Posts by Melissa Nguyen

Thanks so much everyone... 😁 seriously, a huge thank you🙂>

Thanks. So now, one of those popular girls is acting like everything is totally fine—talking to me like nothing ever happened. It’s honestly disgusting and so hypocritical (at least if you ask me). I’m not giving her even a 2% chance... she hasn't earned it from me. The only thing I can't figure out is how I'm going to handle walking into school tomorrow. Who am I supposed to sit with? Who am I even going to hang out with? Nothing about this makes any sense...😕

Thanks so much for all the kind words, everyone. I really hope they help me get through this 🙂

I can't believe I'm even seeing this again—it's like some people just refuse to learn from history... seriously. Every single time this topic comes up, we get the same tired arguments and the same lack of common sense. It’s exhausting, honestly. You’d think after everything we've been through, we could have a rational conversation about this without someone losing their mind over nothing—but no. Just when you think we've moved past this kind of nonsense, here we go again... turns out some things never change. kaže:
Look, everything I’m saying comes from my own damn experience—and honestly, I was just trying to help everyone out, but I ended up making a massive mess of things. It was a total disaster. Half the class was literally threatening me with death and beatings... lol. But you know how it goes—after like three periods of school, nobody even cared anymore, let alone a week or a month later...

And regarding that whole situation with your boyfriend—since you aren't exactly giving me all the juicy details—I’m not convinced that being a straight-A student is actually why everyone "dislikes" you... I mean, people don't just hate you out of nowhere, they wait until they have an excuse to actually despise you. It's just classic, petty high school jealousy—everyone is just sitting there, waiting for a single trigger so they can justify their attitude toward you. But honestly? My advice remains the same—just hold out until the school year wraps up. If you see absolutely zero improvement by then, then you can decide your next move...

So, about this whole boyfriend situation—I’m not even sure if it’s worth bringing up, but honestly, everything just started spiraling after this. And let me be clear, it didn’t start *because* of him—it’s just that those girls have been constantly belittling me and looking down on me for a long time now. I’ve just been sitting there and taking it until now... But what I truly don't get is why they feel the need to stick their noses in. If the two of us—me and the girl I was talking to about him—already sorted things out and realized he isn't even worth the breath, then what exactly is their problem? Like, why do they even care...

Hey... I'm 14, and I know this probably sounds like some typical teenage drama, but honestly, it feels horrific and I’m totally lost on what to do.
Adults always brush this stuff off as nonsense, but when you're 14 and everyone around you has basically turned against you, it sucks—it really does. I'm about to start 8th grade, and during our school trip, one of my "friends" started flirting with this guy she knew I'd had a crush on for ages. I actually talked to her about it—we were honest with each other and thought we'd cleared the air—but then the rest of the girls in my class just went absolutely feral. They started screaming at me, calling me rude and stuck-up, saying they didn't want anything to do with me anymore. It got so bad that they actually burst into my room during the trip and started yelling threats... telling me they'd literally break my neck. I went to my teacher to report it, and we had this big group sit-down, but it was useless—some said they'd make up, while others flat-out refused to even look at me. I feel terrible because of everything they said, and the worst part is that it was the "popular" cliques leading the charge—they've basically turned the entire grade against me, even kids who weren't even involved in the fight. Now, I don't have a single friend left in that class, which is just devastating. My parents are amazing and support me, but that doesn't make it any easier when I walk into school and have to watch people gossip about me right to my face or roll their eyes every time I open my mouth. I know I should be grateful for my parents, my straight A's, and being healthy, but I still feel so pathetic knowing that nobody in my grade wants me around or respects me. And get this—I was literally tutoring those same people in Chemistry and Math just so they wouldn't fail the grade! Please, if anyone has even a shred of comfort or advice, let me know... I'm feeling so depressed that I genuinely dread going back to school this fall.