some fancy custom decorations on the cakes? I was picturing something totally snow-white, but can they actually take those standard cakes and just "re-dress" them in white frosting?😕
Wedding cakes and desserts in Weddings ·
Linda Adams8 said:We ordered the cookies about three months ago, and we’re heading out tomorrow to put the order in for the cake 😬 , even though the wedding isn't until June 2nd, 🙂 . Some lady over at Vinny told us it wouldn't be an issue...

Man, I’m actually hitting up Vincennes this Saturday too! Let me know which location you're aiming for—is it the one on Broadway or the one near Zvonimir? (I think that's the one). Does it even matter which shop you go to? Also, have you guys even decided what kind of treats you're getting yet?
Wedding cakes and desserts in Weddings ·
fadedfalcon8 said:Heard that too. A buddy ordered a cake from there once and it was killer regardless of who owns it now.

So, get this—I actually ordered a birthday cake for my brother from them just two weeks ago and it was totally awesome. Anyway, my godmother and I are heading over this Saturday for a tasting, so we'll see how it goes! I'm not planning on doing anything too crazy or experimental; I'll just see what they're offering, because I'm sure they've got some solid recommendations ready to go.
What about you ladies? What kind of flavors are you all thinking about getting? Like, fruity? Chocolate heavy.......
Wedding cakes and desserts in Weddings ·
Daniel Smith8 said:I had some cake from Magnolia Bakery at a wedding last summer. Honestly? Absolute perfection.
Dark sponge with cherries paired with a light one with strawberries. Topped with fondant—which I can't stand—but I still managed to polish off two slices. 😍

Anyway, my godmother and I are planning to order a cake this weekend, but we're totally stumped on what kind to go for. 🤔
Wedding cakes and desserts in Weddings ·
Hey, has anyone here actually ordered a cake from Vincek lately? Like, what’s the verdict? Any experiences or recommendations you can share?🙏