Posts by Brenda Sullivan59

Nothing gets under my skin more than unsolicited advice... Suddenly everyone thinks they've got an MD and a specialization in OB-GYN... when they don't have a clue what they're talking about 😳

They finally realized their behavior was just doing more harm than good... so they actually looked past the superstitions for once...

In the end, they let me see her at the funeral home. I gave her a kiss and told her I forgave her. Honestly, seeing her one last time just made things easier for me. Though, man, when I walked out of there, I felt totally wiped—like my legs had been cut from under me. But whatever, it was still better this way...

I went to the viewing, too...

Superstitions. I absolutely hate them... I lost my mind the other day... 🙂
So, my grandma—who I basically lived with for 24 years—passed away... 😢
And because of some stupid superstition, they wouldn't even let me see her...
First off, they waited five hours after everyone else to tell me. Naturally, I totally lost it. Like, you aren't allowed to cry or get worked up? Well, I did exactly that. Just a complete mess... 🙂 🙂 🙂

Then I hear someone whisper from the side: "Well, pregnant women shouldn't be attending funerals anyway." 🙂
Yeah, good luck trying to stop me from doing that... 🙂

Nathan Lee said:Man, I actually got into a huge argument recently with this "veteran" type. He hit me with his bag first, then told me to get up for some old lady. Even though I don't have a baby bump, I was feeling really nauseous at the time, and I had just stepped away from a woman wearing a super irritating perfume. It was such a mess... I told him there are plenty of younger women who aren't pregnant either, so he actually demanded proof that I was pregnant and called me a liar. I felt so bad because I had to transfer to another bus right at that stop near Target, and he was shouting after me, saying, "See? She's lying—she's just a college student!" He basically made the whole bus look at me... it was so embarrassing.

Jesus Christ, what even is this? What kind of lunatic... 😲

Megan Lopez62 said:Megan Lopez62

This gave me a great idea—from now on, I think I'll just carry an ultrasound photo and a few medical papers in my purse. If I'm already carrying fifty other things, what's two or three more?

Solid idea. 😂

cosmiccrane15 said:My breasts are killing me... I feel like I'm dying already—and honestly, I'm terrified about what breastfeeding is going to be like if they're stinging and burning this badly right now. Everything is just... cracked and raw everywhere.😢

Ugh, since we're venting—mine hurt so bad that whenever I have to walk down stairs, I actually have to hold them just to get through it... the pain is unreal. 😳

silentraven6 said:To add to this whole wave of collective disbelief: first they were shocked I actually had a boyfriend, then they couldn't believe he actually loved me, and then—of course—they acted like my pregnancy was some huge revelation...

And then came the inevitable line: "Oh, so you guys only got married because of the baby."

So now, apparently, we’re just together for the kid (and I guess this next one is just a total coincidence, right?)

But honestly? I’ve always said if you’ve got something worth showing off, let them talk. If people want to make up their own little stories about us, let them.

Honestly, these reactions are comedy gold... I've dealt with my fair share. Everything from "Wait, how are *you* pregnant?" to people actually asking, "Are you going to keep it?" 🙄

Same thing with weddings... One girl actually told me, "Why make such a big deal out of a wedding? Just do a quick courthouse thing." I was just like, look, I'll marry however I want, and you do you. Some people are just ridiculous... 🤣

Suddenly everyone’s an expert on my life—giving me endless advice. Don't do this, try that, did you even think about doing this instead? Like, seriously? Just let me make my own calls for once. Stop micromanaging me. 🙄

And while we're talking about things that get under my skin—mood swings are the worst. But honestly? Nothing irritates me more than mm. The most infuriating thing happened recently—he started watching this movie that was just straight-up garbage. (Total trash, total trash... and here I am thinking cinema is actually an art form) Still, even then, it wasn't enough to truly blow a fuse. 😂