Posts by frozenpuma12

hm.........!!? Look, just go ahead and do whatever you think is best for you, and honestly, good luck with all that.🙂
The only thing I’d ever disagree with is the idea of people dragging you into their own messy complications—the only thing a person should ever be getting themselves involved in is:

...just try this for a second: stand there, right in front of your child, look them in the eye, and take a moment to actually consider what they’re feeling or wanting in that exact instant. If you can manage that, everything becomes much simpler, because let’s be honest, we need to listen to our kids more often. We shouldn't fall into the trap of thinking everything has to go exactly according to the parent's script, because frankly, parents aren't always right, and we certainly don't have the final word on every single little thing in life. We really shouldn't be trying to manufacture miniature versions of ourselves; they are entirely unique individuals, completely separate from who we are...