silentnomad23 said:postercicu, I think you might have missed my point regarding vaginal assimilation. In this dynamic, the vagina ultimately holds the upper hand because it possesses the capacity to swallow, process, and then release, whereas the penis can only reach out toward it.
Even if we imagine a scenario where both anatomy types had teeth, the vagina would still prevail simply because its "mouth" is larger.
That old Freudian theory about the female castration complex was clearly penned by someone lacking the capacity for hyperperception—someone unable to truly imagine themselves inhabiting a body other than their own, or even stepping outside the constraints of body and time altogether.
If energy is fluid and constantly shifting, then it stands to reason that I am intimately familiar with what it feels like to "be" masculine. This explains why some women experience the sensation of a penis, just as some men possess the essence of a vagina. Personally, I find people with a blend of concave and convex traits far more compelling—those who aren't strictly confined to "typical" male or female archetypes and instead embrace a balance of both sides. On the other hand, I find those who cling to the extremes quite unappealing. For instance, looking at a user like yivanmukta, who presents himself as purely "convex," I find that approach somewhat off-putting, if not entirely repulsive from a sexual standpoint.
It is much easier to be passive and gluttonous than to be active and generous. Generosity drains a person because it is a form of self-sacrifice for the sake of the whole, whereas gluttony—much like peristalsis cleaning a vagina—serves only itself. It’s pure selfishness.
Freud is, summa summarum, the repository of all the deepest secrets of human psychology. To disparage him is essentially to disagree with one's own self. A person can simultaneously be "hyperperceptive," androgynous, feeling the essence of a vagina while remaining male, and vice versa. Therefore, the ideal state is whatever extracts the maximum from your being. There is no need to force oneself into rigid patterns just to satisfy some imagined notion of "universal sexuality."
The experience of certain women feeling as though they have a penis, or men feeling they have a vagina, is linked to brain androgyny and the harmony of energies—the anima and the animus. Perhaps that represents the most balanced personality in the realm of sexuality. However, I personally prefer a grain of true masculinity within my own world of hormonal cocktails, where I exist on the threshold of various sexualities. Physically, I am entirely male, yet my brain is somewhat androgynous, allowing me to fully identify with the act of having, of assimilating a vagina, without ever ceasing to be purely male for even a single moment. 😉