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And how exactly would they approach the treatment? I’ve always had a bit of a distrust toward doctors, medication, and the whole medical establishment
Hi, I’m not quite sure why, but my thread was deleted from the general discussion board. It seems like this might belong more in the psychology section, though I wasn't sure if they could just move it instead
I have an issue regarding sexual intimacy
I’ve become obsessed with oral sex. I've been in a relationship for three months now, and the desire to perform oral sex on my partner is constant—it's always on my mind. Even right now, I can't stop thinking about it, but she's out running errands at the moment. We have a very active sex life, sometimes multiple times a day, and we both thoroughly enjoy it. However, my focus has shifted entirely; I find myself constantly craving oral sex rather than wanting her to perform on me. It's become a preoccupation. When I'm out in public, I catch myself evaluating women through this lens, wondering if I'd be interested in them in that specific way, which leads to more fantasies. On one occasion, I spent nearly four hours performing oral sex on a previous partner. I wanted to keep going, but she had to stop because it became too much for her to handle. She mentioned experiencing around five or six orgasms in that half-hour, and eventually, the sensation became overwhelming to the point of being sensitive to any touch. I am genuinely worried that my fixation will drive my current partner away because I can't seem to focus on anything else. It feels like I've lost control, and it's becoming quite distressing. How can I manage these intrusive thoughts?