Posts by Harold Wright8

Michael Roberts7 said:So, according to your logic, just because she gave birth to me, she has the right to completely crush my spirit or even kill me? Because supposedly, she's doing it all for my own good!

I honestly believe a mother who blames and criticizes everything about someone is actually dealing with her own deep-seated issues or her own life struggles. And frankly, I think you might be struggling too, because this way of thinking is just extreme. Some people are extremists regarding their faith, but you've become an extremist regarding your mother!
Did she drill this mindset into your head while you were growing up, or did something happen between you two that left you unable to make peace before it was too late, leaving you with such a bitter perspective and a heavy conscience?

you're starting to get insulting 😉 but whatever. I don't have a problem with myself and I haven't said anything bad to the girl. I'm just saying she needs to chill out because she's clearly stressed. My mom raised me the best she could and I'm grateful to her. I don't drink, I don't do drugs, and I don't insult people 🙂 . Read what I wrote above—I told her that making mistakes is part of life, to calm down, study, and things will get better...
I don't know why everyone is attacking me...
peace

boldwalker12 said:And what, is that some kind of universal truth now? Clearly, you’ve got some serious mother issues going on. Let's be real: no one on this planet can mess up a kid quite like a mother can. There, I said it. So much for your "wisdom." 😉

Look, regarding your comment—honestly, everything you said is just noise. Your way of expressing yourself is absolutely terrible... but as for me, I am a Muslim, and as I know from other faiths, respecting your parents is mandatory. A mother simply cannot hate her own child.
I don't care what you have to say,
have a good one.

Michael Roberts7 said:I'm sorry, but at the end of the day, a mother is just a human being, flaws and all.

And people claim a mother's love should be unconditional, but if it isn't, shouldn't we have the right to question it?
In this particular situation, it seems more like she’s preoccupied with her public image than actually looking out for her sick child.

You don't get to question that. Even when a mother yells at you, she's doing it because she cares. Sure, she might get pissed off about some random nonsense—whatever, that's just life.

All those pains you’re feeling? It’s all in your head. You’re living in a constant state of high stress and nothing else. The core of your problem is just pure anxiety. Look, I’m currently retaking my sophomore year at State University, and let me tell you, failing a year sucks. But you have to realize this is just a minor setback to prep you for the real world. If you don't face a failure, you aren't a real student 🙂
. Pain anywhere in your body can be a direct result of stress and tension from these situations. Just pick up a book, relax, and things will get better
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p.s. NEVER speak ill of your mother, and NEVER doubt a mother's love!