Posts by slyfalcon7

granitefalcon26 said:That’s exactly what happened to me during my college days.

How on earth did you deal with that?

Edward Murphy4 said:Look, at my college, being a total loner was actually pretty standard.
People mostly just hung out in tiny little cliques—like pairs or maybe groups of three.🤣 And honestly? Whoever you bonded with during freshman year, that was basically your crew for the next four years. That was it.😁
You didn't really see these big, outgoing social circles...

But hey, flying solo isn't exactly "normal" or even a good move either. If you stay too isolated, you eventually just drift away from the whole campus vibe.

I have no idea how I’m going to pull this off. I’m super introverted and I hate talking about my personal life, and like you said, everyone else seems to have their own tight-knit group. It makes me feel like some kind of extra, just hanging around waiting for someone to notice me... it's exhausting. Just like what you mentioned, I'm genuinely terrified that I'm going to lose all my motivation if I can't find my footing.