Posts by Linda Ramos66

Henry Davis5 said:Honestly, those hyper-enthusiastic moms drive me crazy. They act like their kid is some kind of perfect little saint and expect everyone else to be on the exact same page. Like, sorry, my kid isn't a carbon copy of yours.

I think that’s actually what gets to me the most. 🙂

gentlesailor2 said:People like that are honestly the worst. They don't see you for years and then suddenly think they have the right to judge your looks or your weight...

But seriously, what's your take on having a kid out of wedlock?! Quincy, Quincy! 🙂 Do you need to call some advocacy group to get directions? 🙂

God, I'm actually embarrassed. 🤣😂

Patrick Chase19 said:I almost forgot about this one—everyone rolls their eyes when I say I’m heading to the DMV solo since everyone's obsessed with going in groups lately—but honestly? Let them roll their eyes! I'll show them all! 😂

😂😂 Just this already?! Oh my gosh! Honestly, the best part is when we say we’ll "probably" get married once the baby is baptized—and that I'm totally keeping my own last name! 🙂 So like—what are you even planning to do with that now??? 🙂 Look, I’m definitely not famous—but by the time all this actually goes down, I'll be 37... and honestly? I just can't imagine anything other than signing off and being done with it! 🙂

In America, there's a chance we might not baptize the little one immediately, or maybe not at all. I'm fine with it, honey, really, but eventually... I have a feeling it'll happen 😲 once the grandparents hear about it 😂

Sandra Allen3 said:It honestly drives me nuts when people ask "how are you?" and I give them a simple "good," only for them to just go dead silent. It’s like they’re waiting for me to launch into some huge dramatic monologue about how my life is falling apart, how everything hurts, or how I can't handle anything... as if I'm just fishing for pity or something.
And then there's my mother-in-law. She's being such a pain because my oldest isn't starting daycare for another two months, and she spends every single damn day lecturing me. She keeps insisting I won't be able to handle looking after her, saying I need to "rest" constantly, and acting like being pregnant while trying to watch a kid who just wants to run around, get dressed, grab a drink of water, or hit the bathroom is some impossible feat. Like, wtf? How would she even know how I feel? If she's so worried, maybe her mom should just drop the kid off every morning and pick her up after work, so I can deal with a sleep-deprived, cranky toddler all afternoon. Honestly, thanks but no thanks ☕
To top it all off, she’s got this "brilliant" idea where she tells the little one, "Oh, once Mommy has the new baby, you'll just stay with me all day long." Yeah, right. As if that's a good thing. It’ll probably just make her feel even more rejected once the new baby actually arrives ☕

Honestly, I don't get why people think they can just drop these kinds of comments like they're helpful. You've been handling things fine with your girlfriend, so why wouldn't you be able to manage both her and a newborn? I get that most of them mean well, but they really need to learn when to just shut up.

So, yesterday I ran into this childhood friend after basically a whole year. We were tight from when we were little kids all the way up to about seventeen... anyway, she spent the entire time tearing me apart. My weight, my body, my hair—everything. And there was this specific tone in her voice, like she was low-key mocking me... I don't even know how to put it into words. It’s not like I’m actually upset or anything, since she doesn't really matter in my life anymore, but man, after that whole "critique" session, it just makes me think about how much people suck and how they just love sticking their noses where they don't belong and acting like they know everything.
She even had the nerve to suggest I should just go ahead and get married, maybe even a quick courthouse wedding or something.
Excuse me?! Like, why is that your business? What kind of comments are those, seriously... 😲
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