Posts by Harold Carter2

Jerry Newman3 said:Back in my psych classes, we touched on how things like eating disorders or interpersonal struggles can actually take root as early as one or two years old. It’s that stuff where parents might force-feed a child or push them into certain behaviors—it just stays lodged in your subconscious. I don't recall the specific details from my old notes, but if anyone is actually interested, I might dig through my notebook and see what I can find.

The core lesson we were drilled with was that everything a parent does leaves an imprint on the child—absolutely EVERYTHING.😁

frozenbison3 said:You can also end up with a potential emotional wreck—just in a different way—from parents who swing too far the other direction and jump at every single whim of their kid. You have to find that middle ground, but honestly? Nobody knows where that line is, or if they do, the general public certainly hasn't figured it out yet.

The absolute worst thing you can do is treat a child like they’re incompetent from the moment they can walk. If you constantly hover over them, refuse to explain how the world works, shield them from every experience, and avoid any semblance of a real conversation, you aren't "protecting" them. You're raising someone who will grow up completely incapable of independence, lacking basic social skills, and left feeling utterly bewildered by life itself.🤷
You have to guide them, talk to them, and demonstrate your affection through action; only then can you sit back with a smile and watch them navigate the world on their own.😉
Now, obviously, being extra vigilant with a sick child is perfectly fine—but once they’ve recovered, you need to return to treating them like a normal human being.

rowdyheron80 said:Well, I’ve given some thought to getting a laser, Lisa Allen19, but let’s be realistic—you need a massive bankroll to make that happen. Since I’m currently footing the bill for my own tuition and rent, things are a bit tight right now... Don't you think it's a bit harsh? It feels ugly and judgmental; wouldn't any decent person hesitate to criticize someone over something like that?

Don't worry about it; nobody is judging you, not even us.😉

I honestly think some laser hair removal would solve all your problems... I mean, permanent hair removal, just a few sessions for your legs, arms, face, and bikini area, and you'd be set. You're looking at roughly $1333 for the legs alone... I know that sounds like a massive amount of cash, but honey, it's a small price to pay for peace of mind. As for the rest of how you describe yourself, you don't sound like an eyesore—well, except for the hair situation, but thank God that’s easily fixed these days without any drama... good luck...
p.s. And let's just say having a high libido isn't exactly a bad thing (at least for your boyfriend)😁