Keith Allen4 said:I'm sorry, but— 😲😲😲
we are living in the 21st century... with every single advanced form of birth control available to us, I honestly can't wrap my head around how you let something happen that you didn't even want, and then you're telling me you have to *force* yourself to love your own child...
I really wish I could unread that...
I think you completely misunderstood Scott Rodriguez2's post.
In my view, there is such a thing as building love over time. For example, you might not feel an instant spark with your husband the moment you meet him; instead, that affection grows steadily.
It’s the same with a baby. That's why we carry them for nine months—to prepare ourselves and build that connection. But the deepest bond often happens during birth and in the days immediately following.