Posts by Chloe Kern82

It isn’t that I’m getting worked up, brightorca46, it’s just that I find myself utterly baffled by people—truly, why is there such a pervasive desire to inflict pain on others?
At the end of the day, my only concern is that he’s safe and sound; after everything I’ve spent my time waiting for, that is quite literally the only thing that matters to me...
And honestly, who cares about the rest? It doesn't matter what else happens,
I simply cannot fathom how some people can be so incredibly thoughtless.

Sigh... I received one of those comments after mentioning it’s a boy, and honestly, it was just exhausting. It’s always the same repetitive cycle—people insisting they would have preferred a girl, or acting as if my preference for girls matters to them. At the end of the day, my only real concern is that the baby is born healthy and strong, which is what truly counts. I simply cannot wrap my head around people who feel the need to broadcast their unsolicited opinions like that; if you’re so dissatisfied with the gender, then by all means, go off and have your own children. Why on earth should they care about the sex of a baby that isn't even theirs? It's as if I'm out here birthing children specifically for their personal approval. So, there you have it—just one more piece of evidence that even when it's a boy, things aren't always perfectly idyllic for everyone involved.