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It’s awful. But honestly, that’s just how it goes with everything else. If I had a scar on my back, I’d probably be stuck explaining it too...
I’m just wondering how you get rid of people who think a pregnant woman owes them every single detail—from her OBGYN appointments to what happens in the bedroom, the bathroom, and every other private moment...
Just adding my two cents here... after skimming through the messages, it seems to me this isn't just about hormones. It’s about people who think they can get away with anything just because they see a pregnant woman. Seriously, what is wrong with people?! I’m not sick, I haven't lost my mind, and I’m certainly not overweight! 😠
I don't know why it happens. Neither I nor my girlfriends ever felt the urge, yet there are people who just love touching a pregnant belly. And I'm not talking about close family—I mean acquaintances or even total strangers!!! Every time I see someone like that smiling and reaching out toward me, I literally cringe. The problem is I often don't react fast enough, so I end up dwelling on it for hours afterward.
Oh, and yeah! My breasts have grown, so what?! That shouldn't be up for discussion, especially not those comments from guys like—"Holy crap! How big are those?!"—right in front of my mom or my partner... Honestly, I just want to ask: what gives?! You want to touch them too, you jerk!!! 😠
But honestly, the absolute worst is hearing—"Damn! Look how big you got!" grrrrrrrrrrrrrr.... What am I even supposed to say? Especially when some woman or mother says... "Aaaah, you're already getting fat," accompanied by that mocking smirk that just makes you want to die...
So, I'm curious—how do you all deal with this? I've always been the type to come home and replay scenarios in my head—thinking of the perfect comeback or how I should have reacted if they said this or did that. But now, I'm at a point where I just can't tolerate it anymore...😕