Posts by Carol Murphy2

So I met this girl recently, right? We were vibing hard—she was definitely feeling me, and I was feeling her. But then she goes on about this "friend" she has who basically just treats her like garbage and uses her whenever he’s horny. That's it. And get this—she isn't even ready to dump him for a decent guy who'd actually treat her like royalty. She's just wasting her life away while the clock keeps ticking, and she hasn't even realized it yet. Once things hit the fan and she realizes what she lost, she'll come crawling back to me, I swear. Every single one of them does. By then, it'll be too late. Honestly, I'm not sitting around waiting. You gotta get out there and make moves.

Honestly, I think this is hitting you way harder than him—he’s got nothing to worry about since he’s doing just fine, so the real question is what *you* want. Are you looking to level up this relationship regardless of the baby situation? It feels like he isn't ready, and frankly, you don't know where you stand either. He clearly doesn't have 100% trust in you... I know from experience, I dealt with something similar once where I was head over heels for this girl who was a bit heavier than me, but I was constantly spiraling wondering if she actually loved me as much as I loved her. He’s obviously doubting your feelings and your intentions here. You wanted to bring him inside for a change, but he's terrified of getting stuck in a mess for the reasons we already talked about. Anyway, hope that helps a little.