What were your biggest pregnancy surprises and pet peeves?
in Pregnancy ·
Tyler Ramos said:It’s finally happening... I am officially DONE with everyone
... In a perfect world, I’d just disappear with my son and my partner for the next two months, where my only responsibilities involve hitting the shops, sleeping, and eating good food.
Honestly, anyone who dares to get within twenty feet of me should probably just stay away.
I’ve reached my absolute limit.
They keep asking me the most mindless questions, offering "advice" that I’d much rather shove right back down their throats, and stirring up drama that does more harm than good. To top it all off, everything they say—if it isn't an outright provocation—feels like one.
Just two more months to go... 🙂
hahaha, I second that... I’m at week 18 and everyone is driving me crazy... anyone who notices I’m pregnant feels entitled to spend the next half hour detailing their own pregnancy experience... I can't deal... everyone is an expert advisor... if I mention feeling terrible, they immediately counter with, "Well, when I had horrible morning sickness, I couldn't even get out of bed until last week"—but then they claim that despite the nausea and vomiting, they were still running the entire household. My grandmother told my husband today how she felt sick too, but she was still out there doing laundry by hand at the sink...🙂...and apparently, my mother had it even worse because that same grandmother didn't help her at all🙂...of course, she'll only say that once she's gone... my mother-in-law said she was practically deathly ill from vomiting when she gave birth... my neighbor... blah blah blah... I realize my hormones are totally messing with me... and that I really should just chill out... but self-control is hard to find right now... sometimes I just want to fire them all—though, naturally, I'm immediately hit with guilt... oh, the HORMONES...🙂...but seriously, I don't understand why they can't see that I'm pregnant and could use a little grace... instead, they just insist on pushing their own stories... first my mom lectures me about driving, then my grandmother tells me about some girl in the neighborhood who drove until her very last day... ugh, enough...
I know it's mostly me... but people really are impossible sometimes.😁😁😁😁