Am I the only one to blame here?
in Psychology & Therapy ·
Look, the reality is that what went down between you two that night is something only you and him actually know. If you're looking for more specifics or some kind of outside confirmation, I don't think anyone else can give you anything more than he can.
If he didn't pressure you into doing something you didn't want to do, then we aren't talking about abuse here. Sure, maybe he took advantage of the fact that you'd had a few drinks, but if he didn't force himself on you or disregard your consent, that's a different story.
And as for the bulimia and anorexia stuff, honestly, you're the only one who truly knows what's going on with your own body...
If he didn't pressure you into doing something you didn't want to do, then we aren't talking about abuse here. Sure, maybe he took advantage of the fact that you'd had a few drinks, but if he didn't force himself on you or disregard your consent, that's a different story.
And as for the bulimia and anorexia stuff, honestly, you're the only one who truly knows what's going on with your own body...