Posts by Brian Lopez9

Michael Martin4 said:So, a coworker of mine just had a baby after being with her partner for seven years. 😁

It feels like everyone is constantly breathing down my neck, asking when I’m getting married, or if I’m pregnant, or when the wedding is even happening. Honestly, it used to drive me crazy, but I’ve already done some digging online 😉 and I just don't get why people think those two things have to go hand in hand. ☕

Though, if you ask me, I highly doubt it was some total accident... they probably just let their guard down regarding protection (after seven years together, right?) and she likely knew there was a decent chance a baby might "happen." Who knows, though.🤷

The thing that drives me absolutely insane is when people ask, "So, what now? Are you guys getting married just because?"
It makes it sound like I accidentally ended up pregnant and now I’m being forced into a wedding at lightning speed!
I mean, seriously—how much of an idiot do you have to be to have a "surprise" baby after you've been together for seven years?
I honestly hate hearing those comments; I don't even feel like explaining myself to anyone... but I just can't wrap my head around the fact that nobody seems to grasp that we've been in this relationship for seven years already. We had already agreed to get married—it just wasn't happening *this* year—but we decided we wanted a baby right now! And that's it, end of story—I'm already worked up all over again. 😉