crimsonsailor2 said:It doesn't matter. Marriage is just a series of compromises. 😉 If you don't want the massive version, I'm leaning toward something smaller—it's more my style—and honestly, it sucks that nobody actually eats the food (everyone shows up to stare, but nobody wants to eat—typical). My guy isn't exactly a saint, but he agreed to the smaller setup the second I mentioned he could be a sailing enthusiast. Once I brought up the sailing thing, he was sold. 😁
See, I get a totally different vibe from brittle... whenever I've been to a wedding, it always seems to just get torn apart... personally, I live for brittle, even if I'm not really a huge cake person myself 😍
he agreed to it, but honestly, just so we wouldn't deal with any stupid comments from the guests....